My guy is 52, I'm 19. We've known each other for many years. Other than our age, we have so many things in common. We definately love each other very much. We've never let sex enter into our relationship.
We've kissed and stuff, but no intercourse.
2007-01-04 13:51:57 · 14 answers · asked by ash84102 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I do not believe age is a cause for concern among adults. If you have so much in common and years of knowing each other, i would think it's very possible this marriage will work.
2007-01-04 14:22:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with your own age group. I thought it didn't matter... he kept saying it was mind over matter and if it didn't matter to me, he didn't mind. After the I do's, I realized how immature he really was. You may have a lot in common, but what do you really have in common with him? Can you talk about history that you've seen in your lifetime? What about previous relationships or marriages? Can you picture pulling him off the toilet in 20 years and cleaning the poop he leaves off of it? Can you see yourself changing his diapers in 20 or so years? You are in love with being in love with something that others frown on. Picture going to bed with him and waking up all hours while he uses a walker to go to the bathroom. Picture fixing him a nice bowl of something easy to go down when you want a steak. If you are 19 and have known him for years, how does he think of you??? Find someone your own age. Where did you meet this guy?
2007-01-04 22:07:34 · answer #2 · answered by lucy7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In what way are you asking? The only problem would be if you worry about how other people perceive your age differences.
Other than that, how make sex in marriage sound like a bad thing. Why would you be afraid of having sex with your husband?
2007-01-04 22:23:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to say no, that age is just a state of mind, but honestly....yes, it will matter. It might not be obvious to you now, but the differences are probably too great for it to be a successful marriage.
2007-01-04 21:55:29 · answer #4 · answered by a heart so big 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you answer yes to these questons she is the right one:
Do you love her?
Do you trust her?
So far does she make you happy?
Do you want to start a family?
Despite age gap do you feel comfortable with her?
Are you prepared to go through stuff women her will face?
Bottom line, you two will go through things, but what couple doesn't.
2007-01-04 22:09:44 · answer #5 · answered by BionicNahlege 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah...and it's going to matter pretty soon. You're 19...what is going to happen when you WANT to become sexually involved? Oh wait there IS Viagar...but that only takes care of ONE part of a man...what if he is prone to Alzheimer's? That begins to manifest itself in the mid to late 50s...Are you willing to take on THAT much of responsibility while you're in your 20s?
2007-01-04 22:15:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally I would say not if you are both consenting adults, but he is alot older and you are so young and haven't really experienced life. Have a relationship but keep your options open. You need to live more.
2007-01-04 21:55:12 · answer #7 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it, he's to old for you. You ask if is OK to propose to a guy. Well I think this one is quite possible to old for you. Believe me you probably don't have as much in common as you think. 20 years from now you will be 39 and still young and he'll be 72. think about it. He's old enough to be your father and almost old enough to be your.grandfather.
2007-01-04 22:01:58 · answer #8 · answered by stephenl1950 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
omg , he is 52 an you are 19? please...stop an think about this or have a long engagement.
2007-01-04 21:56:22 · answer #9 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are happy that's all that matters. I don't think that age difference is of any importance in a relationship.
2007-01-04 21:54:45 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋