2007-01-04 05:02:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What did you do?
What happened during the relationship?
What happened in the end?
2007-01-04 05:06:31 · update #1
I am not in one, I was just wondering.
I think one of my friends is in one.
2007-01-04 05:10:06 · update #2
No, but he was engaged with a baby on the way. I didnt know anything about her.... We went out for the weekend and his fiance showed up at the hotel we were staying at (I guess this was the place where he goes when she kicks him out of the house for something). I answered the door, she introduced herself, I turned around and punched him in the face and took all his money and left.. Thank God we didnt have "relations"!! His fiance took me to their apartment where I proceeded to take all of his clothes and made him pay me $1.00 for every article of clothing... She left him and I got $200 that I gave her for the new baby. We are still friends and he is off ruining someone elses life Im sure..
2007-01-04 05:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by slim27 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes,wife found out, he acted as if we never met. Called the next week said it was over with wife. Left for a month. She threatened his job and to withhold the kids. He Apolgized to me and said he had to stay with her for the kids,
Complete DISASTER!
6 months of my life wasted!
If you are in a relationship with a married man
RUN!
2007-01-04 05:09:15 · answer #2 · answered by lisa s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aw man, I'm traveling down memory lane here...
In 2006 I was with 3 different married men.
The first one kind of effed me over. Let's call him: Dumbo.
When Dumbo and I started dating he had told me that he was in the process of getting a divorce. We dated for nearly 5 months and spent great times together. He often times mentioned his "wife" (I had to correct him and say "ex-wife" a lot) and her problems er whatever, and I dealt with that. Then one day he told me that she was coming back from China and she wants him back. What?! But I thought you said that she filed divorce papers and that you wouldn't take her back, etc etc. Yeah well, we ended up breaking up - I broke up with his voicemail on a night I couldn't get ahold of him. Uhm less then a month from when she returned, he was moving out of a room he was renting and back in with her. Ahhh... interesting Mr. Dumbo. So, now... he calls me up every once in a while to see if I want to "hang out." Uhh - no thanks buddy. He was totally shady.
After Dumbo, I felt really lonely and down on the dumps... I pretty much told everyone about my story, even my college professor. We'll call him Mr. Baldie.
One day I was walking to my car and ran into Mr. Baldie... we were basically bullshitting and eventually I told him about my past relationship and how I was kind of relieved blah blah blah, then I said something about sex. Once I mentioned the sex part, his eyes kind of lit up, like I said something totally unexpected. lol Which it was... but later on that week he had sent an e-mail out concerning an assignment... and I replied back. Soon we had been sending flirty emails back and forth. It was totally hot. Eventually we ended up hooking up, twice. The first time we drove some place in his car - which was completely weird because there was a baby seat in the back. I asked him about his marriage and what not and he told her that he wasn't happy and blah blah blah. Okay, fine... good enough excuse for me. Then we hooked up in his classroom after everyone had left one night, totally hot! A little later...mid-semester Mr. Baldie started acting like a dick... and I started not showing up to class. Then he got ahold of me and asked what was up, etc... and then he had told me his wife had just had a baby. Uhh - what the hell? He was fooling around with me while his wife was pregnant! What a jerk. I thought that they were on the verge of breaking up. So at the end of the semester, he gave me a good passing grade and I told him to eff off.
And then the third... let's call him Mr. Duck.
Mr. Duck pretty much did the same thing as Mr. Baldie. He was screwing around with me while he had a wife who was pregnant. He had told me about two months after we stopped seeing each other, but none-the-less... that's terrible.
So there you go, three losers. So Baldie and Duck were both 35 and my ex Mr. Dumbo was 37... I'm 21 and I promised myself after those events that I will never hook up with an older guy. Married men are so screwed up. Now I can't stop thinking about all the bad karma that is floating around me... I feel horrible for even looking at those guys. I don't suggest being with a married guy if you are questioning it... it never leads to good things, because most likely you will be SECOND choice to their wives. And no women deserves to be second best, especially when feelings are involved.
2007-01-04 05:32:06 · answer #3 · answered by TalkingTomato 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yep...and i regret it. Not that his wife found out, cause she didn't, but becuase he is my father's best bud. It makes me feel really guilty when I go to his palce to watch the superbowl and Mr. Married is there as well.
2007-01-04 05:06:27 · answer #4 · answered by Dianne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it started off harmless enough, but it didn't end so clean and pretty.
I would NEVER DO IT AGAIN!
There is too much to lose of yourself.
2007-01-04 05:07:56 · answer #5 · answered by Vernita B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, i am right now, he's wonderful, we both know it's just sex and fun so no one gets hurt, his wife is an alcoholic and doesn't know or care anyway
2007-01-04 05:05:54 · answer #6 · answered by Tiny little hot one 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder why you are asking. Your profile says you have never even held hands with a boy.
2007-01-04 05:10:01 · answer #7 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes, and it was hawt
I'm a man
I'm not gay, i'm on the down low
2007-01-04 05:10:15 · answer #8 · answered by MiKe Drazen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it's different
2007-01-04 05:05:31 · answer #9 · answered by baby11kc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think thats terribble
you should feel BAD
2007-01-04 05:06:32 · answer #10 · answered by N 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋