Family & Relationships - 4 January 2007

I married my wife after only knowing her for a very short time. She was and is a fun and charismatic girl. On a few occasions before I married her I would be with her and lose interest in her, but I put those occasions down to me being tired or in a bad mood. We have been married for three months and I still lose interest and enthusiasm for her on a regular basis. She is a great girl but our personalities are quite different, which may explain why there is a lack of connection between us. I don't know exactly why but I can't deny that I have consistently felt a lack of interest and enthusiasm towards her. I do not mean sexually, but towards her as a person. There is nothing wrong with her though. What do I do?

2007-01-04 04:54:36 · 32 answers · asked by asylumseeker 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am so tired of ppl making remarks because of the age difference with me and my fiancee. I am 31 he is 47 we have been living together for 2 yrs. We dated 10 yrs ago for awhile but split due to the age. Now were back together an planning a life together but we get so much drama. His friends make comments my friends make comments. Why is AGE such a big deal these days.
Our wedding has been post poned due to all the things our family and friends keep saying. Any suggestions on how to deal with all the negativity in our lives???

2007-01-04 04:53:46 · 24 answers · asked by Kim 2 in Marriage & Divorce

got you off, you got up and left?

2007-01-04 04:53:20 · 17 answers · asked by Evan C 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 04:53:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i was meeting a guy on/off for the past couple of years, only had about 4/5 dates in total but we are still in touch. Im in Ireland and he was in New York last week on holidays , he called me three times on new years day 6 pm NY time and left a voice message saying "hey happy new year, bit late but all the best, talk soon , hopefully" i still have a little crush on him :0) could he still like me, he has told me recently while he was drunk that he still holds a candle for me...

2007-01-04 04:51:57 · 4 answers · asked by sunny01 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 04:51:35 · 8 answers · asked by Mr. Right 3 in Singles & Dating

I knew since the beggining he has kids but lately it really bothers me that he have to talk to his x's and I feel really jealous about the kids. I really love my husband but is it worth it to go thru all this???? Please advice!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-04 04:51:02 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How do you get a man to be more romantic?

2007-01-04 04:50:13 · 18 answers · asked by Stacey M 1 in Singles & Dating

hey.. do u any of u still remember what it felt like when u had ur first kiss...

2007-01-04 04:49:54 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 24 my fiance is 33. I just cant seem to be content with him. for all these years I thought I was sooooo in love...now I am realy starting to question my feelings for him. There is no doubt I care. But is there more out there for me? He is a pretty short tempered person and I feel like a lot of times I have to walk on eggshells. But could there be someone out there for me that would make me happier? Someone to love me unconditionally? I think that there is. He is hard to talk to..when I try to tell him my feelings he usually turns everything around to make me look like the bad guy and he wont just listen. Is there a GOOD way to approach him about my feelings? I dont want to live a lie! I have been daydreaming about someone sweeping me off my feet...

2007-01-04 04:49:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend told one of his girl friends that he bought me a christmas present but he really didnt..why would he say that? "he said i don't wanna die"

2007-01-04 04:48:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Jehovah's witnes for example

2007-01-04 04:48:23 · 13 answers · asked by TIKIBABY 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 04:47:54 · 23 answers · asked by non active 2 in Singles & Dating

How long do you think it takes to know you could marry some one? Can be instantly? Or does it take years? Should I be upset that my boyfriend use to think he could marry me, he still loves me the same. But since we’ve been fighting more, he isn’t sure anymore. He isn’t sure about most things in his life right now as well.

What are your thoughts?

2007-01-04 04:47:35 · 2 answers · asked by Stacey M 1 in Singles & Dating

Is there an order the ceremony goes in? I have been to so many weddings and tons of people play songs during the ceremony and some people sing. Is there a proper etiquette book somewhere that will tell me the order in which to go in? I am also kinda going with southern traditions mixed with modern twist.

2007-01-04 04:47:26 · 5 answers · asked by beach_bummet 3 in Weddings

My best friend who've weve been kissing and flirting with and maybe will have something more with has a birthday coming up. What is an appropriate gift to give without being too personal but at the same time show him he's very special to me?

2007-01-04 04:46:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-04 04:45:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i HAVE THIS FRIEND AND she won't talk to me -she hasn't for 3 weeks! and it all boils down to pretzels. it's so immature. she says me and a few of her other friends are ruining her senior yr. cuz we don't do stuff w/ her and it's cuz we have jobs and she doesn't. should i just drop her or what?

2007-01-04 04:45:37 · 23 answers · asked by crystaal 2 in Friends

So I'm flying tomorrow morning to spend 2 weeks with my guy whom I havent seen in two months.....what's the first thing I should do to him when we get back to his apartment

2007-01-04 04:45:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 04:45:16 · 9 answers · asked by TIKIBABY 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If a child is involved, can the judge make you give $2500.00 to an Atterny just because he chooses not to see the case. All the paperwork is in order. It is a Non contested divorce and child support and visitation for a typical divorce has been included.

2007-01-04 04:44:24 · 4 answers · asked by givinhouse 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My family has gone through alot of hard times and her boyfriend and her ALWAYS argue and fight over the litttlest things. I do not dislike him, but it's obvious they don't get along. What can I do?

2007-01-04 04:44:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

that are not hotels? how would i find one?

2007-01-04 04:42:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I was watching my little cousin emailing his friend and I got a great idea. I made a profile and starting messaging all these girls. I started meeting up with them and pretending I totally dug their personality and had sex with them..and then guess what? I never call them again! It saves taking them on dates or spending money on them just to trying and possibly touch a breast. I just have a party at my house I got. I even got a fat girl that my friends and I did a gangbang on. Now we all have myspaces and its great! Anyone else notice this?

2007-01-04 04:42:36 · 6 answers · asked by jared d 1 in Singles & Dating

I was watching my little cousin emailing his friend and I got a great idea. I made a profile and starting messaging all these girls. I started meeting up with them and pretending I totally dug their personality and had sex with them..and then guess what? I never call them again! It saves taking them on dates or spending money on them just to trying and possibly touch a breast. I just have a party at my house I got. I even got a fat girl that my friends and I did a gangbang on. Now we all have myspaces and its great! Anyone else notice this?

2007-01-04 04:42:02 · 1 answers · asked by jared d 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for two years now and he has sexual urges that can only be described as kinky. I'm ok with almost all of them except for group stuff, which was his latest interest. we bounced the idea around for some time. During this time, he talked with an ex about it and ONE TIME, the conversation turned sexual and they fulled around while chatting online. He didn't do it again but I found out about it a couple months later. It hurt like hell but I took him back cause I love him very much and he said he was sorry.
He now says he isn't interested in group stuff, and that he has broken off all communication with that ex. It's hard to believe him and I'm afraid that this kinky urge will come back... can we still make this work? he's so sweet and fun and, for the most part, has improved my life, just by being there.

2007-01-04 04:41:56 · 13 answers · asked by blinker 2 in Singles & Dating

I need an excuse as to why i cant go out to dinner with my friends!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-04 04:41:48 · 50 answers · asked by Sammy 1 in Friends

2007-01-04 04:41:41 · 30 answers · asked by Cassie 1 in Friends

For about a year now, I have been fed up with my 2 friends who are married.This goes back to when she got pregnant and they stopped wanting to do anything but sit at thier house.That's fine and dandy, but sometimes I feel you just want to go out to enjoy frineds and family.I have gone out with them 1 time in the last year to hang out, not including being at their place or their parent's place.
For Christmas, I bought them a gift card to a restaurant hoping they may go out and enjoy themselves.I also bought their sons some toys.I received no gift in return.Let me state for the record that I know Christmas is about giving, but it is also the thought that counts.Should this bother me as much as it has?
They ask me via the internet why they don't hear from me and I am torn on how to respond.I want to tell them that I am sick of going over there to help them watch their children and feel they only call when they need soemthing.Is telling them (again) that the phone works both way wrong?

2007-01-04 04:41:02 · 9 answers · asked by Bonto 1 in Friends

If not what would you change or what do you regret doing or not doing, and or what would you hope to accomplish in the future? I am happy in my life because I am married and have two beautiful boys, but I myself regret not finish college and my goal is to go back and finish. Because sometimes I am very unhappy with my job and frustrated.

2007-01-04 04:40:49 · 6 answers · asked by sweetme35 5 in Other - Family & Relationships