Family & Relationships - 4 January 2007

I hate him so much and guess what he was my husband for 2 years. I hate him and i want to kill him he was sick evil, and disgusting, I hate him so much and I am christian, christian faith teaches LOVE PEOPLE WHO ABUSE YOU, But I want to kill him.That gross ugly thing. How can I love such a sick man?

2007-01-04 15:05:40 · 10 answers · asked by lydia w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok if you call a guy and he picks and very quickly says i'll call you back what does that mean


what if it happens a lot?

2007-01-04 15:05:28 · 7 answers · asked by Aloneeyes 2 in Friends

I am wanting to have an outside wedding, and my fiancé and i have looked at many beautiful gardens in our area, but they all are so expensive. Does anyone have an idea of any other places that might be available for an outside wedding? I was thinking maybe a park or something... but i was just wondering if there was any place i was overlooking.

2007-01-04 15:04:55 · 9 answers · asked by Andii 3 in Weddings

I have a very close friend who I have known for many years. I am familiar with his family and they are of me. His brother-in-law just passed away. It was a sudden death. I would like some proper words of sympathy to express to my friends' sister. Again, we know of each other and care for one another through my friend, who is the brother. I sure hope this makes sense. Basically, what words of caring to share to an acquaintance who also holds a special place in ones heart because of a mutual person. ???

2007-01-04 15:04:38 · 7 answers · asked by T. Y. 2 in Friends

well there is this guy that i like
he sits next to me but hes suppose to be
a desk away but he sits right next
i mean like right there on myside
i look at every one else and they
are far apart but hes right there
he also just talks to me out of my group
does he like me?
how wdo i make sure

2007-01-04 15:04:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 15:03:09 · 18 answers · asked by ♪Miss_Soprano♫ 2 in Singles & Dating

Well I have 5 guys fighting over me about who I'm going to date or going to a dance with stupid stuff like that.

2007-01-04 15:02:41 · 11 answers · asked by Angela R 2 in Singles & Dating

ok my friend charlatte .dared me to kiss this guy at my school but when i told her only if she did a dare too she backed out why is she such a wimp

2007-01-04 15:01:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-04 15:01:13 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive been with my bf for 9 months and living together for 4 months and for the past two months it seems hes not as interested in sex or other positions or places and ive tried lots of things ive tried porn, different times of day, me initiating (alot), even sexy lingerie but all that does is sit on my dresser, and when i do get him to have sex he'll get off quick and im left turned on and frustrated. is it time to get a vibrator cause im running out of ideas.

2007-01-04 15:00:12 · 9 answers · asked by tasha1b4u2b_beth 1 in Singles & Dating

He wants to be friends with benefits with me but he has 3 other "friends" too because he's not allowed to have a girlfriend. Should i be friends with him because i really do like him....?

2007-01-04 14:59:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm already 20. but my parents seems don't realize that. they think i'm just let's say 5 or 10 y'old girl. how can i be free? i want to be an independent person but they treat me like a lil kid. even i when i go to other city for a week, they act like i'm going for years. gosh! it only take 2.5 hr... 3 hours max to go to that city. how can i move on? help me please!!
p.s. they're so sensitive. i talked to them before and they got disapointed at me.

2007-01-04 14:59:01 · 7 answers · asked by No*Nick 2 in Family

to the point of she wants to get married when shes 20. how do i know if she is really "serious"?

2007-01-04 14:58:28 · 10 answers · asked by BoSox 007 3 in Singles & Dating

My father and I have never been close. I want to walk myself down the aisle, but I was wondering if I would be looked down upon for this. I feel like since he hasn't really been there for me emotionally my entire life, I'd rather walk by myself. I would still have him give me away though.

2007-01-04 14:58:22 · 19 answers · asked by laura michelle 3 in Weddings

I got a new girl and I need some where to take her.

2007-01-04 14:57:51 · 3 answers · asked by rockerluis777 1 in Singles & Dating

If so would you mind sharing some of your experiences, how you coped, do you still talk to them? I'm so sad right now, I feel very alone, I just thought it might make me feel better if I knew other people could relate. Thanks

2007-01-04 14:57:45 · 6 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family

There are five of us living together (girls) four of us have known one another since pre-k. So, we're like sisters. And the other girl, we recently took her in as a roommate, she came highly recommoned. She's very clean-which is great, b/c we're all clean freaks. But she has a habbit of walking around nude whenever she's in the house. Personally it doesn't matter me, since the rest of the girls walk around the house half nude anyways...But she's now answering the door wearing just her birthday suit. She's extremely big girl-and the neigbors/roommates/b/fs are complaing. I tried to talk to her but she's the type that plays the race card. What Do I Do?

2007-01-04 14:57:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

your wives/gf give birth? Is sex the same since our bodies change? Do you loose interest?

2007-01-04 14:57:28 · 12 answers · asked by janu014 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-04 14:57:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance of 2yrs always makes me these big promises, but never follows through. He never buys me gifts, never sends me flowers...nothing. This year for Christmas he promised me a couple of things..what did he give me? Nothing, absolutely nothing! Not even a card or flower. I got him everything he asked, spending $2000 on him. His excuse? His clutch went out on his truck...and had no money. His clutch went out the week before Christmas, which also shows me he waits until the last minute to buy things. I figured since my birthday sucked, he could have at least done SOMETHING nice for me at Christmas.

I love him, and he always says he loves me. He says, "I really do love you, even though you don't believe I do". I have every reason to think he don't love me.

Am I asking too much?
We live together, he don't have THAT many bills & he makes 4 times what I do.

I am ashamed of myself for letting this bother me. But, I am hurt. Am I wrong for being upset or thinking he don't care?

2007-01-04 14:57:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-04 14:57:03 · 5 answers · asked by lisaraye 2 in Singles & Dating

I was in a 4 and a half year relationship and I still hurt. It seems hard to get over and like I should be over this. She has totally moved on and is with someone else. I still have contact with her to keep her in my 5 year old sons life since they are best friends and it would kill him not to have her in his life.

2007-01-04 14:54:55 · 12 answers · asked by Chef Bert 2 in Friends

I'm a single parent who works FT and spends most of my time away from work with my 6-year old. There's no chance of me meeting anyone at work. How am I supposed to meet anyone new?

2007-01-04 14:54:26 · 1 answers · asked by Blue Eyes 2 in Singles & Dating

just asked this Q half hour ago and it's lost in the system.
Say something to activate my stagnant brain please!!!!!

2007-01-04 14:53:37 · 8 answers · asked by crazeeladee no more 5 in Singles & Dating

i want to try to make an initials bracelet with my boyfriend initials and one for me as well to symblize our love i cant really find any guys type bracelets like that..... can you help me out tell me how i can me one or where i can get one all ready made

2007-01-04 14:53:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 40 years old and have been with my husband for 23 years. he is 44. He has cheated on me in the past but I thought we put that behind us. Now he is coming home late every night. disapears on the weekends and gets angry if I ask where he's been. he has a facial cleansing routine that lasts 2 HOURS everynight and he is very angry at me. When I ask him about it or ask him if he wants a divorce he tells me we will talk later. I feel that he is trying to make me leave so I will lose the house and everything I worked soooo hard for. I am scared and hurt and I dont know what to do. what do I do???

2007-01-04 14:52:28 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

True or False

Up & Down
Smile & Frown
Happy & Sad
Good & Bad

Angels & Demands
Day & Night
God & Devil
Darkness & Light

Weird & Normal
Stupid & Smart
Funny & Boring
Finish & Start

Sun & Moon
Life & Death
Child & Adult
Gasp & Breath

Hot & Cold
Fantasy & Reality
Sun & Snow
Kindness & Brutality

Up & Down
Fire & Ice
Fast & Slow
Mean & Nice

Black & White
Short & Tall
Lovely & Rude
Nothing & All

Yin & Yang
Peace & War
Right & Wrong
Ceiling & Floor

Girl & Boy
Silent & Loud
Identical & Opposite
Ashamed & Proud

Outgoing & Shy
Love & Hate
Past & Future
Reason & Fait

Rich & Poor
Hello & Goodbye
Are all just examples of
You & I

2007-01-04 14:52:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its my ex. we was going together on a 'on again off again' for a long time and he broke up with me for the last time for having an abortion. it was really stressful on my part expecially since when that happened I was in my teens. I'm now in my 20's. well, he recently came back into my life and I don't know what to do. I still have that love for him that's burning in my soul but I don't want to get hurt again. I'm not physically attracted to him and now he has bad habits.. smoking, drinking, partying, etc. Do I give him another chance even tho in the past all I did was give him chances? or do I just love the voice on the phone? HELP... LoSt AnD cOnFuSeD!!

2007-01-04 14:51:14 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

His son thinks that it has been too long for me to go thru his dads stuff and to give him things. I feel that it hasn't been long enough. I feel that I am not ready. I have tried but just can't bring myself to do it. Is there a proper amount of time? We were together for seven years and I love having his things around me, I can't bear to part with them right now.

2007-01-04 14:51:11 · 11 answers · asked by fran 1 in Family

I am 31....good looking very deep have a career, and a affectionate person to almost all people. A few of my friends have even sad " You care about everybody " I meet women and its always a nightmare...They play games..breakup dont know what they want. etcc....I always think every girl is trustworthy and I get played out...I am smart but I fall for this non sense every time and I always get hurt...I am thinking about making myself a shield and never allow emotions to play a role in a relationship again..and use women for sex...I can afford to buy them nice stuff and have a realtionship like that..In short I think I am becoming the person I never wanted to become. I would love to have one girl to love and cherish..But I am becoming to the point I view women as objects..I feel bad

2007-01-04 14:50:41 · 29 answers · asked by zigzag 2 in Singles & Dating