2007-01-04 14:57:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
All relationships must change. No matter how old we are, we continue to evolve. What was critically important 10yrs ago could be meaningless now. Support each other, there will be growing pains- but as life evolves, so must relationships in order to succeed. There will be hot and cool periods in your marriage. Say to each other what you need- and ask your partner how you can best support him.
2007-01-04 17:05:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to figure out why you are starting to be on different pages and what you can do to fix the issues that have made you feel not in sync. I would say as long as the husband or the wife isn't having an affair; this could be resolved with honest communication. Good luck.
2007-01-04 15:55:46 · answer #2 · answered by Tgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling, it can be difficult at times...sometimes I wonder if it would be beneficial to just take a solo trip, do some writing, and see what it feels like to be by oneself for a bit, you know? I think quiet time by yourself will benefit a deeper perspective on things. It may even take a few trips to dig deeper and deeper into your thoughts and do a little journalism too.
Don't feel guilty though.....your feelings are your feelings. I say this because I too feel as if I'm on a crossroads sometimes, not only w/that but a bit of everything.
Just keep the faith within yourself.
2007-01-04 15:24:13 · answer #3 · answered by deirdrefaith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start opening up to each other about what is important in this stage of the relationship. Be candid, honest and open to change. Be considerate of the other person's feelings. Be the best help mate you can without losing yourself.
2007-01-04 15:36:23 · answer #4 · answered by Patricia D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone changes over time...find the common ground between you, and embrace that. As for your differences, just accept that you might not have the same person you married. Hopefully the change isn't too drastic and it's something that isn't a deal breaker.
2007-01-04 15:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by T J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...thats when you have to mix it up alittle. Surprise her at work with flowers, set up a romantic dinner for two. Cook her a special meal, go do something wild and crazy...bc if you dont than you run the risk of loosing that person.
2007-01-04 15:01:40 · answer #6 · answered by anhyeuem060288 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is a journey
you are both on the same ship
make the best of it
2007-01-04 14:59:25 · answer #7 · answered by sparetom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think thats whats happening to me and my husband.we dont talk anymore dont spend hardly any time together.im just trying to stay positive bc he says he loves me.maybe things will work.
2007-01-04 15:05:15 · answer #8 · answered by starr67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new book
2007-01-04 14:59:12 · answer #9 · answered by guru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is exactly where we are. I have had it.
2007-01-04 15:12:30 · answer #10 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋