My family has gone through alot of hard times and her boyfriend and her ALWAYS argue and fight over the litttlest things. I do not dislike him, but it's obvious they don't get along. What can I do?
2007-01-04 04:44:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
there is not much u can do other than talk to your mom. let her know how the arguin makes u feel. let her know that u are concerned. just know that it is not your fault. as long as he is not being abusive u hafta give them space to work their issues out on their own.
2007-01-04 04:47:42 · answer #1 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you feel comfortable discussing it with them together? I suggest one evening when things are quiet (don't start it when they're already fighting), speak to them both and calmly tell them that the arguing bothers you a great deal. Tell them that you are considering moving out because you can't handle the stress of constant conflict going on. Suggest that they get some help with it. You could even pull up some great sites on relationships, arguing or anything else that applies, and prepare yourself ahead of time.
In the meantime, take care of yourself and remember that they are the ones with the problem(s) and they will have to fix them.
2007-01-04 04:54:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hits you, you need to be displaying the bruises to the school nurse and reporting. they are required through regulation to call someone the position abuse is believe to be taking position. If he starts hitting your mom lower back, call the law enforcement officials. each and each and every time he does that call the law enforcement officials. If no man or woman comments him then you truly all supply him permission to proceed to bother and abuse. do not anticipate your mom to record expenses so it would want to should be you. solid success.
2016-10-16 23:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by fernande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to mom let her know she deserves better and let her know you care and it should not be like this. Ask her why she is settling and why she does not think she is worthy of better. Have a heart to heart. Be sensitive, maybe she will open up.
2007-01-04 04:47:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your Mom that they need to live seperate because all the fighting is upsetting your household.
2007-01-04 04:46:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can try to help by talking to each of them and try to be the best daughter or friend you can be until the heat blows over.
2007-01-04 05:21:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you really like him and he's nice guy but you just don't think they were made for eachother.even though they usually don't act like your opinion matters moms usually listen to advice like this. they care about what their kids think because they love them and i'm sure she loves you. good luck! and i hope this helps.
2007-01-04 04:49:59 · answer #7 · answered by crystaal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you my own experience... I was with a woman and her son was very unhappy about it. One day we broke up and then he was happy.
2007-01-04 04:47:07 · answer #8 · answered by larrydoyle52 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever tried talking to your mother, just like you talk to us?
2007-01-04 04:46:20 · answer #9 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get into it.. when they come and ask you for advice.. let them know that they are childish and to keep you out.. be the bigger person!!!
2007-01-04 04:55:30 · answer #10 · answered by Hypnotic Cherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋