Family & Relationships - 4 January 2007

I never have anything to say. A lot of my relationships to my friends are awkward. Every time there is a circle in a group, I am always outside of it because I never have anything to say. It is also hard for me to get a girlfriend because i am to shy. I am also like this with my family (aside from my mom and dad).

I want to become more social, outgoing, funny, and bold. How can I achieve this? or How can i change my current personality to this personality? I really want to change this because it is a big problem for me.

2007-01-04 14:11:10 · 8 answers · asked by West 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-04 14:10:43 · 2 answers · asked by allan_smrt 1 in Singles & Dating

when my sister goes to bed tonight, how can i trick her(no wip cream and feather trick or hand in water trick)?

2007-01-04 14:09:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

On December 13, 2006 I asked this guy i liked to the dance that was on the 15th. He told me that he doesn't think that he is free that night because he has a Christmas party to go to and his dad's team that he coaches has a game that night. I kept it cool and pretended that it was all right that he didn't accept.The next few days at school it was very awkward and we didn't say anything to each other until on the 15th (last day of school for 2006) i gave him a candycane and said "happy holidays" and he said "oh thanks". then a few days later i imed him and we are kind of talking. he has never asked any questions or start a conversation on aim (same with my other friends).
so far we have talked like twice on aim (both started by me) I am trying to move on. But i still have faith that something can happen. yesterday when we went back to school for the first time in 07 we walked past each other and gave each other a small smile (hes really polite to all girls). What should i do now? t/y

2007-01-04 14:09:36 · 5 answers · asked by cady 2 in Singles & Dating

Anyone like that Donna Summer song?
Was just listening to it and couldn't think of a decent Q at this unearthly hour.....

2007-01-04 14:09:32 · 5 answers · asked by crazeeladee no more 5 in Singles & Dating

please give me some tips of how to talk about it to her and what should i start with keeping that in mind not make her feel akward about the whole thing

2007-01-04 14:09:30 · 14 answers · asked by Jay Dee 1 in Weddings

I've dated a number of men-- some attractive, some not. The attractive ones are always "players" who can't seem to be devoted to one person. Why is that? Same question could go for women, I suppose...

2007-01-04 14:08:54 · 14 answers · asked by mavmaiden_62 1 in Singles & Dating

My hubby hates it when I am on the computer. Although I am 3 feet away from him, the t..v. is going and I carry on a conversation, he gets attitude when I am on line. It is almost as if he is jealous. Anyone else feel this way?

2007-01-04 14:08:51 · 5 answers · asked by vivib 6 in Family

if you are talking to a person with a lazy eye...one eye is looking to the left of you and one is looking to the right of you. which eye should you be looking at when you talk to them without being rude. or where else should you look without offending the person?

2007-01-04 14:08:26 · 3 answers · asked by talofa lava 2 in Friends

need answers soon cause im talking with her now

2007-01-04 14:07:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is way too old for me and acts like a big baby! i tried to get him to break up with me but that wuz a bust. normally i'm really good at this stuff but he is such a big baby! i don't have any harsh feelings and i want to end this as nicely as possible because i work with him. do i tell him the truth or what?

2007-01-04 14:07:33 · 14 answers · asked by Jane 2 in Singles & Dating

I have this idea of having long white drapes hang from the center of the ceiling towards the outer parts of the ceiling in the church when I get married but I cant seem to find a sample picture that I could take to the person who will be decorating my wedding.

2007-01-04 14:07:11 · 2 answers · asked by juguemos2004 1 in Weddings

I am young i want a relationship but i think it might just be better to date around..?

2007-01-04 14:06:57 · 32 answers · asked by Aricia 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 13. My gf has boys looking at her from towns away. Everywhere she goes there's a boy that knows her and likes her. I was the one that gathered courage to ask.

We've been going out a year with a lot of 'Kids Dating', like going to the movies. I've told her all I want to tell her ON THE PHONE.

Now I want to tell her she's beautiful, kind, funny, smart & gorgeous in person.. These are all true. How should I tell her? Just say it next time she's over? Say it with flowers? With a pink -heart-shaped stone?

My question is... how do I tell her all these things? She is... fascinating. And for the girls that wanna know... I am NOT Interested in her pants! (if you know what I mean) I am not!

2007-01-04 14:06:53 · 18 answers · asked by Yo Im Joe 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom is overprotected.i understand that she luvs me but she needs to stop treating me like a baby.you cant do this you cant do that what can i do thats all she says.when i try to talk to her about it she just says your to young.i really dont understand how she did things worser than what i wanna do when she was young but dont want me to do it.its not fare.

2007-01-04 14:06:45 · 10 answers · asked by alexis s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfried got my a see-through shirt and thong for my birthday from victoria secret wat doe s this mean?

2007-01-04 14:06:23 · 5 answers · asked by Dancer 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance wants to adopt my daughter but I need to get her father to give up his parental rights and I need to know where I need to start so that I can get the ball rolling?

2007-01-04 14:06:08 · 5 answers · asked by wetterstrom4 2 in Family

he is two years older than me..we started dating when i was a freshman and he a junior (in highschool) now hes a senior...i still really care about him..we are really good freidns still but it hurts ... we have been broken up for about 2-3 monthes and i have gotten past the hardest part of getting over him ...but it still controls me to a certain extent and i need to get past this ..how?

2007-01-04 14:05:59 · 21 answers · asked by B 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 18 and a Senior in High School. My bf who attends my school dumped me on CHRISTMAS over the phone and I did not see it coming. I did everything I could to be a good girlfriend, I went to all of his basketball games and called him afterwards to tell him how well he played, I gave him his space when he needed it and I was always loyal and honest with him.
He told me I did all of that stuff right, but he thinks I'm about to be an alcoholic. I've been around him drunk ONCE and he has smoked pot a few times and I NEVER complain about it. He said he broke up with me because of this and I care too much about other people and not enough about myself. Now that we are back in school, everyone knows I was dumped and it's humiliating. I don't know how I should act around him! And today when I walked by him he grabbed my waist like he used to do , I don't know why. .Please help I don't know how to act around him and even after all the pain he has put me through, I miss being his gf.

2007-01-04 14:05:55 · 11 answers · asked by susie q 2 in Singles & Dating

Thank you all for your responses. This is my first time utilizing this thing and I didn't expect for people to respond back so quickly. Anyway, even though a part of me wants to divorce my husband, another part of me wants to stay. The reason is because I have been fighting for my heart for four years and it's becoming so tiring out here. My husband says that I disrespected him, which I did, with my mouth. And although I'm not trying to justify my actions, I will just say that not everyone responds well to hurt and fear and I'm one of them. I guess what I'm really needing is someone to talk to because this is my second marriage, I'm pregnant with my first child, and now my husband says that I hurt him too. I'm so confused, bewildred, ultimately stressed out. I have cried enough and prayed enough. For those that said that they would pray, thank you. I need it.

2007-01-04 14:04:57 · 8 answers · asked by PEACHFACE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have two amazing boys 7 & 9. Im 33 and just wondering. Divorce was a year ago and I'm getting an itch to date.

2007-01-04 14:04:40 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i TOLD MY FRIEND I DIDN'T LIKE THIS BOY AND THEY THINK HE IS NOT SO GREAT BUT NOW I LIKE HIM AND HIS BEST FRIEND SAYS HE IS GOING TO ASK ME OUT SOON! IF I SAY YES MY FRIENDS WILL MAKE FUN OF ME BUT IF I SAY NO I WILL PROBABLY WILL BE CRUSHED!!! SHOULD I SAY YES OR NO???? P.S. I KNOW YOU WILL PROBABLY SAY IF THEY WILL MAKE FUN OF U THEY ARE NOT UR REAL FRIENDS BUT I NEED MORE THAN THAT PLZ I NEED HELP!!!!

2007-01-04 14:04:37 · 8 answers · asked by SYD 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy who really likes me told me he likes other girls that go to his school and I'm wondering if I should worry about it.

2007-01-04 14:03:25 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got caught in this relationship with a guest that stays at my hotel.
I wound up making out with him in his hotel room.
the next day he appologized to me about 10 times.
he just wants to be good friends now but I feel akward around him.
now I find out that he is going back to india in a month to get married! I feel awful! I don't want to see him anymore but I know I will! I feel like I had an affair with a married man.
what should I do?

2007-01-04 14:02:42 · 3 answers · asked by simpli_cute 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 14:02:15 · 25 answers · asked by Jessica T 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 14:01:53 · 1 answers · asked by aly 1 in Friends

My second-cousin has been dating the same girl for four years. At one point they even lived with my first cousin and her Husband. Now his Mother is jealous of the girlfriend and feel's that she's taking him away from her. They all constantly ask for my advice? What should I tell them. I think my cousin is being manipulative with her Son adn his girlfriend. She calls herself a Christian yet is always contradicting what she preaches. What should I do?

2007-01-04 14:01:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 14:01:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Any ideas?!?!? Plz tell me i need all the help i can get, they always embarris me in walmart on purpose!

2007-01-04 14:01:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My parents say 'don't eat so much' but yet they force me to eat every single day.

2007-01-04 14:00:55 · 4 answers · asked by ? 5 in Other - Family & Relationships