high school best friends, never lost friendship, still very interested in being a friend
2007-01-04 12:43:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If this is a boy/girl friendship then----Just "a friend" yes..anything more NO!!! Being friends with a married person means there is not much room for you *and* you MUST befriend the spouse as well...you must respect their marriage for the friend deal to work at all.
If it is a same sex bf then hell yes be friends, there is no dilemma
2007-01-04 12:49:11 · answer #1 · answered by Shelby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself if you are interested in just being a friend. From the way you asked your question, I get the feeling that you have more going on than you are telling yourself.
You need to understand how you feel about this person - it doesn't sound like a good idea to me for you to rekindle a friendship. This person is married and that (even in this day and age) must count for something. Do not even call or write. Stay out of his/her life and get on with your own.
2007-01-04 13:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by LABL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with rekindling a friendship with a married friend, if that's your only intention and there's no sexual attraction or chemistry! Besides, it's long distance so you should be safe!
2007-01-04 12:46:02 · answer #3 · answered by chokolaite_cutie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
of direction it is undesirable, yet i think of you already understand that. What grew to become into the factor in contacting her? and don't say "friendship". that's what your guy pals are for. those are those you carry close out with. Having an previous lady pal for a "pal" merely ability which you on no account extremely have been given over her and you want to work out if she feels the comparable way. while you're hassle-free with your self, you will admit it is precisely what you're doing. i've got faith undesirable on your spouse. How approximately having a "friendship" together with her quite?
2016-10-06 11:03:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong with a friendship with someone that is married?
If you do plan on being friends, get to know the spouse and include them in the friendship. So there is no chance of suspision or jealousy.
2007-01-04 12:47:10 · answer #5 · answered by DEE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not wrong. You will want to be sure that the spouse is aware of your contact if you decide to get in touch. The last thing you want is to be "discovered." Even if nothing is happening, it's difficult to explain.
2007-01-04 12:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by KD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer, and your asking it just tells me that you don't like your answer, but, that doesn't change the answer(NO), and you know it. I have had to face that same problem. God Bless you.
2007-01-04 12:47:16 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not a good idea - why is there a desire to rekindle - that is what you have to ask yourself
2007-01-04 12:45:22 · answer #8 · answered by Kirk 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if you were intimate with this friend and what your intentions are now.
2007-01-04 12:51:17 · answer #9 · answered by harleykicker01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound good. I don't think his wife would approve. How would you feel about the situation if you were her?
2007-01-04 12:46:27 · answer #10 · answered by Lavender 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋