I am 24 my fiance is 33. I just cant seem to be content with him. for all these years I thought I was sooooo in love...now I am realy starting to question my feelings for him. There is no doubt I care. But is there more out there for me? He is a pretty short tempered person and I feel like a lot of times I have to walk on eggshells. But could there be someone out there for me that would make me happier? Someone to love me unconditionally? I think that there is. He is hard to talk to..when I try to tell him my feelings he usually turns everything around to make me look like the bad guy and he wont just listen. Is there a GOOD way to approach him about my feelings? I dont want to live a lie! I have been daydreaming about someone sweeping me off my feet...
2007-01-04 04:49:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Tell him how you feel. If you state that he has a very short temper this will only get worse once get married. You are supposed to be able to communicate with one another, solve your problems mutually and most of all be best friends.
There are plenty of fish in the sea and perhaps this relationship may not be a suitable one for you, however, you need to sit down and talk to him first before deciding exactly what you want.
2007-01-04 04:54:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call off the engagement if he is making you feel this way now ,just think about how he is gonna make you feel when you are married,he will be controlling,not listening at all,get out while you can and yes you can do far more better,and don't settle for any less.
2007-01-04 04:54:23 · answer #2 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-29 23:52:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to answer with so little info. like: how long have u been with him? any kids? what feelings are u referring to. how u feel when u are disagreeing with him?? need more info.
I will say that if u are unsure whether he is the one do not go forward with the marriage. u are still young and theres nothing wrong with experiencing life before committin yourself to marriage. if there are serious issues between u that u don't feel your able to talk with him about, break it off with him. i'll bet he'll be ready to listen then.
2007-01-04 04:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by feetal2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there are better guys out there ones without bad tempers and who you can talk to. Follow your heart, I just hope it doesnt lead you to marriage with this guy. You may end up very unhappy with him.
2007-01-04 04:53:04 · answer #5 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't settle for any less than what you want. You should be able to be yourself and you don't have to settle for any less. I believe there's someone special and perfect out there for everyone.
2007-01-04 04:53:37 · answer #6 · answered by Susan P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you already answered this question. Maybe hes just not the one, dont force it!
2007-01-04 04:55:28 · answer #7 · answered by Kim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not be the "one" for you. Seek GOD for HIS wisdom and for guidance on your next move. Food for Thought: You can't force something to work that won't.
2007-01-04 04:53:46 · answer #8 · answered by Leo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you settle for less than what you really want, you will get exactly that
2007-01-04 04:59:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can do better. He sounds like he is worthless
2007-01-04 10:28:41 · answer #10 · answered by xquis81 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋