Family & Relationships - 4 January 2007

My boyfriend and I had moved our computer into our room from our living room a few months ago cuz we were having too many problems with our other room mates and just people coming over to visit who would want to use it. Basically we started getting a lot of viruses. Anyways, we have this 18 year old kid staying in the room across from us and he is always asking to use our computer and i let him mostly cuz i dont wanna seem mean. Now its just bugging me cuz he is a stranger to me and i dont like him in my bedroom, let alone anyone in my bedroom really other then my boyfriend and I. How do i tell him this in a nice way?? HELP ME PLEASE!!!

2007-01-04 12:47:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-04 12:46:13 · 25 answers · asked by VANCE 1 in Singles & Dating

Id love some opinions.
My fiance and I were thinking of having our wedding in Europe, but getting everyone over there might be very hard.
So we are looking for something different, not the typical church and banquet hall wedding.
We'd love to rent a big house somewhere with a lovely garden and have the ceremony in the garden and get a caterer to come and set up some tables and have a nice dinner.
We're also looking to stay in the US, but somewhere nice, since people will have to make a trip out of it.
In September, so hopefully still warm weather.

Any recommendations? know any beautiful spots or nice towns?
open to any ideas....
thanks

2007-01-04 12:46:08 · 6 answers · asked by jenniferkoukla 2 in Weddings

My Father was recently engaged what do I call his wife?

2007-01-04 12:45:58 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

didnt get laid , got moaned at for drinking all the wine, not allowed to watch Borat got blamed for the destruction of earth in Stargate season 3 time to go to bed or time to put boxers on bonce and assert manliness ;-) ?

2007-01-04 12:44:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay he never takes a shower or brushes his teeth! he doesnt have a damn job because hes too busy out smoking and partying but the bad part is that hes 25! I keep telling him to grow up but he wont listen! He wont leave me alone! WHAT SHOULD I DO?????

2007-01-04 12:44:26 · 12 answers · asked by LOVE 2 in Singles & Dating

My dads in jail for proabbly 10 years or more, so what do u think i should do, its not as easy as it sounds its hard when your mother does' nt have alot of money, and also my grandpa had a minor heart attack. PLEASE HELP

2007-01-04 12:44:22 · 6 answers · asked by The Lover!! 1 in Family

This is my first marrage and I thought this was the one. He was very kind and sweet. But now he says he wants a divorce because he can do it on his own. Should I divorce him or should I still help him out.

2007-01-04 12:44:20 · 15 answers · asked by lovebite 2 in Marriage & Divorce

because she is starting to get on my last nerve when i come to a time i want to burst i don't so what should i do?

2007-01-04 12:44:12 · 15 answers · asked by cierrawomack9 1 in Friends

2007-01-04 12:44:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

high school best friends, never lost friendship, still very interested in being a friend

2007-01-04 12:43:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-04 12:43:18 · 11 answers · asked by Petarded 1 in Singles & Dating

or should i jump on him when he comes in the door

2007-01-04 12:43:02 · 5 answers · asked by yup 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife does not have any obhection. How can I tackle the conflict with society ?

2007-01-04 12:42:47 · 40 answers · asked by NONAME 2 in Family

2007-01-04 12:42:41 · 14 answers · asked by pepsi pimp 1 in Singles & Dating

there is this girl and i dont not know if she likes me. she is realy hot and very nice. i have knowen her for 5 years. also iam very affriad of rejection. this is the first time i have every thought about asking a girl out and i do not want to get my heart broken the first time

2007-01-04 12:41:55 · 12 answers · asked by mike m 1 in Singles & Dating

how can i show her that i love her,

2007-01-04 12:41:51 · 19 answers · asked by D M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am deathly afraid of meeting his sisters and them finding something wrong with me! The three of them are extremely close and I think that he would do anything to please them because they're family and I'm coming in needing some serious approval. We are college students, so he lives about 400 miles away from me when we're not at school, meaning that when I do meet the rest of his family, I will probably be trapped in a house with them for an entire weekend. How do I calm myself down/get over my fear? Anyone who's a sibling who met another sibling's bf/gf, what can I do not to make a fool of myself?

2007-01-04 12:41:38 · 3 answers · asked by Cat Loves Her Sabres 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well I've been dating my boyfriend for about a month, since we went back to school he hasnt talked to me and doesnt answer my phone calls. My friends have been trying to ask him if he wants to break up and he says no. But its kind of obvious he does. I really like him. and we talked on the phone the day before going back to school and everything was fine, until now. I need some advice. Is he trying to let go??

2007-01-04 12:41:33 · 6 answers · asked by cancer24star 2 in Singles & Dating

ill explain if you email me at bebba4life@yahoo.com

2007-01-04 12:40:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-04 12:40:13 · 8 answers · asked by de_orange_penguin 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 12:40:09 · 19 answers · asked by Petarded 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My bffl that i am in love with is always saying how hott i am and stuff. He ask for pics and i gave it to him and he responded "yeah, im like drooling" and then when i mentioned in the hallways he was like " ewww...i deleted them once i got it" . And now he is ignoring me sorta and not calling me back or sending text's . Its getting pretty mad. Why is he ignoring me? Its like he has a cold shoulder. Idk because he is the one who i love so much even if were young. He is the one who makes me so mad and happier at the same time.

sorta like this: .he was her best friend,
the one who made her laugh
when she didn't feel like smiling,
the one who made her feel so secure
when she was scared,
and the one who she fell
completely in love with.

They loved each other,
but they were no good for each othe

Love isnt worth fighting for, if the person your fighting to love for doesnt want you to fight for their love.
It hurts when you find out that he meant everything to you but you

2007-01-04 12:40:07 · 5 answers · asked by lifereject 1 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone have any encouraging words to help push me into making this inevitable decision? My husband is an okay person with a big heart, but he hasn't done me right in the past few years. He has several good points and even more bad points. I'm not going into any of those beacause frankly, it's just old. I just need help making the final move to free myself from his insanity and to give my children a life free from the egg shells that have littered the bottoms of there little feet.

2007-01-04 12:39:26 · 10 answers · asked by CyndiDrum 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am really bad at playing "games"...so how do you make your husband jealous? We are seperated and i want him to feel the burn since he is the one who decided to leave.
I don't acctually want to date anyone right now i just want him to worry about what i am doing. any suggestions?

2007-01-04 12:38:15 · 23 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Marriage & Divorce

omg im tired of hearing that i am from my family hello their my family idk if they mean it or they just say it cause their my family !!!!

i wanna hear it from a stranger!!!

2007-01-04 12:38:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, well there is this guy (of course) and he used to flirt with me nonstop, and I would flirt back. But then things started going a little too far and he said that he loved me(I donno if he was joking or not, but still) and I got freaked. Also, he had/has a girlfriend but it was a long distance thing so I don't think it was THAT seroius, but I still COULD'T flirt with him without feeling guilty. Also, he was acting like a perv and he was stepping over my bounderies and invading my 'personal space' WAY too much, so I got fed up with him and told him to stop acting like a perv and to stop flirting with me because he had a girlfriend. He didn't really listen to me until I told him like, 25 times...but once he grasped that I was getting fed up with him, he stopped talking to me! Now he barely even talks to me and he seems to ignore me!! Now I think I'm starting to like him because he isn't a total perv anymore...but I acted like I hated him before so I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO NOW! HELP

2007-01-04 12:37:42 · 4 answers · asked by Quin G 1 in Singles & Dating

we have been a little strapped for cash the past few months and we have a third bedroom that we don't really use. my husband said why don't we move in this guy and he can pay 200/mo for the space. thing is i really can't stand this guy and he has almost came between my husband and i before. honestly he isn't a bad guy, it's just that i don't want to live with him. i told my husband i didn't want him to live here but he moved him in anyway. now he's here all the time and doesn't sleep in his room, he's always taking up the couch. he doesn't have a job, and all he does is play on the computer and uses my cell phone to call his girlfriends. he's already put a hole in the wall. if i ask my husband to tell him to do something like 'wear a shirt' or 'get a job' or 'don't bring your skanky gfs around my daughter' my husband flies off the handle and acts like i'm the one with the problem. what hurts the most is that my husband doesn't respect my wishes like i'm the one with the problem. help!

2007-01-04 12:37:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I have been together now for about a year. I love him more then anything in this world and I always make sure that he knows that. We have a wonderful relationship up until lastnight. I got a call my ex was killed in a car accident and I was just shocked couldnt believe it. I told my b/f what had happend and he was all about supporting me until today when I told him I wanted to go to the funeral and now he is all pissed off at me.... Am I in the wrong ??

2007-01-04 12:36:59 · 20 answers · asked by Stacy 2 in Singles & Dating

i just broke up with my boyfriend and he offered me expenive gifts to stay with him i want the gifts but i don't want him what do i do?

2007-01-04 12:36:55 · 4 answers · asked by dm4_0 1 in Singles & Dating