how can i show her that i love her,
2007-01-04 12:41:51 · 19 answers · asked by D M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
1st you married her.....so affection....appreciate her....don't take a day for granted.....http://www.sfheart.com/love.html
Love is patient, love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast,
it is not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking.
It is not easily angered,
it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil,
but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts,
always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails.
Bible
~I Corinthians 13:4-8~
2007-01-04 12:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by StaR'in 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have done something really bad to be thinking like that!! Well even so, the most important way is to tell her. Not just when you are getting off the telephone, or going to work, but everytime you kiss her, everytime she does something nice for you, and everytime you go to sleep. You should average about 6 I love you's a day. Also be thoughtful, try to notice when she cuts her hair, or when she cleans the house, always tell her that her meals are great, even if you have to choke them down. Give her a foot rub after work, and as a bonus to that she will probaby give one in return : 0 ) Also call her at least once a day when you are away from each other . All these things really help a relationship and keep a woman feeling appreciated. Also never leave socks or undies on the floor, make sure they make it to the hamper : 0 ) Flowers and presents may be great for one time but they really dont help relationships much.
2007-01-04 12:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by Tristin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do something romantic. Make a picnic dinner on the living room floor. Even if its with a pizza and some wine or something. Make a bubble bath with candles all around just for her. If you have children let her stay in the bath until the kids are in bed. Then light candles in your bedroom and ask her to join you in the bedroom. SEND HER FLOWERS AT WORK. Clean out her car and leave a hand written note on the seat. Leave little notes on the bathroom mirror that tells her you love her and your sorry that she has been so neglected and your sorry that you waited this long to show her the proper attention that she deserves and that your know she deserves better but you will do your best to show her more attention. And that you hope that you haven't totally pushed her away and ruined her life because of your selfishness.
2007-01-04 12:50:06 · answer #3 · answered by HDGranny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely you know what she loves to be pampered with. Every girl is different, but what is something that is a rare treasure for her? Is it a back massage from you with scented oils and soft lights? Is it a night out at her favorite restaurant and then the theater or ice skating? What does your wife love but rarely gets because of the fast paced world that sweeps us all away? Buy her her favorite flowers and invite her to a day or whatever time you can swing filled with those rare but well-well loved pamperings.
2007-01-04 12:49:27 · answer #4 · answered by Irish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In so many ways love can be displayed. In a loving marriage, I think respect is important. If a man really loves his wife, he will value her opinion, and will respect her views. Intimacy comes into play when you talk about expressions of love. Hugging, cuddling, kissing, caressing, holding hands, are just of few ways that a man can outwardly express his love through intimate expressions of that love.
2007-01-04 13:23:04 · answer #5 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well-how did you show her you loved her when you first met and courted her? be you and love her--hug her--dinner and a movie--the romance--Sunday drive--picnic--cuddling with popcorn in front of the tv and a good movie--a hug for her just because. A call from work to say- I love you--just because you do. A card and flowers--just because she's special.
2007-01-04 12:47:11 · answer #6 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Using good communication... Women need to know that they are appreciated and loved. Men most often feel loved through making love. Although if you rubbed your wife's back, or feet, or head. Held her and loved her with a selfless kind of affection. It really makes us feel bonded. Not that we don't need sex. But that is how we feel most loved. Sometimes us women just need that kind of love. It will make her feel close to you.
2007-01-04 12:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking the question, chances are you are already doing some things right. I can see it in my husband sometimes by something as small as a twinkle in his eye. You don't need to lavish gifts, just small stolen moments, favors, a call to just say hi, whatever. Chocolate is alway good though. :)
2007-01-04 12:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by D Marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a letter and tell her about how you fell in love with her and how your love for her grows stronger every day! Most women love letters, I know I do.
2007-01-04 12:49:57 · answer #9 · answered by veronica c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make plans to get away for the week-end.
go to Vegas an re-marry her.
send her some flowers at work Friday afternoon,the day you'll leave and on the note tell her don't make any plans.
and hurry home.
2007-01-04 12:55:43 · answer #10 · answered by hl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋