My dads in jail what should i do to make me happy?

Question

My dads in jail for proabbly 10 years or more, so what do u think i should do, its not as easy as it sounds its hard when your mother does' nt have alot of money, and also my grandpa had a minor heart attack. PLEASE HELP

Answer 1

to anwser your first question, eat ice cream, thats what makes me happy!

Answer 2

do the same types of things that have always made you happy. But add to that talking with someone about anything that is bothering you.

Also, ask your mother to call Big Brothers organization on your behalf. This is an organization that matches adult men with boys who have no fathers or whose fathers simply aren't around. These men are role models for the boys and in many, many ways, do take the place of an absent father. They are someone to talk with about guy stuff and about stuff in general, and just help you to grow into a responsible adult. I have a neighbor who did this for her two sons when she split with her abusive husband. The father has very little contact with these young men, but their Big Brothers have been a huge influence in their lives, and they are two of the finest young men anyone would want to know.

It's a really good program.

Answer 3

First of all, realize that it isn't your fault that your Dad is in prison. He is responsible-not YOU. Depending on your age, you may be able to get a part time job to help your Mother with the finances. Do stand by her, as she didn't get your Dad in jail either.
We make ourselves happy when we can accept things as they are and reach out to help others.

Answer 4

whaty happened 2 ur dad isn't ur fault, u might not have alot of money but at least ur not on the streets, & at least ur grandfather is alive n that the heart attack was minor. whatever u do don't try u make urself happy through drugs or pot or beer or sex n all that crap cause i cannot tell u how many ppl who do that when it only makes life worse. u have 2 look on the bright side instead of all the bad stuff n u would probably be a lil happier :)

p.s.
here's some funny/inspirational vids that might cheer u up. :)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BFP0q4qzGw4

http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=631520452

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JM2OOfrVyJU

http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoid=676776221

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FH8BsQQLzoU

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n8iH0of2A58

Answer 5

Your hapiness should not depend on your dad, or on external circumstances.

Your happiness should depend on your attitude towards life. How do you see life and how do you live life.

If you allow yourself to let external circumstances determine your hapiness, you will be miserable the rest of your life.

Start changing now.

Answer 6

Confide in the lord he is the one with the answers.

God Bless
Grace Adare