Okay he never takes a shower or brushes his teeth! he doesnt have a damn job because hes too busy out smoking and partying but the bad part is that hes 25! I keep telling him to grow up but he wont listen! He wont leave me alone! WHAT SHOULD I DO?????
2007-01-04 12:44:26 · 12 answers · asked by LOVE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just find someone better. He just can't learn from his mistake. If you never break up with him he will always remain the way he is. There is a good thing that you break up. Firstly, you are free from supporting him and no more worries. Secondly, you will make him more independent cause you are not supporting him anymore so he had to find job to support himself. By doing this you actually made him a better man. trust me if you are fated to be with him you should do something about it. Good luck.
2007-01-04 12:52:55 · answer #1 · answered by hafidz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you don't love him. Dump him and find a new guy. Seems like you know this is not turning out too well and I believe you should ditch him for a better guy who has a job and isn't too busy smoking and partying. Btw, is he also too busy smoking and partying to be with you?
2007-01-04 20:49:21 · answer #2 · answered by yoyay!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him of course!!! If he's too busy out smoking and partying, and he's 25, that's not a good sign of a boyfriend. At least not in my opinion.
2007-01-04 20:47:09 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i would tell him to stop doing all those stuff and if he still won't then i would break up with him.
If you really like him (cause he's your bf)..although you hate hilm for doing all this stuff then give him a lesson....or you can help him by keeping him busy by other good things to do like try to create a new hobby for him so that he won't get bored. Give him a gift and that is guess what...cool toothbrush and other sanitary stuff.
If that won't do...then...it's better to break up with him.
2007-01-04 20:51:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best advice is to sit him down alone tell him what he is doing. Let him know he is going no where in life. I don't know if you like him or not. If you do let him know you need his help and you need him to be clean so nothing you will get from him. If you don't like him let him know. Tell him you are not intrested in him and he needs to leave you alone or you will have the athourities involved.
2007-01-04 20:50:49 · answer #5 · answered by Nickolei 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't get better or even try, than DUMP HIM! You are obviously unhappy, and tell him this! Be nice about it at first, but if need be... act like a complete Bit*h. Whip him into shape...and if that doesn't work SCARE HIM AND TELL HIM YOU'LL leave his sorry a$$ and THEN where will he be? lol. Hope this helps =]
2007-01-04 20:48:56 · answer #6 · answered by Quin G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I had one of those too and he was 34!! I tried to give him a chance to get it together and man-up, got tired of waiting so I let him go. You should do the same
2007-01-04 20:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by jobs1012003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave him and put your foot down. i am single here my email address if you want to get to know a sweet cute and honest guy!! efrain78223@yahoo.com
2007-01-04 20:49:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ew that is so disgusting!
kick that creep to the curb and get someone who values personal hygeine.
2007-01-04 20:52:11 · answer #9 · answered by xocharliexo121 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, do u still love him??? cause if u dont, then just end it, and if you dont end it quick, its going to hurt a lot more later. good luck
2007-01-04 20:47:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋