please give me some tips of how to talk about it to her and what should i start with keeping that in mind not make her feel akward about the whole thing
2007-01-04 14:09:30 · 14 answers · asked by Jay Dee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Well, women are very romantic.
Tell her, that you truly love her and that you are looking forward having her in your arms during the whole night... then go a step ahead and tell her, that you need her and want her (all girls love to be needed and wanted).
Tell her, that you will do everything for her to make her happy. (This is what most girls need to hear).
Tell her that you want to make love to her gently and sweet... (yes, you have to say it, because it’s always better to speak things out).
But also tell her, that you will do everything to please her and never hurt her... (She needs to feel comfortable and safe)
Might be a good idea to tell her, that she does not have to be afraid, because you will be patient and delicate with her...
Ask her, what she expects from you, ask her what you could do to please her...
Talk about the honey moon and make plans together... girls love to make plans...
Anyway, making love is like learning to drive a car... once you’ve learnt it you won’t miss it anymore...
2007-01-04 21:50:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anita P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her "what do you think about sex?" Why?
Keep arguing with her why she thinks that way.
If she says she does not know any thing ask her
"what are we going to do on first night and honeymoon?"
May be you can take her to some movies where there are sex and romantic scenes, later you can ask her opinion about that scenes.
You can tell her or read to her some sexy jokes, not too vulgar else it will create a wrong impression about you.
I think in these age of computers,TV and movies it is hard to believe she won't know any thing about sex.
WARNING:
Please do not think that by talking of sex you can have sex with her before marriage, if you try that against her wish you are certainly going to have a hard time with your marriage.
2007-01-05 01:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Condoms do no longer make any difference for ladies -- i've got in no way heard that they "kill the excitement" for ladies. it somewhat is adult adult males who do no longer in basic terms like the texture of condoms. ladies are indifferent to them aside from the undeniable fact that they make the intercourse much less spontaneous. in my opinion, I desire them and that i understand many married people who -- even after the female has long previous with the aid of menopause -- nonetheless use them with the aid of fact they are only undeniable purifier. you could surely bypass to mattress after intercourse, fairly than having to handle changing the sheets and stuff. USE A CONDOM. Later, if she gets on the pill or you hit upon yet another variety of start administration, you could try condom-much less intercourse. commonly, however, i does no longer advise looking forward to intercourse on the 1st night. in case you truly are confident which you would be able to "show her approximately intercourse" then you truly in all probability understand that good intercourse takes a protracted time and that she will have the skill to need to get used to you and different kinds of sexual activities in the previous having intercourse.
2016-11-26 20:10:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For 100% life to live, keep
30% for forgiving errors,
30% for appreciating qualities,
30% for living together,
8% for sex and
2% for conflicts.
Never discuss your life partner before any one in the world but herself. same is true for her also.LET THINGS GO NATURALLY, NO NEED TO PUT HERSELF OR YOURSELF IN AWKWARD POSITION.
2007-01-04 14:53:14 · answer #4 · answered by neela m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't start discussing on this topic prior to marriage, It will not give a good impact on him
2007-01-05 05:01:42 · answer #5 · answered by AVANISH JI 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start by asking her how she pictures her wedding night. Flowers, music, fireplace, wine, you. The ask her how you can make her dreams come true.
2007-01-04 14:14:13 · answer #6 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be frank to her and tell what u think.If she agrees its good else leave it till ur Honeymoon.
2007-01-04 21:36:08 · answer #7 · answered by Vicky S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
openly talk. these things has 2 be clear between u. if he is not saying u can say
2007-01-04 17:46:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be you are lucky and she knows more than you know and teach you everything about sex.
2007-01-04 14:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just get to the point, I presume you are both adults!
2007-01-04 14:24:00 · answer #10 · answered by Philosopher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋