I have this trust problem , about getting in a seires relationship. I afriad every guy I ever been out with is a cheater, I have a boyfriend and we been going out for two years, we're both 19 and we plan to get married some day and have kids. The only problem is I'm worryed he's going to be a cheater too. I told him the way I feel , and I told him I dated one of my ex for 2 years and he beat me and got my best ex friend pregant, and he saids he's not like that , and he loves me and he'll never do that to me. But why do I feel that way I do and what can I do. Please help. And how can I tell if my boyfriend is getting tired of me, I just dont want to get hurt again.
2007-01-04 14:38:01 · 5 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm a careing loveing person , but why do I get treated like the way I do.
2007-01-04 14:38:46 · update #1
I talked to my best friend who is married to his best friend, and they said , he oves me and wont do that to me, and he want's to marry me.
2007-01-04 14:39:54 · update #2
Pray to god about this situation asking him for his guidance,understanding and wisdom to deal with the situation,both of u need to talk to a counselor so you will know if he is the right person for you and observer him from your past mistake that you over look with the other guy to see if he have any of those skeleton in his closet don't give into him yet,put him to the test if he run along it was never meant to be you are still young .
2007-01-04 14:52:00 · answer #1 · answered by lakarez_forever 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i can see why your stressing. you've been through alot. but you owe your current boyfriend a chance. i've been hurt to not to the degree you have but I still have problems trusting people. Although, there is a point when you need to open up and it sounds like he's the guy maybe you need to. i know it will be hard. i think you will be happy with that decision in the long run.
i hope the best for you!
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2007-01-04 22:50:52 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
everyone has to find there own way to trust and if u can't find that way theres only one thing u can do and thats blind faith and if ur not into faith believe in ur man to stay faithfull
2007-01-04 22:43:40 · answer #3 · answered by Doc h 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get rid of the drama first thing
2007-01-04 22:55:01 · answer #4 · answered by allthrottlenobottle2000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
chill before you ruin your relationship
2007-01-04 22:42:01 · answer #5 · answered by stinkypinky 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋