Family & Relationships - 4 January 2007

Would a guy think it is not feminine for a girl to express interest in Him?What do they prefer?

2007-01-04 13:52:08 · 9 answers · asked by biologie 1 in Singles & Dating

My guy is 52, I'm 19. We've known each other for many years. Other than our age, we have so many things in common. We definately love each other very much. We've never let sex enter into our relationship.

We've kissed and stuff, but no intercourse.

2007-01-04 13:51:57 · 14 answers · asked by ash84102 2 in Marriage & Divorce

The other night.........?
I asked a girl I had met before for her number. New Year's eve, her and I were talking, she actually started talking to me and her and I chatted a bit and she told me several times she was going to another party.....but may be coming back.

So I told her that I would say bye to her before she left.....I was going to plan to ask for her number there when she was leaving and I asked in case she wasn't coming back if I could call her sometime.

Her response? Kind of looking away, like she was thinking about something. And then she said "I think I may be coming back:" and then walked away.

Did she read me wrong from the intial first convo, or was it as clear to everyone else INCLUDING myself that she wasn't interested?

2007-01-04 13:51:26 · 10 answers · asked by heymanchase 1 in Singles & Dating

I kinda broke up with my bf on newyears eve, on new years day i talked to him and told him i love him and i wanted him back, he then told me that i wasn't worth it, that he was bored and tired of me. I kinda gave him his space and tried to think things up and everytime i saw him i acted happy because i didn't want him to think i missed him. After what he had told me was that the right thing to do? ... Well anyways, today I was talkin to him and he told me he'll leave and not come back, so i told him my TRUE feelings, I told him that i love him and cant be without him. He just laughed and told me I should be an actress.
Should I try again? or move on? or maybe do something else, i really have no idea.... What do you think i should do?

2007-01-04 13:51:18 · 14 answers · asked by Carol M 1 in Singles & Dating

few weeks before i graduated from college which i just did, i met a girl. one time, late at night, when we were both studying, she said she was starving so i wanted to feed her, but it was 2am so no place was open so i told her to come back to my room. i was REALLY busy at that time with papers and working a full time job so my room was really messy, even though i had cleaned it a week before. there was newspaper on the floor because i am a painter. that was the only time she saw my room. we are still friends and both kinda like each other but i still can't get over the way my room was the only time she saw it and i graduated so i won't have another chance. i feel like a bum. why do i keep dwelling on this??

2007-01-04 13:50:39 · 7 answers · asked by the w 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 13:50:08 · 15 answers · asked by HONEY 2 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey I Got A Limo To Take Twenty People To Da Movies. My Friend Is Gonna Bring Seven People. I Know That He Is Gonna Invite A Guy Whose Girlfriend I REALLY Like. Should I Let Her Go And Make Things Awkward . Or Should I Say No. If Yes How Should I Act

2007-01-04 13:50:06 · 7 answers · asked by Lord Ultimate 1 in Singles & Dating

I just recently moved back home from LA and literally a week after being home my mother was rushed to the hospital. She has COPD, diabetes and heart disease, the three deadly diseases. My mom has been in the hospital now for 2 months and I'm just getting exhausted going there. I feel so guilty not being there every day and I'm starting to give up hope shes going to recover and come home. Is it wrong that I'm not there every day and feeling angry that shes not home with me?

2007-01-04 13:50:05 · 7 answers · asked by layala74 2 in Family

we havnt talked in a few days but i see him on im the past few days but he wont say anything to me or just sign off i dont think ive done anything he wont talk to me at all i dont no wat to do can someone help me

2007-01-04 13:49:19 · 19 answers · asked by skeletalgrlforeverwaiting 3 in Singles & Dating

My fiance won a trip tp Puerto Rico this past year. The trip is scheduled for the end of April and we were considering getting married while we are there. I know this would probably upset my family but I really don't want to have a big wedding. In order to have a wedding with my family it would have to be a big one. i kind of want to go get married in Puerto Rico and then just come back home and have a reception. What should I do?

2007-01-04 13:49:08 · 9 answers · asked by a_bai04 2 in Weddings

2007-01-04 13:49:03 · 16 answers · asked by anisa m 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-04 13:48:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to propose marriage to a guy. I would like opinions on this please.

2007-01-04 13:48:44 · 10 answers · asked by ash84102 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been seeing this guy and the other night he kept commenting about other women at his work party, which is totally not him (usally is very sweet and kind). He knows I'm will to have a 3some either way, so was that his way of asking?

2007-01-04 13:47:42 · 4 answers · asked by sassiwolf 7 2 in Singles & Dating

My dad was away often (work) and he used to be my only protector. My mum didn't give a **** about her children. She's always sleeping during the day. Was never around. Never cook for us. Never clean the house. I was sick one time and she didn't even bother to give me a medicine. I had to look at the cabinet for it myself. She was always on my dad's face. Playing tennis until late w/ friends without letting my dad knows. Wasting money for facials and hair salons (she never washes her hair by herself).They were fighting alot. When she got angry, she would beat her kids (a.k.a me) with a stick for no reason. One day(I was 11), she hit me and dragged my hair into the living room, I was crying, and suddenly had the courage to kick her off me. Since then I was this Rebellious kid. I shouted back at her and always telling her what she did wrong. She never listens. I was sent to a boarding school when I was 13. They only visited me TWICE the whole time I was in high school. I hate her.

2007-01-04 13:47:17 · 15 answers · asked by Heartache 2 in Family

I ask this because I always thought a shy guy would be kind hearted, but I've seen a shy guy who was a real bastard to his girlfriend. I'm just wondering what people think from their past experiences.

2007-01-04 13:47:03 · 10 answers · asked by Do_As_Infinity 5 in Singles & Dating

He is so sweet and everything, but when I think of him, I don't see him in a "liking" way. But, I am constantly talking about all the funny stuff he does and everyone thinks I like him. Everytime the phone rings, I hope it will be him, even though he only calls me if he doesn't know what the pages were for math or something. I really really want to become close friends with him. All this is making me think that maybe I think a little bit more of him than I thought I did. All you love experts out there, I need help!

2007-01-04 13:46:20 · 8 answers · asked by Camel Catcher 1 in Singles & Dating

Say she wants to cut her long hair, to up above her shoulders, how would you respond? My long hair is past my shoulder blades about 3" and I feel I want to cut it short but my guy loves my long hair. I've heard guys feel long hair on a girl is sexier than short hair.

2007-01-04 13:46:10 · 4 answers · asked by art_girlt 3 in Singles & Dating

- - - I was sitting at lunch with people talking..not my best friends but still FRIENDS
- - - A freaky tall black kid shoved up against me
- - - I stood up to go sit across instead of right next to him
- - - I was wearing shorts
- - -He looked.
- - -He touched my leg
- - -I said stop, don't do that
- - - He continued, I then stopped effing around
- - - I said STOP and i kicked him in his shins..he was shocked i did it, but he didnt do anything but touch my leg
- - - I said STOP OR I AM GOING TO TELL THE PRINCIPAL IF YOU TOUCH ME ONE MORE TIME
- - - He hovered his hand over my upper leg and i said that's good enough for me
- - - I stood up and walked up to the principal and let him know
He went to the a.hole and said DON'T TOUCH HER OR YOULL BE SUSPENDED

he followed me to the next table and the principal came to yell again.
i left out of sight and that was that. now the school security said to keep him alert if anything else happens. but im scared if he does it again

2007-01-04 13:45:02 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I personally wouldn't - don't want to kiss an ashtray. How about you?

2007-01-04 13:44:37 · 42 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok I have one bff, T, who I've known since last year, and I have another bff, C, who I just met this year. And they don't like eachother at all! So C kept slamming her books on the table repeatedly at lunch annoying EVERYONE at the table *whcih was like 8 or 9 kids* and they all moved away from me. Now C told me that she had a class to go to and that she wasn't eating lunch that day. So I moved to the other table with everyone else, and then today C said she's not my friend anymore cuz she actually lied to me, she was really coming back to lunch instead of going to another class. And so when I moved back with my other friends, C said that she came back to lunch and saw me sitting over there and today said that betraded her. Are u on my side or C's side? Sry if this sounds a little bit confusing =]

2007-01-04 13:44:20 · 6 answers · asked by Sumara 4 in Friends

i know how but i would want to hear som ideas im bored
and also i would need it for my next girl
im 13 so what it aint to late just give me som ideas people
thanks
i wanna know how all of you think
i would want to know better and be a better guy
if any females answe me give me examples of how you would like to be treated
dont come in here getting mad at me just help u earn 2 points anyway

2007-01-04 13:44:17 · 7 answers · asked by rapping_game 2 in Singles & Dating

A few days ago my best friend Curtis came over and things were starting off normal and then all of a sudden this always happens but still he always takes me upstairs to my room to talk to me in private and there he was jumping on me and saying to me that he has no idea why he is doing that. Then when him and I went out to dinner together he was complaining about his bf like "oh she has never kissed anybody, she doesn't know how to kiss, but I really like her and all". Why is he complaining to me? And then when we get back to my house he takes me upstairs again and he asks me personal questions like "how do u know when a girl comes?" And then he kept asking poking me in the boob and singing to me. And then he says that him and I friendly flirt with eachother. And he also says that I make him worry and he said if anyone tries to beat me up he will beat them up. He treats me better than his own gf. And I have a bf. Do u think he's hiding his feelings from me?

2007-01-04 13:44:14 · 5 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

what do you do when you are in love with some one that lives in india? but u are in the us and you haven't seen the guy in 6 years, and you told your aunt to find where there are at... but there could not fine where they live at and now you miss him with all your heart and you dont thing about anyone else but him and you have been love sime you were 9.

2007-01-04 13:43:58 · 8 answers · asked by trisha 1 in Singles & Dating

Ugh. My ex broke up with me.. through a text message!.. three days ago and I can't get him out of my mind. He's going out with a girl from another town. We really really liked each other.. and I think we still do. He stares at me any chance he gets and the one time he talked to me he looked at me like he always used to, and looked down at my lips.. lol.. should I go after him or wait until he maybe comes to me? I'm very impatient x____x Thanks.

2007-01-04 13:43:26 · 4 answers · asked by xsaranara 1 in Singles & Dating

I got a phone call from a gorgeous ex-girlfriend the other day. We lost track of time, chatting about the wild nights we used to enjoy together. I couldn't believe it when she asked if I'd like to meet up and maybe rekindle a little of that magic.

"Wow!" I said, "I don't know if I could keep pace with you now. I'm a bit older and a bit balder than when you last saw me."

She giggled and said she was sure I'd meet the challenge!

"Yeah", I said, "just so long as you don't mind a man with a waistband that's a few inches wider these days."

She laughed and told me to stop being so silly. She teased me, saying that she thought tubby bald men were cute.

"Anyway, I've put on a couple of pounds myself," she giggled.


So I told her to fcuk off.

2007-01-04 13:42:56 · 17 answers · asked by toietmoi 6 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy named t.j. adn i have l;ike him since he sang a song last year and i dont no how to tell him i like him b/c if i do tell him would if he dosent like me back please help me i really like him a lot and we talk some but not a lot ?????

2007-01-04 13:42:53 · 5 answers · asked by brooke j. 1 in Friends

My girlfriend is very emotional and it hurts me when she starts crying. I have hugged and she still cries. I'd like to know how I could help her feel better about herself... and have the courage to be a strong young when her father goes and if something was to happen to him.

2007-01-04 13:41:59 · 13 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 13:41:05 · 30 answers · asked by vanessa m 2 in Singles & Dating

is there any site where i can make a profile and find a down to earth guy.it has to be for teens though.not myspace thank you.lol.uhhh i am like 15 so if that helps.thx. ♥

2007-01-04 13:40:05 · 5 answers · asked by bassrock@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating