I am really bad at playing "games"...so how do you make your husband jealous? We are seperated and i want him to feel the burn since he is the one who decided to leave.
I don't acctually want to date anyone right now i just want him to worry about what i am doing. any suggestions?
2007-01-04 12:38:15 · 23 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We are having a baby so he does worry about me and he always want to talk and see me but i want him to think i am busy, any ideas?
2007-01-04 12:41:35 · update #1
You don't have to date. Just be less predictable. Don't answer the phone if he calls. Don't be places where he might normally expect you to be. Behave a little diferently when he sees you. Just something that makes him wonder "what's up with that?"
2007-01-04 12:41:01 · answer #1 · answered by sammiejane67 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Geez, I totally get where you're comin from lol. You want him to feel that pain, I been there. But the best thing to do is just keep pressin and let him see you're not even worried about him at all. Deserves no energy from you and karma will strike and he'll see you eventually in a situation that'll hit him hard.
2007-01-04 20:42:08 · answer #2 · answered by jobs1012003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps the game playing is what caused him to leave in the first place. I would suggest you take a good hard look at what part you played in the problem and start working on it.
2007-01-04 20:41:43 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion? Stop worrying about the man who left you and start worrying about the life growing in your womb. You are going to be a mother...actually...not going...you are....your responsibilities start now...by taking care of yourself you take care of your baby...wasting time and emotion playing games..which are pointless to begin with..is not a good start. And let me tell you something...you thought you loved your husband? Just wait til you see your child...all other loves pale in comparison...ecspecially love for a faithless man.
2007-01-04 20:48:00 · answer #4 · answered by silentscreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to do that? All your doing is acting like a child. If he sees you moving on with your life and not worrying about what he's doing--that's burn enough right there.
2007-01-04 20:41:43 · answer #5 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother with making him jealous. It's just not worth the time and effort. Let him go and live your own life. He'll likely become most affectionate when he realizes that you are ignoring him.
2007-01-04 20:41:00 · answer #6 · answered by CyndiDrum 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's not worth the time, trouble or effort. I know you want him to feel some pain, but it won't work. Jealousy doesn't affect men like it does women. Besides, if he's the one who left, he probably won't care what you are doing.
2007-01-04 20:47:11 · answer #7 · answered by Leroy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess I can figure out WHY you're seperated...are you sure you're old enough to have a baby since you're so immature? Only immature persons seek revenge or to make someone envious...and you're obviously not a grown up.
2007-01-04 23:18:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Grow up. Marriage is not a "game". Why try to make him jealous? I would just forget about him and move on.
2007-01-04 20:42:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going in wrong direction by thinking if you make him jealous you will win him back, and make yourself feel better.......believe me!
You must accept the truth of the situation to better deal with it.....and if you want to get back with him.......try communicating with him regarding the situation between you........find out why he left, and compromise on your different wrongs.......hope you work things out.........
2007-01-04 20:43:56 · answer #10 · answered by angelcjc2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋