i met this guy through my ex bf and i dont know whether hes just being nice or if he actually likes me.
While i was breaking up with my ex, he kept telling me what a good idea it was, and stayed up the whole night to make sure i was ok because he said he really cares about me and was worried.
He also said my ex didnt appreciate me at all and i deserve to go out with someone who cares about me and appreciates how great i am.
He calls me beautiful and stuff and does boyfriend things like lending me his jacket when i was cold and sharing a duvet etc...
Its quite hard to tell though cos hes pretty shy and iv only actually met him three times but we talk alot online.
Please say if you think this sounds like he likes me as just a friend or more, and if you think he wants to be more than just friends, any ideas on how it could work considering hes one of my exs best friends! (me and my ex arent on good terms)
2007-01-04 13:05:27 · 17 answers · asked by sparkles_x 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not sure if im ex would be mad.... he doesnt speak to me at all, which is why it would be awkward
2007-01-04 14:07:09 · update #1
guicho79-
he was like this even before things with my ex were bad, so i doubt its the case
and the duvet thing was my idea
2007-01-04 14:10:02 · update #2
i think he likes you. if hes encouraging you about the breakup with your ex, and sayin how badly he treated you.. that means he wants to be that guy to keep you going and be that guy for you & care for you. and it could work if you guys both like each other.. hey.. you cant help how you feel and your ex will get over it.
2007-01-04 13:09:17 · answer #1 · answered by Riley 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He wants to get with you, no doubt about it. The real question is, why does he? You say he's best friends with your ex, so there might be a plan between them two, and since you two are not in good terms, best friend might just be out to break your heart to make things even for his 'boy'. If you know for a fact this is not the case, bring things to a face-to-face level, online you are not going to get anywhere and he'll never loosen up. What you could explain a little further is how come you say he's shy but he has been under blankets with you.
2007-01-04 13:15:03 · answer #2 · answered by guicho79 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like more than a friend. He's probably shy and waiting for you to make the first move. Careful: the "nice guy" can be the best guy for you, but he can also be a weirdo stalker.
2007-01-04 13:09:15 · answer #3 · answered by KD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he is a really nice person, but the fact that he is shy may cause him to not be able to make the first move toward asking you out. It is not out of order to say something like "Would you like to meet for a soft drink or a walk in the park". This could be an ice breaker, but you will at least be letting him know you would like to know him better.
2007-01-04 13:12:41 · answer #4 · answered by Jan C 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He likes you, but watch out! this is dangerous waters. He is friends with your ex. so your ex is going to be around.... And it's not a good idea getting between a guy and his friend.
2007-01-04 13:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by turners_pics 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he really likes and cares for you, but as with any relationship whether it is romantic or not communication is a key factor. Take it slow, talk and enjoy each others company and if there is more to it, it will come out. And remember, the best relationships are based on communication. (No one can read minds!!!)
2007-01-04 13:12:43 · answer #6 · answered by ev1500 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think he is a very sincere and caring gentleman and that he cares for you. I believe you can be more than friends, but it is important for you both to get to know one another and for you to get over your ex. There needs to be time between these relationships so as not to be on the rebound. When entering a relationship on the rebound, it seldom turns out well.
Wishing you both luck and happiness. I think he's a keeper.
2007-01-04 13:08:59 · answer #7 · answered by D N 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, the guy is looking to score, & that is all.
A guy's best friend will never attempt an actual relationship with his ex girlfriend.
2007-01-04 13:09:09 · answer #8 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Awww, it sounds like he wants you as maybe a bit more than a friend, but judging by his actions, he'd probably make a way better bf than your ex! He sounds like a real sweetheart.
2007-01-04 13:07:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think of that he does have a delicate activity in u...distinctly after asserting that to u. after getting to appreciate ur character, he in all probability thinks that u could be good relationship textile xD yet i dont think of that his asserting this precisely skill that he's certainly attracted to u. play it secure, and only act like u have performed around him. humor him and communicate casually with him. yet while u dont desire him as a boyfriend, then do no longer lead him on or something
2016-11-26 20:01:17 · answer #10 · answered by rolland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋