your wives/gf give birth? Is sex the same since our bodies change? Do you loose interest?
2007-01-04 14:57:28 · 12 answers · asked by janu014 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nope, still the same. Turned on by the same woman that turned us on prior to birth.
You're going to have insecurities about how you look afterward, there is no doubt about that. But it's just like the insecurities you faced in high-school . . . how did you deal w/them then? At each stage of life, you're going to have insecurities.
Trust me, he will still find you hot! You're still the same person, know what he likes, what turns him on, etc.
2007-01-04 15:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, my wife and I had sex days before she had our son. I was gentle and it was great.
After the birth, it took awhile. I think it was about 2-3 months. Then, it was great again. The doctor has a way to make a woman tighter after she gave birth. Its a normal thing for doctors to do.
Yes at times later she lost interest. It was mostly because she was so tired though taking care of the baby. But eventually, things get back to normal.
2007-01-04 23:13:14 · answer #2 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I thought sex was always better after the birth of the first child.
2007-01-04 23:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends
the man should observe birth from a discreet angle,
the woman should stay connected to her husband & stay affectionate
keep him ejaculating with you & rarely by himself
tell him he is so sexy
share your breast milk - it is sweet & an aphrodisiac
it doesn't take much to make sex interesting
try trimming your pubic hair a different way
remember men like to look a women, so when you are intimate be sure to pose for me in several poses letting him admire you & grope you
... hey - just being honest!
don't rush yourself & be prepared to do a lot of blowing ...
he'll come around
2007-01-04 23:04:57 · answer #4 · answered by sparetom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maylene,a man only looses int rest in a women when the women looses int rest in herself. exercise after child birth and proper eating for both you and your family will keep you healthy and interesting to your husband.
2007-01-05 09:05:35 · answer #5 · answered by tonyflorida2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex isnt the same, its not bad but the guy that said it can only get better if full of it, but no most men wouldnt lose interest
2007-01-04 23:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by steven d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know our bodies change after childbirth but i dont think they lose interest.if it doesnt feelthe same to you talk to your partner and maybe you can do things differently.change positions to make you feel better about yourself.have oral sex more often,you dont have to have intercourse to be satisfied and neither does he.
2007-01-04 23:02:25 · answer #7 · answered by starr67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if we see the birthing process, or if you all still eat as though you are still pregnant...
2007-01-04 23:04:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no i know i did not lose interest --- and sex just gets better the more you do it
2007-01-04 22:59:54 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If anything...it's better. Because now it's not just sleeping with your wife...but the mother of your children. That's just my opinion
2007-01-04 23:04:15 · answer #10 · answered by Northy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋