I have a boyfriend that I have been with for four years now. We also have a two year old daughter.About a year and a half ago we moved to a new state. Two months ago I found out he cheated on me a little over a year ago back home with two other girls and my sister. I know he hasn't cheated on me since. What would you do?
2007-01-04 13:09:32 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well if you forgive and forget do it
if it was me i would talk to him about why he did it and let him know that he broke your trust in him and then id keep a eye on him and make sure hes not hiding anything else
good luck
2007-01-04 13:20:11 · answer #1 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found my man cheated on me on my birthday. You need to investigate why he done what he done and then you are going to have to make up your mind if you can live with the hurt and pain fo what he has done because if you cant and you stay together in the end it is going to ruin your relationship anyway and that would be a waste of your time and his so make sure you really think about this. Be strong. It does hurt, but remember time will heal and walking away might lead to greater things.
2007-01-04 21:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by leanne1303leanne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! Where do you start with that?
First of all, if they cheat once (or in this case, thrice) they'll do it again.
Second, why are you moving and having babies with a boy who's cheating on you?
Third, if he's not willing to marry you and take proper care of his daughter, where do you think this is going?
Think of your child, and do the right thing.
2007-01-04 21:14:00 · answer #3 · answered by KD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still want to salvage the relationship, then tell him you're both going to counselling. If he refuses, leave until he decides what he wants, once and for all.
You are going to want to get along with him for your baby girl's sake, but don't think about marriage unless a therapist says the man is ok to marry.
Also, you need to have a good long talk with your sister and ask her what the @$#%&@#$@%#@$!!!! was going through her head when she decided to betray you like that.
2007-01-04 21:16:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know he hasn't cheated on you since? It sounds like you didn't know the first time. Anyway, you have to listen to your heart, because everybody will have a different opinion about this.
2007-01-04 21:13:49 · answer #5 · answered by fun girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that bastard cheated on you with your sister then you need to leave his sorry *** alone!!!!!!! If he's willing to sleep with your own sister then he clearly has No respect for you!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-04 21:14:06 · answer #6 · answered by Live.Laugh.Love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg, dump him, you're better than that and he'll do it again
2007-01-04 21:13:26 · answer #7 · answered by Boots4ACowgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋