Family & Relationships - 4 January 2007

I don't usually ask any questions on here; I answer them. But this subject involves my beautiful girlfriend. I need a good website, books or love poems info to write love emails to my girlfriend. I've been writing to her everyday (yes, every single day) since last Sept.; I've been very creative, and have exhausted every details about how beautiful, wonderful, amazing, sexy and intelligent she is. She has thoroughly enjoyed them, and doesn't want me to stop. I need more info if you could help. It's obvious I'm crazy about her!

2007-01-04 14:50:22 · 2 answers · asked by pn3drb 2 in Singles & Dating

and I've never seen her have a boyfriend except this one guy for a short time. Every guy I know talks about how hot she is..I just don't get it. If she doesn't dress or act slutty and she never hooked up with anyone in school, why does everyone like her? Ugh!

2007-01-04 14:48:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf dumped me for no good reason- he said I was a great gf and hott and I was loyal and honest with him. I'm very upset to lose him, but he has put me through so much pain I just want to see him hurt a little. He goes crazy when he wants something he cannot have, so I need to make him crazy about me like he was while I show no interest in return. How can I make him jealous and want me back?

2007-01-04 14:47:13 · 15 answers · asked by susie q 2 in Singles & Dating

Its the holidays and everyone seems to be having a good time except me. I dont go out much because people dont contact me and when I try contact them they are usually busy with jobs, girlfriends ect... One of my good friends didnt comment me back twice when I left him messages and I know he was on because he left other people messages... Ive been really bored the past few days and I dont know what to do! And Im also leaving the country soon forever but I havent told any of my friends yet.. How do you get through to people? I've been up late most nights alone it really is annoying...

2007-01-04 14:47:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My gal and I met a year and a half ago. We went to Austalia for a month, central America for a month and absolutely hit it off. Passion and love reigned supreme. An event took place that was negative. we did not see other for the past 5 months and recently reunited. the reunuion lasted for a day. It had its ups and downs and glimpses of what we had shined through. When we parted, her last statement was "I want to do right by you". What do you think she meant?

2007-01-04 14:46:16 · 8 answers · asked by Rob 1 in Singles & Dating

A study featured on yahoo and webmd showed that women were very good at picking up cues from a mans face to see if he’d be a good father or a good fling. Turns out, the female nature is to seek out one type of guy to build a nest with, and another to pass genes to her offspring with, and ends up having sex with both at different times of her cycle.

Like many mnogomous species, namely birds, males want to do it whenver, whereas females are more picky and want a mate to help her raise her offspring – but often have flings with high testosterone males with strong masculine features. The result is the mate male, in birds often an older male with less testosterone, raises offspring of a male with stronger genes. Indeed, at least 10% of men are unwittingly raising somebody elses kid!

With humans, studies show that women find family guys attractive 90% of the time, but prefer a hunky hottie during ovulation. Ovulation is when women are most likely to cheat. Plus, many women choose the guys who make good for flings when they’re young and not looking to settle down, but choose men with softer features when they want to build a family. However, I’d be willing to bet their biology doesn’t stop sending the dual signal just because society says its time to grow up.

Of course, we are in a time when women can control whether sex leads to pregnancy, and sex has become about fulfillment as much as procreation. So what if society was built around at least some men getting many partners, other men getting steady sex, and women getting both the mates and flings with no regrets?

Its science fiction, but imagine that disease prevention, birth control, and paternity testing eliminated the need for enforced monogamy. Women could commit to a guy for the long term, but still fulfill her desires when nature calls. Naturally, there would be a group of guys who got a lot of different women, and another group that got a steady stream of sex with one.

If you can put yourself in such a world, is it paradise or hell? Who is it best to be? Who is it worst to be? And what role would you most likely play, and why?

2007-01-04 14:46:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 14:45:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I made a wish this year - not a resolution, but just a wish. I asked god if he could find me a wife.

The problem is, I'm unsure what a wife or a potential wife would want from me. I'm 45, a little overweight, a recovering alcoholic and have had lots of girlfriends in my life. I wanted to marry the last one, but I screwed it all up by drinking and cheating on her. I never want to go back there again.

I've never been married before, and find alot of women are looking for a second or third husband and think that there is something wrong with me.

I did start a multi-million dollar software company, which failed in 2003, but I'm trying again. (I started it in 1987 when i got sober the first time)

What do you think is wrong with this picture. Do you think I'd never find a wife? That's what I want most from life.

What can I do to make myself attractive enough so that some woman that I'm equally attracted to will marry me?

NO DATING SERVICE SPAMS PLEASE

2007-01-04 14:45:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi all! How do you go about providing foster care to a special needs child who currently lives in a group home for disabled children but isn't legally free for adoption? Can you still provide foster care but not adopt? Or does this make a child only able to live in a group home? I have become very attached to a special needs child I work with at the school I work for. We have really bonded over the last 3 years and I would love to give her a better life.

2007-01-04 14:44:04 · 3 answers · asked by littledeaftink 3 in Family

My voice to him in front of his friends,I was trying to tell him it was time to leave.I think i screamed at him.He didn't say anything ,he just said Let's GO ! in a stern voice,as we drove he was quiet and very serious,we got home and his brother was waiting,so we haven't got a chance to talk.Why might he tell me in private ? He's not violent, or unpolite,but what might i expect ??

2007-01-04 14:43:15 · 3 answers · asked by lady F 1 in Family

Please state your sign as well. Thanks

The one who is honest and stated his sign will get ten points.

2007-01-04 14:42:49 · 13 answers · asked by Mara D 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm dating this girl who hasen't dated anyone before and is really shy. What is a great way to break the ice and get her to open up?

2007-01-04 14:41:16 · 6 answers · asked by Adam 3 in Singles & Dating

Who do you love?

2007-01-04 14:40:05 · 13 answers · asked by CLC 1 in Singles & Dating

is this guy cute or some other word you can use to describe him? opinions?
http://img245.imageshack.us/img245/3382/pict3874rc2.jpg

and is this a cute pic? or what? opinions?
http://img409.imageshack.us/img409/4498/pict3920mv1.jpg

2007-01-04 14:39:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-04 14:39:50 · 25 answers · asked by prisoner_war 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i use to be best friends with a girl i thought was my true friend but she wasnt after we got in a big fight she moved to maine 3 years later..then she moved back (oh joy) then she started a rummer that i toughted my little brothers privite part(EWW) so now everyone belives her ........i cry evey day cuz of the things people say to me
and ......then now i have to sit by her in 1 of my classes

2007-01-04 14:39:21 · 2 answers · asked by Sami F 3 in Family

I lost my wedding ring two years ago. I have a very strong feeling it is still in my house somewhere, but I am very frustrated. It is a 3/4 c. pear shaped diamond on a plain gold band with a simple swirled gold ring guard. Any psychics out there?

2007-01-04 14:39:13 · 15 answers · asked by splash 1 in Weddings

2007-01-04 14:38:18 · 6 answers · asked by american girl 2 in Singles & Dating

I have this trust problem , about getting in a seires relationship. I afriad every guy I ever been out with is a cheater, I have a boyfriend and we been going out for two years, we're both 19 and we plan to get married some day and have kids. The only problem is I'm worryed he's going to be a cheater too. I told him the way I feel , and I told him I dated one of my ex for 2 years and he beat me and got my best ex friend pregant, and he saids he's not like that , and he loves me and he'll never do that to me. But why do I feel that way I do and what can I do. Please help. And how can I tell if my boyfriend is getting tired of me, I just dont want to get hurt again.

2007-01-04 14:38:01 · 5 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Singles & Dating

During the summer i always go to my country for vacation. I dated someone over there for 3 months,but when i came back everything ened. We talk once in a while, and i dont like calling him because it hurts me too much. I really like this person, but i dont know if i can trust him. Then again i have trouble trusting anybody. (bad past experiences)

2007-01-04 14:36:48 · 15 answers · asked by smileeformee 1 in Singles & Dating

RACHEL HUGHES. i don't know if thats how you spell the name. but i live in southern orange county, in laguna beach, and i was just wondering if it sounded familiar. my friends from my cheer gym say that shes really nice, and everybody talks about her at their school i guess. they go to a middle school.

im not a stalker or anything. i am just curious :) shes like 13 i think, and i am 13, and i am a girl, so its not like that, i just wanna know how many people on here know her.

2007-01-04 14:36:16 · 3 answers · asked by DUUUUHHH 2 in Friends

Ok, my EX-friend is talking trash about me and my BFF behind our backs. Saying things like "they're such wh**es" "she flashed everyone on a bed" "they're such!@#$%^&*" and so and so. We're trying to get her back but we want it to really have an effect on her. Suggestions?

2007-01-04 14:35:11 · 10 answers · asked by OneRadTaco 2 in Friends

I have a friend that has recently confessed to me that she has slept with another friend's husband. I have tried to counsel her on why it is wrong-she seems to delight in what she's done and feels little remorse. I am reconsidering her as a friend, as I considered that to be unforgivable and dishonest behavior. How would you deal?

2007-01-04 14:34:35 · 9 answers · asked by nunya 3 in Friends

I met my ex like two years ago at work and we started to date after three monts,it was great ,great sex conversation and everything was perfect. We decided to move in together after dating for four monts and everything goes well for another eight monts ,but them we started to fight,not big fights but annoying ,but i allways though that was normal and that i still loved her.One day she says to me tha she wants to live by her self again but we were still see each other like at the biginning of the relationship,and a get mad but i accepted it,but everything got worst after a fight caused by both and we were ofitially broken up and living together (i still at this point i know she still have feelings for me)we started to play a jeallousy game,she would make me jealous and then me.The day before she moved out we had great sex,that we didnt have for a long time.the next day she moves out and she writes a note saying (i miss you allready,i love you too) we have sent some messen. but thats it

2007-01-04 14:33:39 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

since new years eve my ex hasnt said a word to me n hasnt messaged me on my phone, but yesterday, i saw him at the petrol station.... anyway he always says this phrase to people "what do u wana do with your life" as a joke so since i have the same hair as him sort of i decided to be a total smart *** and imitate him... anyway he got angry so i flogged his sunglasses n he chased after me into the girls toilets and he started hitting me...... everyone saw it, then the cops turned up... i didnt want to charge him so i told the cops not to and now my friends have ditched me because i didnt charge him and he still isnt talking to me... did i do the right thing by not charging him? im so confused! please help!

2007-01-04 14:33:16 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

talkin high school dating here

2007-01-04 14:30:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well Im 18 and I have a baby and my husband and I are seperated he makes me feel that I am ugly and im worthless and nobody can have me but him and no one will want a woman with a baby.I got married at the tender age of 17.My husband was my everything he hit me a couple times then the next he would say he loves me so much we are 6 years apart and I want to feel wanted again if anyone is interested in telling me there opinions my IM is thismalookin4papi@yahoo.com....I would really appreciate an outsiders help thank you so much...

2007-01-04 14:28:59 · 13 answers · asked by bonitan mami 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Live along the gulf coast here....

2007-01-04 14:28:32 · 3 answers · asked by Hear2Help 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I must know. I'm sixteen, my boyfriends is seventeen. He says hes waited too long to have sex (we've dated sixteen months), but that he loves me. How long would you wait for a girl you were truly in love with??

2007-01-04 14:28:04 · 24 answers · asked by Lindsay 2 in Singles & Dating

i know in high school you are suppost to get acne but mine is pretty common to me. I have notice when i am not stressed my face has gotton really nice and clear and then the next secound i will have this paper due the next day and i will freak out!! The i will wake up with zits. what can i do not to stress?

2007-01-04 14:27:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family