Well I've been dating my boyfriend for about a month, since we went back to school he hasnt talked to me and doesnt answer my phone calls. My friends have been trying to ask him if he wants to break up and he says no. But its kind of obvious he does. I really like him. and we talked on the phone the day before going back to school and everything was fine, until now. I need some advice. Is he trying to let go??
2007-01-04 12:41:33 · 6 answers · asked by cancer24star 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
one of my friends asked him if he was going out with anyone and he said no.
2007-01-05 09:52:19 · update #1
He may have a problem or something could be bothering him. Give him some space if he is going to break up with you he may be just waiting for the right time or moment when you are both alone with no other friends around.
2007-01-04 12:49:23 · answer #1 · answered by vampire_crazy2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What’s with you people ? Why are you giving this teenager bad advice ?
In response to your question cancer24star: I'll just give you a situation, an outrageous situation, to make you understand. Say you get selected for the Cheerleading Squad of your school even though you're bad at it. You don't want to embarrass yourself in public so you start practicing, say um... 4-5 hours a day. In the midst of all this, you forget to complete one of your assignments from school and your teacher gives you ten extra questions as a punishment !
Wouldn't you agree that your teacher is not in a position to understand your circumstances ?
I would rather recommend that you have a quiet conversation with your boyfriend and ask him, you should get a reason. If not, express your views that you would like to know what's troubling him (if anything).
Don't worry if he was thinking of breaking up then he would have told your friends. Since he's not said that to them, then your safe.
2007-01-04 13:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by Andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE ALREADY BROKE UP/. DONT MAKE YOURSELF LOOK PATHETIC BY CALLING HIM OR HAVING OTHERS ASK HIM QUESTIONS. HOLD YOUR HEAD HI AND BE STRONG AND SECURE. DON'T ANSWER IF HE CALLS YOU. HES A JERK. AND HE WASN'T REALLY YOUR BOYFRIEND ANYWAYS, YOU READ MORE INTO IT. SORRY JUST TRYING TO HELP. YOU WILL LEARN TO READ THE SIGHNS EVENTUALLY. GOOD LUCK. DO NOT TRY TO COMFORT HIM HE IS TRYING TO AVOID YOU. IT WILL ONLY MAKE HIM NOT LIKE YOU MORE. YOU ACT LIKE YOU DON'T CARE WILL BUG HIM.
2007-01-04 12:47:27 · answer #3 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be, or maybe he's found another girl. They're just suggestions. Maybe he's just feeling down, try to confront him and ask him.
2007-01-04 12:44:27 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly....i think he might have done something he regrets and he doesn't want to talk to you because he doesn't want to have to face you.........(like cheating) anyways you need to confront him face to face and just calmly ask what's going on.......it doesn't sound like he wants to break up it just sounds like he's afraid to confront you......if when you confront him he acts like he just really does not want to be around you then don't waste your time.........and don't wait around for him to break your heart......if it needs to be ended, end it quick so you don't get hurt
2007-01-04 12:54:42 · answer #5 · answered by jamie_lynn_1109 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just need time to think, ok
you don't have to worry or just ask him by yourself
2007-01-04 12:49:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋