Okay, well there is this guy (of course) and he used to flirt with me nonstop, and I would flirt back. But then things started going a little too far and he said that he loved me(I donno if he was joking or not, but still) and I got freaked. Also, he had/has a girlfriend but it was a long distance thing so I don't think it was THAT seroius, but I still COULD'T flirt with him without feeling guilty. Also, he was acting like a perv and he was stepping over my bounderies and invading my 'personal space' WAY too much, so I got fed up with him and told him to stop acting like a perv and to stop flirting with me because he had a girlfriend. He didn't really listen to me until I told him like, 25 times...but once he grasped that I was getting fed up with him, he stopped talking to me! Now he barely even talks to me and he seems to ignore me!! Now I think I'm starting to like him because he isn't a total perv anymore...but I acted like I hated him before so I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO NOW! HELP
2007-01-04 12:37:42 · 4 answers · asked by Quin G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me see if I've got this right ... there was this guy, who has a girlfriend and flirts with you, makes unwanted sexual advances and doesn't respect your wishes and boundaries when you ask him to stop. And now you think you've screwed up? Damn girl, that is pretty messed. Seriously - what are you thinking? He's not a total perv anymore - ya, with you, now, after you telling him to knock it off like 25 times. Do you really like this guy or is this a case of "I want him to want me" and liking the attention from this guy?
2007-01-04 12:47:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be friends it doesnt always work and sometimes the friendship comes later, get over the fact u flirted with him and all the things that went on, and say ur sowy. it will take time maybe cuz u both have to heal from the pain. if he wont b ur friend he aint worth ur time. trust me get over it u sound young there will be million more boyfriends and guys and friends.
2007-01-04 12:48:46 · answer #2 · answered by Mae-Day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you now like him...................because he's ignoring you
don't go there, this guys a creep, keep away and find someone who wants you, he's just game playing
2007-01-04 12:54:07 · answer #3 · answered by chickenhawk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to make up your mind...do you want to keep going back and fort....someone is going to getserious hurt..or worst.....
2007-01-04 12:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by tigerpawflorida@verizon.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋