I'm 13. My gf has boys looking at her from towns away. Everywhere she goes there's a boy that knows her and likes her. I was the one that gathered courage to ask.
We've been going out a year with a lot of 'Kids Dating', like going to the movies. I've told her all I want to tell her ON THE PHONE.
Now I want to tell her she's beautiful, kind, funny, smart & gorgeous in person.. These are all true. How should I tell her? Just say it next time she's over? Say it with flowers? With a pink -heart-shaped stone?
My question is... how do I tell her all these things? She is... fascinating. And for the girls that wanna know... I am NOT Interested in her pants! (if you know what I mean) I am not!
2007-01-04 14:06:53 · 18 answers · asked by Yo Im Joe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, who doesn't love being told things like what you want to tell your girlfriend?
Tell her face to face. It doesn't have to be a big announcement. Sometimes just randomly telling a girl she's beautiful/smart/kind/etc. is a big enough gesture.
2007-01-04 14:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by kate_towell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Joe, you are so cute. Jade sounds like a great girl. All girls want to hear how beautiful she is and how funny and smart she is. I know actions speak louder than words, but the words are important too. Don't do it over the phone. Do it when you see her. It will mean more. If you want to give her flowers, keep it simple. Try giving her a single pink rose. Or do something thoughtful. Her name is Jade, right? So if you see any kind of jewelery sale, look for something affordable that has a jade in it (that is a green colored stone). Maybe compile a CD of her favorite songs. Don't wait until Valentines Day either. Do something small now, just to give her something to hold on to until Valentines Day. Do make Valentines Day special. But, again, at 13yo, keep it simple. Girls like thoughtfullness. You sound like you are fully capable of that. Good Luck!
2007-01-04 22:17:07 · answer #2 · answered by Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would Make it romantic but not some cheesy mushy crap.
I would bring it up when you guys are at your house or her's . and bring up a random conversation just say . Jade I am so lucky . Then she'll probably say what ? Then you say well you know for getting the opportunity to date you . Because your so ..... Then list the things you think she is but dont make it more than 5 - 6 things cause then it will take the feelings out of it . But P.S. dont say i'm not saying this so i can get in to your pants that will just ruin it . Plus she will think your a perv . But say the other part and trust me i will work .
GOOD LUCK WITH JADE
2007-01-04 22:20:52 · answer #3 · answered by vollleystar13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick a nice day and time. weekends maybe,
take her out, go to a quite place with not too many crowds or noise (NOT THE MOVIES or SCHOOL)
then tell her wt she means to u ( dont say i love just like that without makin some kinda introduction)
tell her exactly wt u said above, and when u feel the time is right tell her u love her.
and remember just incase u got to her pants (sooner or later u'll get to her pants, so lets not play kid games here) DONT FORGET PROTECTION.
Good luck
2007-01-04 22:14:29 · answer #4 · answered by DB9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her all the wonderful things you feel and think about her. If you to make it special maybe get her flowers or a stuffed animal. If she questions your intentions just be honest and tell her this is how you truly feel and it isn't some ploy to get in her pants. Best of luck sweetie
2007-01-04 22:11:59 · answer #5 · answered by daddies_lil_angel62702 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best thing to do dude is to just slip in a compliment every now and then when you are hanging out with her. dont make a big deal of it and plan everyhting then sit her down and tell her, like you are gonna ask her to marry you. like next time she says somehting funny, tell her that you like that baout her. or when she explains something to you, tell her how smart she is. on the gorgeous and beautiful thing. always tell her as soon as you see her. like hello _____, you look beautiful. then remind her throughout the day at odd times. goodluck dude!
2007-01-04 22:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, me being a girl and all....if you like her that much...and youve been dating for a year she oviously likes you...and if i got flowers or a pink heart shaped stone...it would be the sweetest thing ever...so i would take the risk and let her know how you feel inperson...but get her alone...sometimes when people are around she may not react the same....but your ideas i like...just be orignal.
2007-01-04 22:11:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say it! Flowers are nice, bet it means so much when you speak from the heart. And thank you for being old fashioned and leaving her pants alone!
2007-01-04 22:09:09 · answer #8 · answered by parental unit 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
while yal are hanging out and yal are laughing and havin a good time just all of a sudden say it and say it like u mean it look her in the eyes and be like u are "the most beautiful girl that ever" blah blah blah
i think thats totally romantic and sweet when a guy does that its like saying hes thinkin it all the time and he jus has to say it before he explodes
2007-01-04 22:12:16 · answer #9 · answered by southern peach 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just look into her eyes, swallow your fears and tell her. Girls love that stuff. I did when I was younger, and I still do. We tend to forget all of the bad things guys do when they look into our eyes and flatter us. Make sure you do it at the right moment. You will know when it is.
2007-01-04 22:11:23 · answer #10 · answered by killersaint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋