My bf dumped me for no good reason- he said I was a great gf and hott and I was loyal and honest with him. I'm very upset to lose him, but he has put me through so much pain I just want to see him hurt a little. He goes crazy when he wants something he cannot have, so I need to make him crazy about me like he was while I show no interest in return. How can I make him jealous and want me back?
2007-01-04 14:47:13 · 15 answers · asked by susie q 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on, find your happiness, and when he sees that you are happy and not still wallowing in self pitty over him that will upset him. He is going to expect you to be broken over him and that will give him the satisfaction he wants/needs, but if he sees that you've moved on and you're completely happy with your life that's when he will begin to hurt. That's when he'll realize you don't need him around to make your life complete. Try it out, it works! And at the same time you'll be getting over him and you'll be very happy.
2007-01-04 14:56:51 · answer #1 · answered by patience032651 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going out and on purpose trying to make someone jealous is just about the worst thing you can do.
You will be driving him away--hurting someone on purpose is no way to attract someone is it?
You should know!! You just said--"I'm very upset to lose him, but he has put me through so much pain". Did he attract you right after he dumped on you? I'll wager a million dollars you were not attracted to that at all.
If you truly loved him why would you want to cause him pain?
Be better than he is. The strength of your character will be enhanced greatly if you don't play the revenge game. Revenge is for suckers--you never feel vindicated after you've taken your revenge--so don't.
2007-01-04 22:58:50 · answer #2 · answered by Mr_B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont even bother to make him jelous you will just end up getting more hurt in the end. You should just wait. If you guys were truly meant to be he would come back to you. Thats how you know he is yours. Let him experience, let him live grow and develop his own character. Then when he is ready or if he truly loves you he WILL come back to you. And take him back because everyone needs that time. To just develop more as a person. GROWING!
Its when you guys are married and he ask's for a divorse for no reason thats when you should start to worry!! but right now just have fun with friends, still keep in contact with him though as a friend see how hes doing and stuff, keep yourself busy and as time passes you will also grow as a person too. And learn from this and become stronger!
best of wishes, Kesha
2007-01-04 23:02:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit wasting your time, and go on with your life. Do you realize how many hot guys are out there. Besides, it wasn't for "no good reason."(usually that means he's attracted to someone else) You can do everything perfect, but if he's not attracted to you anymore, nothing you do, or say, is going to hurt him or make him want you back. So, do what you have to do to forget him, move along..... (in the long run you'll save yourself from allot of embarrassment, and who knows maybe in a couple years, if your paths cross again, you won't feel like an idiot about the way you acted.)
2007-01-04 22:59:28 · answer #4 · answered by 123..WAIT! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way is to just move on. It is petty to want to hurt someone. One day he'll realize what he lost and he'll be hurting then. Look for your own happiness, he obviously wasn't that great of a boyfriend if he put you "through so much pain".....
2007-01-04 22:49:55 · answer #5 · answered by Rgall 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't EVER let him know that you're upset!, but act like nothing happens. You may need to make yrself look prettier. Show him that you can live happily without him, pretend to be happier when you're with other male friends - - make sure he sees you!! You have to use yr friends to get a feedback from him..
2007-01-04 23:05:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're best off to forget about him. He's not worth your time anymore. He doesn't know your value and you guys can never be the same again. Toss him and find yourself a better man.
2007-01-04 22:49:46 · answer #7 · answered by Justin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a man loves u nothin can make him leave but if he doesnt then nothin can make him stay!
but as far as revenge if i were i'd dress up really skimpy and flaunt all around his friends and homies! then theyll be looking at him like he was so dumb for letting u go!
2007-01-04 22:50:57 · answer #8 · answered by LC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh dont waste another min being upset on looseing him you are not the one here that is looseing it is him, go on with your life , there are alot of wonderful trusting guys out there , give one a chance, stop wasteing your preciouse time on a nobody
2007-01-04 22:53:28 · answer #9 · answered by shirleylindsay1956 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore him completely. Don't contact or speak to him at all. Just don't!
2007-01-04 22:49:56 · answer #10 · answered by AK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋