You ever go to the village? There is a good amount of people there,a big crowd,and I know that there are many vendors,and people that check out the art. You can meet people that way. I know it may be ackward to just introduce yourself to random people,especially in New York,but sometimes putting forth the effort goes a long way.
You should also check out the book store called,"strands" ,its a really nice book store,really big,and draws a nice crowd. I think in any case,its just good to meet random people with different interests,that way you can open your field to bigger crowds
2007-01-04 13:15:23
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answered by Ellie 4
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I am gay, in a healthy relationship, so do not take offense at my answer...........
You say "not the internet" beacuse you don't own a computer? How did you post this question on Yahoo, using telepathy?
Assuming you used a friends computer, then you do have access to a computer.
First, there are a TON of gay groups in your city that offer events and ongoing clubs for singles to meet. Most are tailored specifially for an interest group, such as bible study groups (yes for Gays) Gay Democrats and Republicans (assuming politics is your thing) bowling leagues, softball leagues, hockey teams, and the list goes on and on and on!
You can find these groups by doing a search on the internet.
If you dont want to use a computer, you will need to go to one of those dreaded gay clubs at least one time and pick up all their free magazines they offer in front.
Inside these, you will find advertisements for so many groups, you will wonder how there can be so many gays interested in so many things!
By the way, I am 47 and met my partner of 10 years on an AOL chat site. Best thing I ever did :)
Get out there, live, love, enjoy!
2007-01-04 13:14:51
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answered by Gabzilla 3
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Well, lets start here...Your 30 years of age and going to become successful because you don't 'hit the clubs' like the others. As far as being alone, it does suck honestly, BUT it could be worse. Go to the library or something that doesn't cost money or lots of it. If you were meant to be with someone I would rather meet someone at a restaurant or library than at a bar. Good Luck....Your Prince will soon appear!
2007-01-04 13:14:49
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answered by juscallmesweety 2
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What if...you solved the money problem by getting a better paying job, or obtaining skills that would enable you to get a better paying job. That would 1) allow you to go out more, and 2) create a better foundation for your own life, which would probably encourage others to meet you. Having dated someone with little-to-no money, I can tell you, it's not a lot of fun.
2007-01-04 13:12:30
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answered by chrisatmudd 4
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i'm going to assert "No!" on your question. I surely have chanced on that maximum adult men of their 30's and early 40's are divorced. there are a number of clarification why they may well be married via 30. They concentrated on there occupation's. while they're gentle financially , they seem for there existence better half. The divorce value is so intense. it is stressful to locate couples that have been married and/or courting over 10 years. i do no longer understand the place you bypass your information on the seven hundred club workforce yet I had chanced on 2 that weren't married till their 30's. Get married top after intense college? i could would desire to assert that's what society has have been given us thinking. in my view, it is grew to become into uncomplicated for our mum and dad to be married after intense college interior the previous due 50's to 70's. i do no longer think of it is the suited answer for now or the previous decade. the value of residing is distinctive and concentration on better training is why adult men and female have yet off get married after intense college. it is amazingly stressful to advance a family individuals on one earnings or 2 earning with in uncomplicated terms a intense college training. The question you're able to ask somebody over the age of 30 is: have you ever been married? while grew to become into your divorce? Do you have little ones? the youngster question is important. they do no longer would desire to been married to have a baby. once you ask those questions, you're able to have an theory on your ideas what type of guy or female you want to be with.
2016-10-06 11:06:03
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answered by ? 4
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but you are using the internet to post your question.
looking for love in bars is difficult for anyone.
have you tried striking up conversations else where, like in a cafe or at the library? perhaps one of your co-workers can play match maker and hook you up with one of thier friends or brothers.
2007-01-04 13:14:18
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answered by Anonymous
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You have to walk throught your void (loneliness ) You cannot dance around it . It's just a testing period in your life . WE are never truly alone . Never ! E-mail if you want I have alot of self help books I can share some of the titles with you .
2007-01-04 13:16:16
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answered by Tellie 4
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ifyou have a phone and a tv then maybe you could call the numbers ,they show up everyday on my tv,and if you want a girlfriend or a boyfriend you could just call and they'll hook you up.
but it cause a little bit of money
hope that helps.
2007-01-04 13:13:12
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answered by foune d 2
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YOU SAID YOU DIDN'T HAVE A COMPUTER,WHERE DID YOU SEND THIS E-MAIL FROM. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO TELL YOU TO DO, YOU SAID YOU WERE FLAT A** BROKE. AND ITS HARD TO DO MUCH WITHOUT MONEY IN N. Y.C. YOU MIGHT BE BETTER TO MOVE TO A PLACE THAT LIVING COST ISN'T SO HIGH.
2007-01-04 13:21:01
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answered by bettys 4
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find yourself a straight best female friend... you 2 can hang out together
2007-01-04 13:16:03
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answered by Anonymous
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