My wife does not have any obhection. How can I tackle the conflict with society ?
2007-01-04 12:42:47 · 40 answers · asked by NONAME 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
What you mean by this???? Do you want to marry your sister in law & for that your wife does not have any objection. If this what you mean then go ahead marry her although your second marriage will be void but if your wife has no objection & she doesnt make a complaint against you under section 494 of the Indian Penal Code for bigamy then continue with both the sisters. What society will say just forget it. Dharmender married Hema Malini with the permision of his first wife what happened??? TWO DAUGHTERS & BOTH HUSBAND WIFE ARE MEMBER PARLIAMENT. Now tell me where is the society & what it did against them????
2007-01-04 23:37:00 · answer #1 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The society is correct, just imagine 20 years from now and you have children from your wife and also your sister-in-law. Maybe the children will demand for an explanation and justice, one day and you won't have an answer. They will not ask your wife or sister-in-law, because they will project themselves as victims of your lust, which is very acceptable, what will you say ? Do you have any answer for your actions, which today you can control.
2007-01-07 21:00:17 · answer #2 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do u define love, if it is lust it will pass soon and then again you will be on square one. If your wife is not objecting it may be due to her reasons, take the same on you, would you accept it if she loved you brother. Respect your wife and her decision and stay clear of your sis in law. Lust and infactuation all pass and fade with time. Sooner or later you will have kids. What will they have to say of this. It is not about soceity only it is all about your own family as well.
2007-01-05 20:08:23 · answer #3 · answered by Rajesh Lalwani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not worry about the society when u fall in love with ur sister in law(did u?).
It means that u didnot worry abt the societ that time also???
Then what the hell now u have to think abt the society.
Better live a happy life with your wife.
2007-01-04 17:42:58 · answer #4 · answered by Dina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your wife doesn't have any "obhection" go for it.
I have known a few sister that have shared their boyfriends.
2007-01-04 12:46:54 · answer #5 · answered by Mark B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no girl in the world who will not object her man getting married to another girl, that too to her sister unless she is no fit for marital life. if it is so she herself can propose this matte. by the way what is your sister in laws opinion.your question shows that your problem is only the society. if you three get into a unanimous decission than dont bother about the society.If you are really a society conscious man you would not have thought on this line.
2007-01-05 02:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by Muruks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not complete with your wife. You do not have integrity with your wife. someday she Will not be able to show integrity to you and you do not have any Right to ask for it. You may not be in love with wife's sister. it may be physical attraction. You are wasting one life for your lust. And wife must be some kind of pressure to accept this unholy relationship. You will not have real respect in society either.
2007-01-07 10:43:43 · answer #7 · answered by Manohar P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which leads to lot of mental as well as legal problems. If you are in India you cant marry a girl unless you are divorcee or your wife died by nature. (Dont think of killing her which will lead to different sasur ghar.
Think if she loves your younger brother or think she is having sex with him. How possesive will you feel.
Indian speciallity is the family structure. Dont think this extra marital live in peace divert your mind in some other useful things
2007-01-07 21:14:49 · answer #8 · answered by Raj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucky U ! trio..good luck, Have fun! If u three don't have any problem forget about society..that's not your problem..don't care about society..Old ppl used to do it in INDIA...so just follow them..Make sure unity stay between ur relationships...If u love ur wife why should u love her sister that's the point you should think about..u love her coz she allowed to do so...She did coz she is her sister..would u like to share ur wife with your brother? think this b4 u share her sister with you..
2007-01-04 13:07:00 · answer #9 · answered by Diya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude,
What if your wife tell something like this to you later ? will you be OK with that ?
I am sure you are going to have tuf time ahead! either from
1. Family
2. Society
3. Wife
4. Sister in Law
5. Stranger to you but familiar to your wife..
Cheers,
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2007-01-08 00:14:46 · answer #10 · answered by Jags 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋