Family & Relationships - 4 January 2007

this guy i was going out with dumped me yesterday. which is ok. it sux, but it's ok. thing is though,he didn't even have the balls to say it to my face. he got his friend to do it for him. i wanna go tell him what a coward he is, but i think i might be over reacting. confused!!

2007-01-04 05:07:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She told a guy at work that she wasn't going out with me, but in real life my girlfriend and I were going out for more than two years. We had a fight about it already. She told me that she liked him and thought she was flirting with him. Now, I think she's talking to him behind my back. What's really hard is that I don't know if she's lying or not. She asks for my forgiveness and stuff, but she is still "friends" with him on facebook and still has his sn on AIM. I don't care about it before because they work with each other but she told him that me and her aren't going out. I love her with all my heart and I really can't let her go. We been through a lot of good and bad times, but is she changing? She have done this before with another guy. One thing, she gets mad at me when I get mad about the situation. What's up with that? I need some advice, info, anything!! Tell me what's on your mind... please have a lot of people to comment this so I can take a right course of action.

2007-01-04 05:07:30 · 1 answers · asked by Sir Guitarist 2 in Singles & Dating

She told a guy at work that she wasn't going out with me, but in real life my girlfriend and I were going out for more than two years. We had a fight about it already. She told me that she liked him and thought she was flirting with him. Now, I think she's talking to him behind my back. What's really hard is that I don't know if she's lying or not. She asks for my forgiveness and stuff, but she is still "friends" with him on facebook and still has his sn on AIM. I don't care about it before because they work with each other but she told him that me and her aren't going out. I love her with all my heart and I really can't let her go. We been through a lot of good and bad times, but is she changing? She have done this before with another guy. One thing, she gets mad at me when I get mad about the situation. What's up with that? I need some advice, info, anything!! Tell me what's on your mind... please have a lot of people to comment this so I can take a right course of action.

2007-01-04 05:06:55 · 24 answers · asked by Sir Guitarist 2 in Singles & Dating

well i really like this guy and i think he likes me and we are really good friends. the last day at my school before winter break i really wanted to get a picture of me and him. so on my last chance right before he left the classroom i gave my (gal) friend my camera, ran up to the guy i like, turned him around my fgriend snaped a picture. DO U THINK HIM AND OTHER KIDS IN MY CLASS WILL TREAT ME DIFFERENT?yes____ or no____ IF PEOPLE DO TREAT ME DIFFERENT SHOULD I LIE AND SAY IT WAS A DARE OR SOMETHING OR SHOULD I JUST ACSEPED THE WAY THEY TREAT ME NOW? *long anwser are great*

2007-01-04 05:05:53 · 10 answers · asked by soccer_idiot11 1 in Singles & Dating

Two years of marriage and I am trying to find a way out/ to end it without feeling as guilty. No kids in play. I feel guilty enought thinking and talking about it. I can only imagine how guilty I will feel if I follow threw it. We have brought it up in many arguments before, and I have said I want a divorce but my guilt prevents me from following threw and we end things as we will continue to try. I am sick of trying to feel somthing I should feel, but don't. I am sick of feeling like it will distroy this person if I follow threw it.

2007-01-04 05:05:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating this wonderful guy for almost a year, who I have been close friends with for about 4 years. He treats me great and my family loves him.
During our highschool years, we were both part of a close group of 4 friends. My boyfriend however, hasnt really maintained a close relationship with the other 2 girls ever since they went away to college and found boyfriends == the girls stopped putting effort into maintaining their friendship.

Slowly throughout the first year of our relationship, my relationship with my friends has degressed, and I only occasionally get together with them. They have made no effort to get to know me and my boyfriend in a relationship together, and I feel like they will never approve because now they think that I only have time for him. They talk behind my back about us, and when we hang out, they rub all of the times they share in my face.

I dont know what to do? Should I keep on trying to repair this with them, or move on?

2007-01-04 05:05:18 · 3 answers · asked by answergrl 2 in Friends

I called blue cross and they said they don't cover that???? WHAT????

2007-01-04 05:04:42 · 11 answers · asked by luvieduvie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

10 YEARS AGO.....now you run into her in a store...and she says...blah, blah, blah...REMEMBER WHEN YOU DID SUCH AND SUCH??? (it was embarrassing)...i say..No i don't...she says .."ah, come on..don;t you remember???...yOU SAY AGAIN..."NO, I DON'T...and walk away....NOW YOU SEE WHY WE ARE NOT FRIENDS ANYMORE???? she is embarrassing...plus other things...DO YOU THINKSHE "GETS IT?"...I MEAN I HAD WALKED AWAY..WOULD YOU GET IT???

2007-01-04 05:03:31 · 7 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Friends

Situation: a little boy was molested by his father. early on, say age 8, the boy showed disturbing signs of molestation by acting out with others his age and his problem was ignored(no counseling). ok at age 16 this boy molested a little girl which landed him in prison. Knowing his situation that he was molested himself, do you feel after doing his time in prison that he is able to face the world again? Do you believe he deserve a 2nd chance in life being that he was so young and never got prior help for his own molestation?

2007-01-04 05:03:27 · 24 answers · asked by Jazzy 3 in Family

stealing your prescriptions behind your back and lying to you about it?? You have given him many many chances to STOP and you find he's done it again. He claims he doesn't have a problem....what would you do?

2007-01-04 05:03:04 · 24 answers · asked by luvieduvie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

One of my best friends turned her back on me she told the guy I liked that I like him what should I do.
Sincerly,Clueless

2007-01-04 05:02:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-04 05:02:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 05:02:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We went to a movie on New Year's day, and everyone except my grandmother, and my father, who aren't real movie goers went to see the movie.

When we came home, we found my 86 year old grandmother lying at the bottom of the stairs, and we phoned 911 as she was badly injured.

Only my father was home at the time, but he did not find her. This made me really wonder about a comment he made a few months back about pushing grandma down the stairs...

I knew they were getting very run down by taking care of them, but now I don't know what to do. My grandma will be in the hospital for 2 more days, but the doctor's say she will be fine.

The things going through my head right now, are NOT very pleasant to say the least.

2007-01-04 05:02:14 · 8 answers · asked by Razor 2 in Family

I've been divorced for years and still cannot get rid of my exhusband and his psychotic girlfriend. We have three children togather so there will be contact with him until they are adults, but the games, he uses the kids to get to me. He's the biggest loser I've ever met...lies, steals and everything in between. His girlfriend has tried to get my hubby in trouble at work(he's a cop) by making false accusations, she drives by our house to check us out, tells the kids bad things about me and even went so far as to search me on the internet and even found all the questions I answered and asked on here. She proceded to say that I was a liar and didn't know what I was talking about and that I was trying to sleaze my mother-in-law with a question about vested interest I asked. How did she even find my questions? ANYONE KNOW HOW SHE DID THAT? She is so fixated on me and has been for a long time. WHAT CAN I DO TO STOP THIS MADNESS? Get creative for me people!

2007-01-04 05:02:13 · 16 answers · asked by surgicalmommy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been in a relationship with a great guy for about 6 months now. Recently he told me that he loves and things started getting alot more romantic than it used to be. I felt very good about that but for some odd reason I cant stop having doubts. I cant stop the confusion. I discovered that I have trust issues as I dont trust he really loves me like he says eventhough he shows it. I sometimes feel as though I love him very much and some other times I feel like I'm better off without him. I cant get myself to actually break up with him because I know he's a great guy and I'm afriad I might regret it later. How do I stay stable and in love with him all the time? How can I convince myself that he loves me and that everything is okay?!

2007-01-04 05:01:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have kind of a dumb question, but it's been bothering me since last night and I need some opinions.

I am living with the man that love very very much. We have been together for nine months after having moved together from our mutual old city to a new one about five hours away.

Of course, in the beginning of our relationship he was extremely affectionate and told me that he loved me several times a day. he literally jumped for joy when I told him (first) that I loved him and beeged me to keep telling him.

Okay, this is where I have my problem........

For the last two or three evenings when he says a prayer over dinner he thanks God for our "friendship". Not love or whatever, friendship.

Am I overreacting and reading into this or is it okay?

2007-01-04 05:01:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It seems like my entire life I have always been the Good Friend. Don't get me wrong, I do like being that person who is able to help others. But it seems like every time a woman comes into my life, I slip right into that role, either by my fault or as if they know that's where I've always been.
I don't want to sound like I just want to get into someone's pants, because frankly that's the last thing I want right now. I just am tired of falling into the role of the Good Friend.

2007-01-04 05:00:17 · 16 answers · asked by Jon M 4 in Singles & Dating

when i have said..'OH, I'D RATHER NOT RELIVE IT,,,IT WAS VERY PAINFUL AND HAPPENED YEARS AGO.."...the person ignores me and goes on and on...what is wrong with this person???....i end up walking away...DO YOU THINK SHE GOT THE HINT??? i only answered one question...WE DEALT WITH IT YEARS AGO....GOSH!!!

2007-01-04 04:59:31 · 3 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I just posted a question about getting solicited from registering from too many wedding planning web sites and it was removed (I think just because it was titled "solicited?") I dont even know why Im mad about that, not like yahoo answer points are worth anything...but still!

2007-01-04 04:59:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My fiancee and I have been with each other for almost 5 years now. About a year ago we went to visit his "friend" (that is how he introduced her). While shopping, I found out that they had been in a serious relationship before me. He talks to her at least once a day. I just don't like it but he says I am being immature. What are you thoughts? Please be nice and no bashing. Thanks!

2007-01-04 04:58:50 · 20 answers · asked by reptmd 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a B.S. in Business and i am about to start my own business, i'm still single & no man in my life recently.

2007-01-04 04:58:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-04 04:58:13 · 2 answers · asked by MsT 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-04 04:57:41 · 14 answers · asked by http://hogshead.pokerknave.com/ 6 in Singles & Dating

I just got engaged and in my eagerness to start planning ended up registering at a bunch of different wedding planning sites...now people wont stop calling me! A lady called me the other night and said that I won an all-inclusive trip to Mexico and that I only have to pay air fare. She said there was no catch, but that I would have to go to a 90 minute presentation to hear the pitch about the products her company sells at a hotel downtown on Saturday. Should I go?

2007-01-04 04:56:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I've been in a relationship with a great guy for about 6 months now. Recently he told me that he loves and things started getting alot more romantic than it used to be. I felt very good about that but for some odd reason I cant stop having doubts. I cant stop the confusion. I discovered that I have trust issues as I dont trust he really loves me like he says eventhough he shows it. I sometimes feel as though I love him very much and some other times I feel like I'm better off without him. I cant get myself to actually break up with him because I know he's a great guy and I'm afriad I might regret it later. How do I stay stable and in love with him all the time? How can I convince myself that he loves me and that everything is okay?!

2007-01-04 04:56:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I think most girls will just say gross. Maybe some guys too, but I'm just trying to be honest here without being too graphic. For those still confused, I mean a pic that you enjoy looking at when fantasizing, doing the deed, whatever. My special pic is of a friend of mine. She's so cute and I have such a crush on her, but her heart belongs to someone else. Yet she still turns me on just by looking at her.

2007-01-04 04:55:11 · 7 answers · asked by Kari 4 in Singles & Dating

i appriciate every ones views

2007-01-04 04:54:57 · 20 answers · asked by bebe06 1 in Singles & Dating

iam very sorry for what i did but he took me back and i dont think he should treat me like that exspecialy in front our kids.do i try to get help for us or leave.i stay at home now with my kids cause he dont trust me anymore iam iam tired of it.do i give him time?i really want to go back to work.HE yells at me like a little kid and says hurtful words to me all the time.

2007-01-04 04:54:51 · 5 answers · asked by baby pimp 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently moved back to town and ran into some old friends of mine who invited me over. These people live 3 houses down from my ex and the husband still hangs out with him. I have done everything I could to avoid him finding out b/c I knew it would cause problems, but they have been insistant that they want me around. I have no interest with him at all. That part of my life is over and I want it that way. Well, he found out and has now called our mutual friends and told them he will no longer associate with them b/c they are talking and seeing me. It has been 4 long years since we divorced. He is even engaged and living his life, why would he care about me or who I hang out with? Would it be a waste of my time to write a letter to him and let him know that I wish him well? Is there anything else I can do that may ease the situation?I don't understand why someone would invest so much into hating another person when it's obvious that everyone is better off the way things are now.

2007-01-04 04:54:40 · 14 answers · asked by barefootbabee 1 in Marriage & Divorce