ive been seeing/talking to this person for about 5 months and im so confused right now and confused weve never met and the 1stt time we were suppose to meet he dindnt make it bc he had other stuff come up or so he says now its almost time for us to meet again and i dont no if hes trying to back out of it or what its the same exuse he used last time well sort of this time its bc he dont have bc he was off from work for awhile bc of the holidays? so for u readers out there what do u think i should do ?
2007-01-04 04:19:47 · 11 answers · asked by nlovewithsomeonewhosnotmine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just forget him. if he liked you, he would find time to meet with you no metter what. you'll just waste your time if you'll keep waiting for him. i've been in situation like that and it's just no use
2007-01-04 04:28:40 · answer #1 · answered by deana m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If possible I think you should find a way to back off yourself, at least emotionally. If this is someone you met online, the problem could be that there is something about him he lied about and if he meets you the lie will be exposed. I've met and dated girls from online a lot in the past and I found that if someone did not care to meet even though it would make total sense, there was some sort of lie going on. In short, tell him your concerns, ask him exactly what is going on, and listen to him.
2007-01-04 12:27:49 · answer #2 · answered by TCSO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd let it go and move on. If he REALLY wanted to meet you, the two of you could work to make it happen. Doesn't seem like his interest is that high and you may be passing up other, better opportunities by waiting around for this guy.
2007-01-04 12:22:36 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should learn how to end a sentence and begin a new one. It is very difficult to understand you. Not trying to be mean here, just honest.
2007-01-04 12:24:08 · answer #4 · answered by Starlight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've never met....after 5 months...
if it was meant to be, you would have met within a few weeks...sounds like maybe he's in another relationship......
I'd get out...that's why your confused...you know something isn't right........
follow your heart and get out of the deal.
you've not met...so no loss.......
2007-01-04 12:24:40 · answer #5 · answered by joschaos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is someone can't make the time to see you , why waste ur time. first impressions are usually on the botton and his first impression is undependable.
2007-01-04 12:22:39 · answer #6 · answered by stacy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
one should wait for a while and u should meet him again- only once.
2007-01-04 12:23:27 · answer #7 · answered by sagar g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on
2007-01-04 12:22:33 · answer #8 · answered by bds_bunni 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
move on
2007-01-04 12:22:33 · answer #9 · answered by wrfab 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with the flow.............
2007-01-04 12:22:12 · answer #10 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋