Family & Relationships - 4 January 2007

Ok..here goes. Im newly single after 18 yrs of marriage, Im getting back into the dating scene but am not clear on "grooming" down there. Ive always wanted to do it but dont really know what the norm is?? Thanks!!

2007-01-04 04:27:45 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but she has a slight drinking issue. Should I waste my time with her, also she is approx 15 yrs younger than me.

2007-01-04 04:27:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

been chatting 4 six months jus wondering if im wasting my time or not new to the internet * there has been no cyber or camming so idk lol

2007-01-04 04:27:20 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy I know just doesnt get it that I dont want to date him, even after I have told him over over!!! Help!!

2007-01-04 04:25:39 · 36 answers · asked by collegegalok 1 in Singles & Dating

We worked very hard to be together and i love him with all my heart but sometimes i have doubts bout are relationship working. Is this normal. I've never felt so in love and he;s so good to me.

2007-01-04 04:25:35 · 8 answers · asked by Nicole 1 in Singles & Dating

My catholic church that i used to belong to as a kid said i have to register with a catholic church in Fl. what do i do because the timeframe is about 5 months until the wedding and they say we have to do marriage couseling and the such, any help is appreciated.

2007-01-04 04:24:02 · 11 answers · asked by matteo f 2 in Weddings

so i know the whole he's not into you thing. The guy I'm (air quotes) currently seeing isn't into me and i can feel it. I've seen him like 3 or 4 times in two months. I don't call him because I don't want to appear needy.his phone calls to me are very sporadic. I don't want to start the new year like this. should i just tell him at this moment in his life he has too many things going on and we sholud end it

2007-01-04 04:23:07 · 9 answers · asked by sweet_journey 2 in Singles & Dating

11 yr old arrested a few weeks ago "drunken in public" and now in the hospital for a 0.175 alcohol level. Great grandparents both have heart problems and this child makes her GG cry on a daily basis. Very concerned of the medical state of GG's. 11yr old cusses and verbally abuses GG's on a daily basis. Thrashes room an sneaks out of the house to get booze. Found in backyard last night unable to walk, "drunk". 11 yr old has been in County counceling for at least 2 years, has not helped. GG very introverted and not able to express problem correctly or completely. Officials will not let anyone else speak on her behalf. HELP!!!!

I am the daughter of GG and very very concerned. I've tried to talke my mother to give her to me since she was 3 to no avail. Now I don't even think I can handle her now, I also have a 13 year old to think about.

2007-01-04 04:21:33 · 8 answers · asked by angelsmom93 1 in Family

2007-01-04 04:21:08 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-04 04:21:08 · 18 answers · asked by angle f 2 in Singles & Dating

Well my girlfriend said she loved me real early in the relationship(two weeks in)and i said i love you too but now i regret it.Its 2 months later and shes says it to me all the time,i like her alot how do i know its real?

2007-01-04 04:19:52 · 23 answers · asked by michael j 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been seeing/talking to this person for about 5 months and im so confused right now and confused weve never met and the 1stt time we were suppose to meet he dindnt make it bc he had other stuff come up or so he says now its almost time for us to meet again and i dont no if hes trying to back out of it or what its the same exuse he used last time well sort of this time its bc he dont have bc he was off from work for awhile bc of the holidays? so for u readers out there what do u think i should do ?

2007-01-04 04:19:47 · 11 answers · asked by nlovewithsomeonewhosnotmine 1 in Singles & Dating

ok.. here's the story in a nutshell...

- my mom & dad divorced after 25 yrs. of marriage last year
- my mom has a drinking problem
- both of my parents are remarried
- my parents still talk to each other behind their spouse's back and it's driving me and my brother crazy
- when my mom gets drunk she won't stop talking about my dad and acting like she is going to leave her husband
- my brother doesn't want his kids around my mom because of her drinking.

... I live in another state while my brother lives right near my mom. I am not there when the drama goes down and I feel bad for my brother.. He asks her not to drink on days when she will see my nephews but she still does. She is not physically addicted to alcohol.. why won't she stop???? she has always put my dad before us and now she is putting alcohol and my dad before her own husband and grandkids. Can anyone help me with how to approach the situation???

2007-01-04 04:19:02 · 22 answers · asked by me myself and I 1 in Family

for christmas my bf got me a bunch of thongs, panties, pantyhose, nylons, g strings, bras, and nighties. he says he just ran into a good seller in the women's dept... but i dont know. it kinda weid. i didnt ask for any of this stuff...

2007-01-04 04:18:53 · 16 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 04:18:52 · 18 answers · asked by metal_soccer 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so my ex and I broke up about 2 months ago. Last night we had a conversation and she told me that she loved me but wasnt inlove with me anymore. SHe said that if I were to change she wouldnt mind falling in love with me again. I was hurt ofcourse but I told her that I was going to try to win her over. She told me thats fine but just dont come to her job. I wanted to bring her flowers but I figured that wouldnt be a very good idea. I know that Im not ready to see her. I sent her a rose and a teddy bear she works at the front desk at a gym so I know she will get it and it won't cause problems. Do you think this was a good or bad idea?

2007-01-04 04:18:23 · 26 answers · asked by ImOuThEreUdigg!! 3 in Singles & Dating

we are friend with eachother for 2 years. i do really love him. 3 months ago he told me that he wants to marry with another girl. he told me that he doesnt love her and they werent friend with each other. his mother told him to get marry with that girl. he said he cant marry with me because of some political problems! i wanted to end my relationship but he didnt accept. and told me he doesnt marry yet! all of his families member see me. he is famous, handsome, rich and politician. what should i do? can i do s.th that he accept to marry with me?

2007-01-04 04:16:01 · 14 answers · asked by afsoon 1 in Friends

i hope i spelled that right

2007-01-04 04:14:57 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Girls,would you marry an oral surgeon who makes 400k a year just for his money?(Yes/No)

2007-01-04 04:14:56 · 28 answers · asked by James 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 04:14:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lol i just answered this one question about a love letter and i told him to put something like this:

"I love you so much that If we were under the stars I wouldn't look because I'd be too busy looking at the ones in your eyes..."

so I got the thinking...whats the sweetest thing you would put in a love letter?

2007-01-04 04:13:50 · 17 answers · asked by Déjà Vu 5 in Singles & Dating

my mom is always on my case about me not being a virgin how can i prove her wrong

2007-01-04 04:13:36 · 16 answers · asked by diamondprincess 2 in Singles & Dating

Past , present , future .

2007-01-04 04:13:18 · 14 answers · asked by citizen high 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i lost my gf about a year and a half ago because supposedly i was being too nice. i let her hang out with her friends, including guy friends (her ex was one of them) because i didnt want to be the controlling type to say "no, youre not going out...you cant hang out with your friends." She even told me that she was hangin out with her ex AS A FRIEND and i trusted her. long and behold, a few weeks later, she became torn between me and her old ex. she stopped sayin she loves me, and the physical affection just slowly vanished.

now i cant help but wonder, if there are really girls out there who can be trusted...that wont go taking advantage of a guy's leniency. ive been single for about a year and a half now...only cuz im not the type to jump right into another relationship. i look for quality...and with my ex, i thought i found one...n then, BAM...i lost her.

WHY'S IT SO HARD TO FIND A QUALITY GIRL...down for a quality guy.

2007-01-04 04:12:31 · 25 answers · asked by *mar29* 2 in Singles & Dating

i would like responses from women that have cheated only!

2007-01-04 04:12:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 04:11:28 · 12 answers · asked by whittney h 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy online and he lives far away.We have been talking for a couple of months.We kinda fell in love right after we started talking on the phone.I love him with all my heart.He says he loves me.He wants me to go out where he is to be with him but he won't come to me.Why does a women have to go that far to meet him.He expects me to give everything up for him.I have a fantastic job nice home and all.I don't want to give everything up for something that might not be.I'm a very attracted girl.Could he be after just my looks.Just trying to prove he can have a pretty girl being what he has had in the past wasn't nothing to brag about.I'm just a little confused.

2007-01-04 04:11:12 · 6 answers · asked by Angel 2 1 in Singles & Dating

Wife's name is marlene Gilkey. I think the date of death was Dec. 10 in a.m.

2007-01-04 04:10:55 · 4 answers · asked by artie1149@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family

I have been recently divorced. Married 6 years. I was a stay at home mother with two very young children. My husband was cheating. We decided setle out of court, stupid of me. Well, my husband made over 100,000 last year and pays me 750.00 a month. (Georgia). The lawyer I had were I got the divorced and recenlty moved from would not return my phone calls. I still have no permanent job and my parents help me with bills. My ex-husband just remarrried 3 months after our divorce to his rich mistress. Do I have good reason and proof to modify him?

2007-01-04 04:10:53 · 5 answers · asked by tad 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im 16 and neva had a proper boyfriend and have just moved to a mixed school for sixth form. im brown and asian, really im the minority of the girls because they are blonde and popular. they have alot of confidence and i dont but when i do speak to guys they give me the impression that they are too shy to talk but then stare at me alot at school if im generally walking with my friend at school, i feel uncomfortable and shy the next time they are near me and cont make a proper conversation. why do they do this and ignore me?? do they like me or jus stare?

2007-01-04 04:10:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating