I've been in a relationship with a great guy for about 6 months now. Recently he told me that he loves and things started getting alot more romantic than it used to be. I felt very good about that but for some odd reason I cant stop having doubts. I cant stop the confusion. I discovered that I have trust issues as I dont trust he really loves me like he says eventhough he shows it. I sometimes feel as though I love him very much and some other times I feel like I'm better off without him. I cant get myself to actually break up with him because I know he's a great guy and I'm afriad I might regret it later. How do I stay stable and in love with him all the time? How can I convince myself that he loves me and that everything is okay?!
2007-01-04 05:01:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like anxiety attacks. When I got with my husband during the first months of dating, I began to have those kinds of feelings. Before we were together I had been in a NUMBER of BAD relationships. So I had to unlearn all of those behaviors.
If he is a really good guy, ride it out. The panic attacks will stop.
2007-01-04 05:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by Vernita B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's been straight with you and hasn't done anything not to be trusted, then you should give him the benefit of doubt. Now, realistically, as you are the one that is there, only you can guage if there is something to be concerned with. Perhaps, the lack of faith may be in your feelings for him.
2007-01-04 13:06:17 · answer #2 · answered by J.C. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't know that is the stumper about love.. ppl say the words to fast and openly these days. but you just have to take the leap of faith if you can't do it tell him so tell him how you feel about him and what you want to do either slow down or cool off for a bit..
2007-01-04 13:07:31 · answer #3 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't so dont try... if you have doubts, dont brush them aside.. find someone else that doesn't give you doubts.. life it too short to make mistakes
2007-01-04 13:08:24 · answer #4 · answered by Chrissie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes y not.
2007-01-04 13:04:06 · answer #5 · answered by revolou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋