I have been dating this wonderful guy for almost a year, who I have been close friends with for about 4 years. He treats me great and my family loves him.
During our highschool years, we were both part of a close group of 4 friends. My boyfriend however, hasnt really maintained a close relationship with the other 2 girls ever since they went away to college and found boyfriends == the girls stopped putting effort into maintaining their friendship.
Slowly throughout the first year of our relationship, my relationship with my friends has degressed, and I only occasionally get together with them. They have made no effort to get to know me and my boyfriend in a relationship together, and I feel like they will never approve because now they think that I only have time for him. They talk behind my back about us, and when we hang out, they rub all of the times they share in my face.
I dont know what to do? Should I keep on trying to repair this with them, or move on?
2007-01-04 05:05:18 · 3 answers · asked by answergrl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I say move on. We both know how ugly and petty girls can cometimes be. It sounds like they're jealous that you have a boyfriend and it's a long term relationship. When you grow up and get into a serious relationship, all other relationships change. Not necessarily for the worse.... but you start realizing what's important and necessary to make yourself happy. You always had lots of "free" time in h.s. but now you're almost grown up and have responsibilities you have to maintain- and one of them is your man. Good luck and don't let them get the best of you!
2007-01-04 05:11:57 · answer #1 · answered by kellilicious5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say move on if they don't want to take the time to get to you know your boyfriend and find out if you are happy in your relationship like a true friend would then i say move on they don't deserve your loyal friendship they are just upset because they expected you to dedicate all your time to being there for them live life while you can they obviously are
2007-01-04 05:41:53 · answer #2 · answered by bright eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just move on, if they want to be friends with you they will make the effort. there is nothing you can do, since you already made the effort. just wait to see if you are important enough to them for them to try to stay friends with you.
2007-01-04 05:08:30 · answer #3 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋