I hate him so much and guess what he was my husband for 2 years. I hate him and i want to kill him he was sick evil, and disgusting, I hate him so much and I am christian, christian faith teaches LOVE PEOPLE WHO ABUSE YOU, But I want to kill him.That gross ugly thing. How can I love such a sick man?
2007-01-04 15:05:40 · 10 answers · asked by lydia w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well, stating that he WAS your husband makes me thing that you left him, which is a good thing, now its time to rebuild and restart your life and go from the begining, maybe see a shrink or counselor or something for the anger that you still posess, it is rather unhealthy to you and anyone else you may want in your life
2007-01-04 15:18:38 · answer #1 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry about what you are going thru. I also am a christian. I help people get healed of lifes hurtful situations that come our way. As you know, Jesus said he came to heal the broken hearted and bind up there wounds and to set the captive free. I know you hate this man and you have a right to. You have a legitimate reason. However, you also have the right to forgive him. You know you will have to forgive him eventually. Begin by telling God that you need him to help you to "want" to forgive him. Ask him to "help" you to forgive. There will be no healing without forgiveness. Remember, God has forgiven you of your sins when you didnt deserve it, and he wants us to forgive others even when they dont deserve it. Get with a good counselor or pastor that can help you thru this. It may take some time. Start praying for this man. Pray for him daily and eventually you will lose this hate and you will actually begin to feel a compassion for him. Then you will know that healing is taking place. If you choose not to forgive, you open the door to be tormented like Jesus said in Matt. 25. Hope this helps.
2007-01-04 15:31:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Lydia, It just gets easier over time but some counceling might help you sort out your thoughts. Stay as far away from that creep as possible so you can heal.
2007-01-04 15:10:53 · answer #3 · answered by Tasha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
May the lord be with you in your hard time. Pray to GOD he will help you. He will not get away with this,the Lord takes care of his own.
2007-01-04 15:17:58 · answer #4 · answered by ChildofGod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the bible say to do unto others as you would do unto yourself,it also says vengence is mine said the lord,and i will repay. so yes you need to try and forgive him for what he has done to you.but he will have to answer to god for what he did to you. that is what is helping me deal with the fact that my biological father molested me as a child.
2007-01-04 16:03:57 · answer #5 · answered by LaRie c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need professional counseling
someday you find a way to be attracted to me who are good for you
you should avoid this person
your local police dept - non-emergency phone number can refer you to proper counseling
2007-01-04 15:09:40 · answer #6 · answered by sparetom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Matthew18:21 - 22
21"Then came Peter to him, and said. Lord, how oft shal my brother sin agoinst me; and I forgive him? till seven times?
23" Jesus saith unto him, I SAY NOT UNTO THEE. UNTIL SEVEN TIMES, UNTIL SEVENTY TIMES SEVEN
2007-01-04 15:32:35 · answer #7 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do yourself a favor and get good, professional therapy. You absolutely HAVE to get this monkey off your back. (Seriously, I swear, no pun intended.)
2007-01-04 15:15:54 · answer #8 · answered by ElOsoBravo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't. You hate him and then use that hate to move on. SHow him that he did not destroy you. I would reccomend a support group. You are not alone out there hun.
2007-01-04 15:08:34 · answer #9 · answered by Cassie N 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I have only got one advice. Please consult your church's pastor.
2007-01-04 17:23:28 · answer #10 · answered by sassy girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋