Its the holidays and everyone seems to be having a good time except me. I dont go out much because people dont contact me and when I try contact them they are usually busy with jobs, girlfriends ect... One of my good friends didnt comment me back twice when I left him messages and I know he was on because he left other people messages... Ive been really bored the past few days and I dont know what to do! And Im also leaving the country soon forever but I havent told any of my friends yet.. How do you get through to people? I've been up late most nights alone it really is annoying...
2007-01-04 14:47:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Aww...Im going through the same thing. And it sucks more...because my best friend I have a crush on (still). The only thing I can tell you is to find something to occupy yourself when you get bored. Ive been reading a lot, playing video games, watching movies, etc. All my friends are always free when Im working but when I make an effort to spend time with them (take off an entire weekend) they are suddenly "busy". Keeping your mind off the situation helps you get through the day. Good luck!
2007-01-04 14:53:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
T Rob is right on. Although we can feel alone, we should not count on others to supply us with our own happiness. Just because you don't have someone to go out with doesn't mean you have to sit around bored. Go see a movie by yourself, take a book to a coffee shop and read for a while. You'll see that there are other people like you who aren't running with a pack of friends, and that it's alright. I question your reasoning for not letting anyone know you'll be moving though. Are you sure you're not playing the martyr? Hopefully not. Good luck to you.
2007-01-04 14:57:20 · answer #2 · answered by bfwh218 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your leaving the country soon- then you will be leaving these people soon. Leave them all behind.
Decide what and who you are going to be at your new location. In the times of technology- its very difficult to just "hang" with people. Get some solid plans going- places and dates.
I thing there are also some groups on the internet of people with the same interests in things who meet to do whatever those interests.
It's like meet up or match up.
Good luck- get out there.
2007-01-04 14:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by Mommyk232 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you're leaving the country soon-you'd better soak up as many memories as you can before it's too late. Go outside and take pictures. Go to your favorite places. Do your favorite things. Draw the things that you want to remember forever.Don't be bored and just mope around. Spend a day doing things that you've never done before.Get up and do something!
E-mail your friends and let them know you're going to be moving. If they value your friendship then they'll take the time to go pay you a visit before you leave.
Good luck!
2007-01-04 14:51:57 · answer #4 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship needs to be developed. Its never a one-way street. Have you any idea why your friends are not responding to your messages or phone calls? You need to find the roots to the issue before you can have any remedy. You mentioned that you're leaving your country. Where will you be going to and how old are you. Perhaps we can communicate via cyber. Let me know.
2007-01-04 14:51:41 · answer #5 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear d
sometimes. it can get to be very boring being alone. especially during the holidays. Sometimes it can be nerve racking when there's no one there. So my best advice is to go places and do things on your own. Go to where other people are having fun. like bowling, iceskateing, maybe an arcade. But don't sit around waiting on others. If you first learn to enjoy yourself, then you can enjoy others. take it from me. been there done that.
2007-01-04 15:04:23 · answer #6 · answered by brian r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh this holiday season has been like the loneliest time in my whole LIFE! Why is it during the holiday it hurts more that i don't have "someone"???So i totally feel bad for you! I hope you find someone that is there for you to listen and miss you when you leave... I hope wherever you are going you find friends too! just know You're not alone in feeling like that!
2007-01-04 14:52:30 · answer #7 · answered by shine_on 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like an emotional drain, hence the reason you are being ignored by friends. You can end your misery at any time, by choosing to be positive and recognize when people are reaching out to you.
2007-01-04 14:49:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't feel like that... I think is better if you star meeting other people...it seems these "friends" you have are not really friends.... start going out more often, u can go just for coffee and u might meet new people... I wish you luck in your life and I hope you don't feel this way anymore...
2007-01-04 14:51:56 · answer #9 · answered by aries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try joining a team sport i joined a paintball club last year and i have been having the time of my life , ive also increased my fitness. you just need to find people that like the same things you do...
2007-01-04 14:51:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋