This is my first marrage and I thought this was the one. He was very kind and sweet. But now he says he wants a divorce because he can do it on his own. Should I divorce him or should I still help him out.
2007-01-04 12:44:20 · 15 answers · asked by lovebite 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You have the upper hand in the matter. Do what makes you feel good about yourself and can help you toward a happier life if he's not going to be in it.
2007-01-04 12:49:00 · answer #1 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The very same thing happened to me. I was married to someone I believed loved me until he filed for divorce papers the day after his green card came in the mail.
You should leave him now and, in addition, you should notify immigration that he attempted to scam the system through a fake marriage and by convincing you to unknowingly enter into this marriage. They will deport him so fast that his head will spin and that is what he deserves.
I know you may this may seem mean but you have a duty to protect other American women from men like him.
2007-01-04 12:50:17 · answer #2 · answered by angihorn2006 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
You need to divorce him and send him packing back to his country.
I'm sorry that this happened to you, but you do not need to be a doormat. You deserve better and why reward this creep for taking you for a ride and wasting your time like this?
He took advantage of your emotions, now it is time to let him know that he will not get away with it. Make him pay and then send his sorry self back to where ever he came from.
2007-01-04 13:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by LeeLee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to an attorney who specializes in immigration laws and get it taken care of now. He can be in big trouble. Divorce him--yes--you can responsible for him.
2007-01-04 12:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm not one for taking a guy "to the cleaners" but however... With this guy.... I would take him to court and get every little dime i could out of that jerk! I would make him so sorry for using ME to get immigration papers.
2007-01-04 13:06:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you divorce him now before the Feds find out that you married him so he could stay in this country and they put your butt in jail.
2007-01-04 14:29:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce him / but see if you can have the marriage annuled -- also want to check with an attorney have his immigration reversed and ship his *** back where he came from.
2007-01-04 12:47:35 · answer #7 · answered by suz_e_q_zee 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
divorce him. he used you. why would you try to help him? you thought this was the one, but it was not. reverse his immigration.
2007-01-04 12:49:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he is using you, why not start using him. Contact the authorities to see what steps you need to take to have his citzenship reversed.
2007-01-04 12:51:02 · answer #9 · answered by Grand Ma Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it hard to believe that you didn't suspect anything from a foreigner who wants to become a citizen before now!
2007-01-04 13:50:08 · answer #10 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋