Family & Relationships - 4 January 2007

My exboyfirend has been trying to win me back over the past 2 weeks and I have enjoyed his efforts. I finally decided to go back out with him and he is dating another girl at the same time who he said he had ended it with weeks before. I called her today for the first time to ask about it and she said they were still dating now he won't talk to me and says this behaviour of mine is crazy. What do you think?

2007-01-04 13:13:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems like one side usually has stronger feelings and is only agreeing to be "friends with benefits" because it's better than nothing.

2007-01-04 13:13:27 · 8 answers · asked by Miss D 7 in Singles & Dating

What if your ex girlfriend/boyfriend hurt you? Not cheating, abuse, or anything like that but they did hurt you, would you take them back? why or why not?

2007-01-04 13:12:46 · 5 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4 in Singles & Dating

God, please explain to me why I am in so much pain. It hurts so much.

2007-01-04 13:12:46 · 17 answers · asked by influx_81 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm looking for an online friend about my age.I'm 14 and hope to have an online friend I can talk to.So any ages ranging for 14 to 16 would be great. if your 13 that's also okay. None of my friends are ever online so that's why I'm looking for one.

2007-01-04 13:11:21 · 7 answers · asked by .Forever Young. 4 in Friends

Why or why not?

2007-01-04 13:11:04 · 34 answers · asked by Miss D 7 in Singles & Dating

Last year we put up at least one hundred balloons for our grandaughters front yard for her bithday. Can you help with another cute idea to surprise her. The balloons last year bought tears to her eyes.

2007-01-04 13:10:03 · 5 answers · asked by kalikid64 2 in Family

2007-01-04 13:09:47 · 16 answers · asked by sassy4ya07 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-04 13:09:32 · 16 answers · asked by BRENDA 1 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend that I have been with for four years now. We also have a two year old daughter.About a year and a half ago we moved to a new state. Two months ago I found out he cheated on me a little over a year ago back home with two other girls and my sister. I know he hasn't cheated on me since. What would you do?

2007-01-04 13:09:32 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i need to know!

2007-01-04 13:09:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i have a friend and she told me that she wasnt actually eating lunch and breakfast. she says shes hungry but she doesnt eat because she thinks shes fat. when i tried to pursue the matter on AIM, she sighned off. im really worried about her because she isnt fat and anyway because we are going through puberty almost everyone in our grade is a little fat. what do i do to help her get over this? she says shes not starving herself and she doesnt think shes anorexic but im still worried. what do i do?

2007-01-04 13:08:52 · 5 answers · asked by Colin Night 2 in Friends

or against the law if we had a family member marry a two people instead of a priest/preacher? Is it possible? How can we make that happen?

2007-01-04 13:08:16 · 6 answers · asked by * Kittles * 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I just feel bad using a girl that is so willing with so many guys in a row.

2007-01-04 13:08:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am basically totally alone now. i live in the bronx and have one family member that i talk to often. but i have no close friends i hang out with and i started a new job in august and have a few friends from work i talk to on the telephone, but i am longing for real human contact. i hate drinking and i love to dance, but it is expensive and i do not like the atmosphere--i basically go there and everyone is already engaged in conversation and the guys who are alone at the bars are looking for a quickie, which is sometimes fun, but i am looking for more. any suggestions? i am dead-*** broke every week, my job is nice but i don't get paid much and so i cannot afford to join any classes/groups--so i end up watching dvds or going to the movies about once a month by myself--everything always by myself! i know this is true for a lot of people--but what am i doing wrong? please don't say the internet--i don't have a computer and i want to meet face to face instead of as a blind date.

2007-01-04 13:07:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this girl and well she has rejected me before, but currently we are just friends and I am waiting on for my second chance...

I am ok at singing, but if you compare my voice to the song, I sometimes can't closely immitate the song, DO you think it's alright for me to sing to her? will she get annoyed?

2007-01-04 13:06:52 · 18 answers · asked by rockability 1 in Singles & Dating

We dated for 2 weeks, and then I realized I didn't want to be in a relationship with him, and I couldn't stop thinking about another guy. We moved back a step to 'just seeing each other' because I told him about the guy and that I wasn't ready for a relationship. He was hurt, but is ok with how things are now. I'm not happy. I am no longer attracted to him in that way and I don't have the heart to break up with him because of how hurt he was last time we talked. Basically I'm trying to get him to want out of the relationship enough to break up with me, without being a jerk and with us remaining friends afterwards. Help.

2007-01-04 13:06:43 · 23 answers · asked by SerenityFilas 1 in Singles & Dating

My Two beautiful daughters have just recently came to me saying they would like to be called Ja-nay instead of Jennifer, and Her twin sister said she would like to be called Nik ay. I dont understand this. They want me to sign the papers so they can legally change them. I told them how much it hurt me that they wanted to change their names that took me so long to think of.
There real names are Jennifer Lola and Nicole Bella. They told their father if they don't get the name change they will run away.
I dont know what to do i grew up in a Southern Baptist house and chose to not let my children grow up the same way. I am in no way going to let them change there names to those street names but what can i tell them to make them change their minds.
any ideas will be helpful.

2007-01-04 13:06:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-04 13:06:23 · 14 answers · asked by Skypride 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i met this guy through my ex bf and i dont know whether hes just being nice or if he actually likes me.

While i was breaking up with my ex, he kept telling me what a good idea it was, and stayed up the whole night to make sure i was ok because he said he really cares about me and was worried.

He also said my ex didnt appreciate me at all and i deserve to go out with someone who cares about me and appreciates how great i am.

He calls me beautiful and stuff and does boyfriend things like lending me his jacket when i was cold and sharing a duvet etc...

Its quite hard to tell though cos hes pretty shy and iv only actually met him three times but we talk alot online.

Please say if you think this sounds like he likes me as just a friend or more, and if you think he wants to be more than just friends, any ideas on how it could work considering hes one of my exs best friends! (me and my ex arent on good terms)

2007-01-04 13:05:27 · 17 answers · asked by sparkles_x 5 in Singles & Dating

the reason being that there is lilmited space at the ceremony location but not at the reception location

2007-01-04 13:04:38 · 27 answers · asked by megdavis45 1 in Weddings

DUUDE... i'm talking to my crush rite now on AIM... and we're hardly talking.... wat should I say to keep the conversation flowing???

2007-01-04 13:04:34 · 11 answers · asked by leeza 1 in Singles & Dating

Help! My friends mom is going out with a seemingly nice guy, but her daughter is crazy enough to try murdering him and kill herself in the process. My friend is living in a devil's paradise at her house. I need to support her, but how?

2007-01-04 13:03:53 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I started flirting with a married man just to be cute and friendly.He actually started flirting with me first and i thought nothing of it because i just like to flirt!i do not put out or anything so i am not a whore.We met when i was in my first year of college and could not stand each other.He thought i was spoiled and prepie.I thought he was a wigger and a looser because he already had a daughter who was 7 at age 23.Later on as fate would have it when i graduated he ended up being my boss for two hellish years.He left for entrepeneur work and actually contacted me a year later to invest as a partner.I did and thats where the flirting began along with the traveling.I knew he was attracted to me but told him i would not do anything with him unless he was single.Only problem is he actually left his wife and know i have mixed emotions.What can i do?

2007-01-04 13:03:23 · 30 answers · asked by Megan W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-04 13:03:10 · 12 answers · asked by ? 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-04 13:02:05 · 15 answers · asked by Ben C 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a Christian woman; although I definitely have some negative down sides to my personality (impatient), I love the Lord and always envisioned myself being involved in a Christian marriage. My husband and I have very similar background structures. Nevertheless, his structure turned out completely different from mine (family). I wasn't fully cognizant of this until recently. Often times I want to divorce my husband (we've only been married a couple of months) because of how cold he can be. Certainly God does not like divorce and I did make a vow in front of God. I never pressure my husband into going to church because I can't stand to be pressued into anything. However, my husband has already cheated on me and he has a problem with deceiving me. He makes my parents and others believe that he does love me and he wants to make me happy. Sometimes I see it, more often than anything else, I don't see it. Has anyone ever experienced this type of madness before?

2007-01-04 13:01:57 · 17 answers · asked by PEACHFACE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Normally I'd post a question like this in Family, but I need answers from people who might know me, so here I am.

Two or three days ago, I mentioned to my mom that I would like to try my hand at stand-up comedy. (Assuming I'm funny enough, and I think I am.) She warned against it, saying that comedians must be able to put up with a lot of abuse from the audience, which I can't do because I am — quote — a "little flower."

Yeah, that's what she said.

Vindicate me, people. Isn't it true that I am most definitely NOT a little flower? I may be little physically, but wouldn't I be able to put up with heckling?

2007-01-04 13:01:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 13:00:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-04 13:00:31 · 15 answers · asked by Answerer 7 in Other - Family & Relationships