Mmen - Is he not that interested in seeing me?

Question

Two months ago I told this guy to stop talking about getting together with me. Although we still talked about personal stuff, we stopped flirting. In the meantime I started wanting to see him again. He works with me but lives out of State.

Last week, during normal work conversation, he casually tells me he is going to be in my town next month on work travel. I just continued our conversation and didn't say anything about getting together. I didn't want to appear to be pursuing him.

This week I told him that I was travelling to work in his city and asked if he was going to be in town. He told me he would be in town and then said maybe I'll see you.

By asking him if he is going to be in town, is it obvious that I meant that I want to see him when I am in town? Should I just assume that he isn't interested in seeing me?

Answer 1

Here's a thought for you... quit playing games and talk to him. No hinting games, no beating around the bush... just tell him what you're thinking... it doesn't have to be a commitment. Just two people who know and like each other who might be interested in exploring possibilities.

Answer 2

As a lady, you have the right to be in control of this relationship. Why, you have the most to lose.
Just wait for him to make the next move and keep him in your cross hairs, and have your father tell him," if he is faster than a bullet."

Grandpa

Answer 3

OK you tell the guy you don't want to see him then you want to. You chicks do nothing but whine about stuff you start. Waaaahhh he's doing what I told him. Stop playing games.

Answer 4

He's playing the game like you are. He wants to see you.

Answer 5

Why don't you just be an adult and say what you mean instead of playing high school games?

Answer 6

*** to Ottawa & see me instead gladly play doctors & nurses with you. Then when I am bored you can go home.

Answer 7

yup.