He wants to be friends with benefits with me but he has 3 other "friends" too because he's not allowed to have a girlfriend. Should i be friends with him because i really do like him....?
2007-01-04 14:59:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, you can, but make it rediculously clear that you are off-limits.
But be carefull because of the often used rule of- guilt by association. You don't want people thinking that you are not pure or cannot stand up for yourself etc.
So, that is really your call, pray about it and consult some good friends. Maybe close friends who are not teens or 20somethings.
Most of the time, years bring lessons which bring knowledge.
I can't tell you what to do but I can advise you to be wise.
Even though you like him, watch yourself, him, and others.
Somtimes even though we are called to love people it's wise not to spend too much time with them.
Especially a guy and a girl, way more can go wrong that was never even thought of.
Rambo.
2007-01-04 15:05:20 · answer #1 · answered by rambocommandodude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly she is weak and without self-respect. How about just telling her that she should have more self-respect and that her actions are causing you to question her stability. You cannot support her in something that will most likely be devastating. It always is for women when it doesn't work out. Be honest with her with what is on your heart. If you disagree with it, then walk away and don't support it.
2016-03-29 08:24:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it. It becomes complicated and creates issues that were never a problem before... especially if feelings are involved. Often times feelings are not mutual in the end and someone gets hurt.
2007-01-04 15:02:49 · answer #3 · answered by mysticalelixir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't lower yourself down to his level, it seems to me all he wants is the physical stuff that you can offer to him and he doesn't want a commitment to that. I bet if you say no he won't talk to you a lot because he just wants to satisfy his needs, and he doesn't care about your emotional wants
2007-01-04 15:06:37 · answer #4 · answered by Nick S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who does he think he is? Prince Abdul of Middle East. If you do, you would be consider a sl.t. Don't do it! Lots of fish in the sea. He is not worth it.
2007-01-04 15:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by Paul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure if u wanna be a hoe.
How do you see yourself?
2007-01-04 15:01:43 · answer #6 · answered by Its me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't sell yourself short. He is a player.
2007-01-04 15:01:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i want real friends
be friend with me
2007-01-04 15:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by tomayto 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you want to??? --- it sounds like all he wants is sex --- not to get to know you better or start something long term
2007-01-04 15:03:32 · answer #9 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's straght playing u
2007-01-04 17:11:23 · answer #10 · answered by alxdjal_3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋