My girlfreind of a 2 months recently broke up with me. Its been about a week since I've talked to her and just yesterday I asked her to hang out as freinds.I know that 2 months isnt a long time but I still really like her and wanna get back together with her but she said she just wants to be friends, and I dont want to be clingy.And I tried getting over her but everything thats around me reminds me of her .And I only like wanna see her b/c I miss her like crazy. So what should I say , act like and do when we hang out.
2007-01-05 16:31:36 · 16 answers · asked by Titans 1101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you feel more for her than friendship, she'll know. Likely she'll feel awkward as she has told you she only wants to be friends. I'm a believer that everything happens for a reason. If you're meant to be together, love will find a way. It's corny yes, but it is absolutely true. If you truly believe that you are meant to be together, make it clear to her that you care about her and why. If she wants to only be friends, let her have her space. It is beyond difficult to get over someone you love, and sometimes time and keeping yourself busy are the only options. Have faith that all will work out as planned. If she isn't the one, it opens the door for "her" to slip in.
Good luck.
2007-01-05 16:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you hang out with her, you're only going to miss her more, not less, and any interest she shows in any other guys is going to drive you crazy. Since 2 months is too much for you to be away from her I'll guess that because you think 2 months is 2 months too long, that you're 20ish if that. Give yourself a year and if you still feel the same way you owe it to yourself and her to put your cards on the table and figure it out once and for all. But two months? You're on the rebound, dude, and 2 months is not long enough to decide anything. Give yourself time to move on.
2007-01-06 00:39:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's some advice that is hard to take, but regret is the result if you don't. Cancel the hangout date immediately! Get off you rear and go out and meet some people. Why? Because if you make this hangout date you're dooming every chance of getting her back. If you make this hangout date it's going to show that you WANT and NEED her (which unfortunately isn't far from truth).
Now the paradox and the irony at this stage is that needing her approval, kissing up and following whatever lead she takes will definately NOT cause her to have a gut level attraction for you ever again. And, something tells me she left because you were starting to seem a bit clingy, a tad wuss.
2007-01-06 00:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by Heaven's Messenger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a hard situation but you have to give her space and move on. It is best not to hang out with her right now until enough time has passed where you are not fixated on her. Hang out with friends or your family, something to take your focus off of her. You will find another girl, trust me, and you can use this relationship as a learning tool.
Just keep your head up, be polite to her, but dont try to hang on if she has clearly moved on. Good luck!
2007-01-06 00:37:00 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Healing takes time I remember taking about a whole year to get over someone. But being friends with her is not such a good idea get over her first because you will just be hurting youself everytime you see her. It'll just remind you that her is the girl I have feelings for and still can't have. So being friends now is not advisible.
2007-01-06 00:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should get a new chick man. You only dated her 2 months calm down. Plenty of chicks don't gop crazy over just 1. Everytime you miss her just remember she doesn't miss you. She doesn't want you thats why she broke up with you. Save yourself the time and pain go find someone who wants to be with you.
2007-01-06 00:35:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
um well if this girl says she only wants to be friends she could mean it there is 2 things u can do.
1. talk to her and ask if she still has feeling for u and find out what she thinks.
2. u really need to try and get over her go out with another girl that u will like even more.
good luck!
2007-01-06 00:36:42 · answer #7 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she broke it off, there's a reason why. I'm not saying your a bad guy, but it's not likely that her reasons will suddenly change, and all will be well. Follow the advice of the other people here, and move on. I'm not sure how old you are, but there's always other fish in the sea - you just need to keep fishing.
2007-01-06 00:36:20 · answer #8 · answered by Spiderman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself. it may take more than 2 months to get over her, but it will happen eventually. Think of it this way, it's better to have her as a friend than not have her in your life at all. if you need to, take some time to be away from her, just long enough to get things good again. if i gotta go but if you need anything else, IM me on Yahoo Messenger, ill put my ID at the bottom. I'm a good person to come too when it comes to relationships. anyone else who needs help also feel free to IM me...
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2007-01-06 00:42:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's best to respect her feelings and move on. If you are not ready to see her as just friends then it's best you keep a distance until you are ready to be friends. Time will heal all wounds
2007-01-06 00:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋