Ok, my EX-friend is talking trash about me and my BFF behind our backs. Saying things like "they're such wh**es" "she flashed everyone on a bed" "they're such!@#$%^&*" and so and so. We're trying to get her back but we want it to really have an effect on her. Suggestions?
2007-01-04 14:35:11 · 10 answers · asked by OneRadTaco 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
sue her for defamation of character
2007-01-04 14:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Revenge begets revenge; live and let live. You know how hurtful one can be by just talking behind ones' back so don't stood so low. The true will tell and soon those who hear her will get tired of her nonsence and know the real you and your boyfriend. Be generous and do not show any emotions that you both are hurt otherwise those whom your ex-friend has been gossiping with will perceive that what your ex-friend is spreading are true.
2007-01-04 14:40:45 · answer #2 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just rather kick her butt but I'm trying to work on that so I'm not going to suggest it. You know the things shes saying are not true and if people choose to believe her then their stupid too. People who do that just want attention and when you ignore her she'll stop because it will get boring when she doesn't get a reaction of of you. She probably just mad cause your not friends with her anymore. Tell her to grow up
2007-01-04 14:43:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting revenge will only escalate the problem. Someone who is going around talking like that is a miserable unhappy person. I think retaliating will make her happy becasue she will then know she is getting to you and making you as miserable as she is. I would just let it go and let her live in her misery. Dont even give her the satisfaction of ignoring her, just live your own lives and dont worry about her. People who are real friends will know she is full of it.
2007-01-04 14:40:39 · answer #4 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any time you hear that say "it is so sad when people have to behave that way" and ignore her. The best way to annoy someone who is trying to discredit you is to ignore them, laugh or have pity for them - you look strong and mature to others around you and she looks like a childish liar.
Peace!
2007-01-04 14:38:34 · answer #5 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with whoever said it before, ignore her, she only doing it because she knows it gets to you.
2007-01-04 14:38:28 · answer #6 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid her, avoid her, and avoid her... all of this bs is not worth it, you will forget it soon. It is not worth to stress yourself over it. Later on, you will laugh it off.
2007-01-04 14:43:56 · answer #7 · answered by et417 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must be a kid. you will grow up
2007-01-04 14:37:14 · answer #8 · answered by robkim04 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
avoid her
2007-01-04 14:38:01 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋