A marriage is a living, breathing thing. It has to be nourished every day or it will die. My husband and I were married for 17 years when he became so involved in outside activities that he gave nothing to our home life. I tried to get him to see what was happening to our marriage and our relationship but he just wouldn't listen. I did not plan on cheating but one day it just happened. It was by accident but once an outsider started paying more attention to me than my husband, I was hooked. Not proud of it but it happened. I was so bad at hiding things and lying that it didn't take long for him to find out. He was going to divorce me but his lawyer encouraged him to get help. We started going to a marriage counselor. It took us 2 years of counseling but we have a better marriage today than we ever had. So I am so sorry I cheated we both wish we had gone to the marriage counselor before it happened but we are glad we stayed together. We celebrate 27 years of marriage this year.
2007-01-04 04:25:53
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answered by sunny 7
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There's a tons of reasons why someone would cheat, men or women A friend of mine cheats because she has low self esteem and every time another guy gives her attention she feels the need to give him sex She's cheated on every boyfriend she's ever had actually
2016-05-23 02:46:38
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answered by Anonymous
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I cheated only because he cheated on me with my worst enemy after we were together for two years. I still find that what I did was wrong, eventhough he cheated. Some females cheat because they arent happy, some just cheat because they aren't satisfied with what they had in the first place. Just remember that all females are different.
2007-01-04 04:19:03
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answered by Danielle G 1
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I cheated because I was young and having lots of problems with my bf. A man was treating me nicely at the time which is what I needed so I went with it.
2007-01-04 04:18:25
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answered by JustMe 6
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I cheated on my ex because he turned VERY possesive to the point where he could call me at 2 am to make sure i was in bed! dork! jerk! And he got very abusive...physically and emotinally..
other reasons? hmm..when you guys dont look nice for us anymore...when you guys dont take care of us or give us attention...
yeah..pretty much
A girl should be treated like a princess ALWAYS! :D And we'll treat you like kings.
2007-01-04 04:16:04
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answered by Anonymous
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men cheat alot! but when we women cheat, we slick with it, if i would cheat on a man, he wouldn't find out! but, i don't cheat on anybody, if i don't want that person anymore i'll break up with that person instead of cheating.
2007-01-04 04:35:46
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answered by Ashley A 2
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I cheated because my husband wasn't interested in sex. I also learned how bad this makes you feel and you never forget it. Way difficult to forgive my self
2007-01-04 04:29:03
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answered by stolenbrain 2
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I did and the reason was I was bored in my relationship hate to say so but true. It was dumb and I learned from it. One thing is for sure what goes around comes around and boy did I learn.
2007-01-04 04:14:26
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answer #8
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answered by D'oh! 5
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Sometimes there is something missing in the relationship.
A different man can make us feel good.
Maybe you are not giving her what she needs.
We need the attention sometimes.
Other men can make us feel good about our selves.
2007-01-04 04:16:40
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answered by bb77blueeyes 3
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wanted better sex - - backfired on me! the guy i cheated with was truly a one minute wonder. hahha and i lost the good guy :( does NOT pay to cheat!
2007-01-04 04:17:13
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answered by stop it 5
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