I kinda broke up with my bf on newyears eve, on new years day i talked to him and told him i love him and i wanted him back, he then told me that i wasn't worth it, that he was bored and tired of me. I kinda gave him his space and tried to think things up and everytime i saw him i acted happy because i didn't want him to think i missed him. After what he had told me was that the right thing to do? ... Well anyways, today I was talkin to him and he told me he'll leave and not come back, so i told him my TRUE feelings, I told him that i love him and cant be without him. He just laughed and told me I should be an actress.
Should I try again? or move on? or maybe do something else, i really have no idea.... What do you think i should do?
2007-01-04 13:51:18 · 14 answers · asked by Carol M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him your true feelings. Tell him you're sorry for playing games. Let him know that you will be open and honest about your feelings from now on. Then abide by it. If he's not willing to try again, chalk it up to a lesson learned...
2007-01-04 13:57:44 · answer #1 · answered by mavmaiden_62 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u broke up with him on new years eve do u think that he would want u back a day later u probably hurt him did u ever think of that and also he might be tried of your drama because it seems like u cause a lot of it not trying to be mean just keeping it real honey u need to move on and find somebody who will put up with u because he doesn't want to anymore
2007-01-04 13:58:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know something? The hell with this guy. Get out there, meet someone else. Yes, MUCH easier said than done but he won't know what he wants until it's gone. I don't agree with you giving him mixed signals (I don't want to be with him, now I do).
That's very misleading and be was probably turned off to it. No offense, but have you been on and off with him before? Don't blame yourself though. It sounds like you two are, seriously, better off without one another. Keep your distance and see what happens in 2007.
Take care.
2007-01-04 13:54:43 · answer #3 · answered by heymanchase 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't ya know the rules to breaking up? You don't talk to him for sixty days, I know it's hard, but you are the one who did the breaking up, you probably really hurt his feelings, weather or not you think he has any, so give him his space, and see where things go, no contact for sixty days!!! Things happen for a reason, if it is meant to be then everything will fall into place.
2007-01-04 14:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by Deberellah 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It seems like if you are a bit confused and are not sure of what you truly want. I think you should sit down and really figure out if you really want to be with this guy. And if so, why? Until then leave him alone. If it was meant to be he will come back.
2007-01-04 13:57:25 · answer #5 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I use to do that, play that game. I know deep inside he wants you back. Girl, if he's worth it then fight for him. No matter what he says. Just be pacient. Dont get hurt by what he says. And dont start drama or anything with him because he will get sick of it.
2007-01-04 13:54:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to get lost love,and move on ,you will find the right one when the time is right.
2007-01-04 13:55:27 · answer #7 · answered by Linda 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should really move on,if he thinks your acting your love then he is not worth it. you should find someone else and try to get over your ex. he will/or could try to get revenge.i broke up with a guy and he's plannig revenge.
2007-01-04 13:57:30 · answer #8 · answered by girl_of_the_shadows 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why did you break up with him to begin with? It sounds like you've put yourself in this situation... but I don't know the whole story...
2007-01-04 13:55:34 · answer #9 · answered by F.J. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is tired of drama...
You may have to use this as a learning experience
2007-01-04 13:53:34 · answer #10 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋