My exboyfirend has been trying to win me back over the past 2 weeks and I have enjoyed his efforts. I finally decided to go back out with him and he is dating another girl at the same time who he said he had ended it with weeks before. I called her today for the first time to ask about it and she said they were still dating now he won't talk to me and says this behaviour of mine is crazy. What do you think?
2007-01-04 13:13:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You were right. Why would you go back out with him, if he is not going to have you as his only girlfriend?
If he was serious about winning you back, you would be the only one for his affection.
2007-01-04 13:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by colinsmumplus1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crazy...no! You were looking for validation that he was ready to be in a relationship with you. There's nothing wrong with knowing all the facts before you take another chance with him. Obviously you had some issues as to whether or not you could trust him. I say you were right to follow your instincts. Be happy you found out now that he was not truthful with you...instead of deeper into the relationship. In the long run, you're better off without him and the right guy is there for you.
2007-01-04 13:19:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is still not talking to you its because you caught him and he is mad about getting caught. I think you were very smart for doing what you did and you had every right to do it.
If he says he is innocent than he should have no problem with all three of you getting together and setting this girl straight! ;) lol
You deserve so much better!! Just think of it this way; a new year and a new beginning! good luck!
2007-01-04 13:25:31 · answer #3 · answered by hopefloats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he told you that he had stopped seeing her, and you knew enough to call her to find out, only to prove to yourself that was not true, you don't need to waste anymore time on him. You shouldn't have doubt him in the first place. You're not crazy, it's just that he's not a good liar and you caught him. I'd let him off the hook permanently if I were you.
2007-01-04 13:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by Irish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's the one who's crazy. He's just mad at u for calling ( u did good) in making sure. I don't blame u for doing it, now he pissed at u because he lied and now he may be in trouble with his gf
He shouldn't have lied and he shouldn't have tried to start back up with u knowing he was in a relationship with anothr. So u see he's no good because he lied ( now u can see why he's ur ex) if he does this to her think of what he would do if u had started up with him again.
2007-01-04 13:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he won't talk to you.He knows he's been had ,and by avoiding you he gets away with it,and away from having to hear whatever you would say.Its is a mans way of getting off scott free and letting you deal with all the pain and emotion that might accure.The best and hardest way is to just leave him out of your life.If he can do this to you he is not worth your cares and your time.He will do it again.
2007-01-04 13:20:59 · answer #6 · answered by jeff h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People see extra-marital relationships with a varying degree of importance. I can tell from your question that you don't see it with that much importance (no offense meant). I recommend that in order to achieve what you percieve as happiness, you should have the relationship on your own terms rather than letting him dictate them. So don't accept his strange behavior of having two girlfriends at once.
2007-01-04 13:17:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sucks at life. You and the other girl both need to wave him goodbye. You both deserve better. Kudos for torturing him through trying to win you back, though. That's always good fun while it lasts.
2007-01-04 13:16:39 · answer #8 · answered by Cat Loves Her Sabres 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's what men would say, if you caught them redhanded. He's a two-timer. I wouldn't go out with him again.
2007-01-04 13:20:27 · answer #9 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he lied to you and he got caught lying, so I guess he's the idiot and he is trying to put it off on you!
2007-01-04 13:17:15 · answer #10 · answered by rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋