i HAVE THIS FRIEND AND she won't talk to me -she hasn't for 3 weeks! and it all boils down to pretzels. it's so immature. she says me and a few of her other friends are ruining her senior yr. cuz we don't do stuff w/ her and it's cuz we have jobs and she doesn't. should i just drop her or what?
2007-01-04 04:45:37 · 23 answers · asked by crystaal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well I agree with you! When you showed it to me earlier I laughed. You've said it yourself that you are complete opposites. You can do better. But if and when you become closer with her I'll be there for you and help cheer you on. You'll probably get into even more fights together. Every answer on here has its ups and downs. Do what you want. It's completely your decision. She should apologize. Friends should be excited that their friends who get accepted into college even if they don't agree. They should always willing to listen and not stick their nose into the air and walk away. I would have been so mad if she did that to me. Well sit with her at lunch and if she starts something just leave. I'm here for you and I'll always be happy for everything that my true friends do in life. Make milestones even if another certain person doesn't agree and makes snaps at you in meetings. Once again I'm here for you. You should know who I am by now since I know most of these things and I am not in your lunch period.
2007-01-04 10:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by mels2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It has nothing to do with pretzels. Your friend is simply lashing out because you dont spend enough time with her. The fact that you and your other friends have jobs and she doesnt makes her feel even more out of place and inferior. You should try and make her feel more part of the group in other ways....thats if you a true friend and value the friendship!
2007-01-04 04:50:35 · answer #2 · answered by Jasmine G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your not about to stop everything just for that one friend and she has to understand that. The world doesn't revolve around her. I won't tell you whether or not to drop your friend over a little argument but maybe you should try talking to her. Get her to understand that you are busy and that you can't be around all the time. If she can't accept that then maybe you would be better off with people who understand that you have other things to do.
2007-01-04 04:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by Mystic-scorpio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd just tell her that she is a senior and your about to graduate so she needs to get a job. You cant hang out with her because you have a job, homework, and other stuff to do. Say you wouldnt have a problem hanging with her if you didnt have other things to do. I wouldnt completely drop her because she sounds alittle lonely, and upset that everyone she wants to hang out with cant and wont. I would distance myself alittle. I'd save the dropping for when she really gets annoying, unrealistic, and immature... and the dropping would benefit you and maybe her. I dropped two friends in my senior year... it worked out for me. They werent the greatest friends.
2007-01-04 04:49:30 · answer #4 · answered by Jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the drill. Tell her that, and when she gets a job she'll understand. Keep trying to reach for her though, because if you don't, once she gets a job she won't remember you. That is, of course, if you want to keep her as a friend.... If not, then she's on her own
2007-01-04 04:48:48 · answer #5 · answered by carlospvog 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop her like a hot cake baby. You are better off getting some new understanding, matured and intelligent friends.
Good Luck.
2007-01-04 04:48:54 · answer #6 · answered by Rosy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has already dropped you so what is the issue.
She obviously has problems.
If you think that the friendship is worth it, you could coddle her but if not, dont worry about it
she will soon be alone and begging you for your time!
2007-01-04 04:47:55 · answer #7 · answered by lisa s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she likes to cause drama, and unless you like to be involved in that kind of stuff... Id drop her. Good luck
2007-01-04 04:47:44 · answer #8 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sit with her and tell her to tell you her problem.tell her that you also have a life and other friends.and if just act like a ***** drop her you dont need friends like that.
2007-01-04 04:48:57 · answer #9 · answered by Dulce O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah u should drop her!she sounds annoying & its not ur fault u have a job & she doesnt.
2007-01-04 05:21:20 · answer #10 · answered by ♥!jamie!♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋