I am deathly afraid of meeting his sisters and them finding something wrong with me! The three of them are extremely close and I think that he would do anything to please them because they're family and I'm coming in needing some serious approval. We are college students, so he lives about 400 miles away from me when we're not at school, meaning that when I do meet the rest of his family, I will probably be trapped in a house with them for an entire weekend. How do I calm myself down/get over my fear? Anyone who's a sibling who met another sibling's bf/gf, what can I do not to make a fool of myself?
2007-01-04 12:41:38 · 3 answers · asked by Cat Loves Her Sabres 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
CALM DOWN AND RELAX thats all you have to do i know its scary meeting new people but the best thing to do is relax then you are more the person that you are and they have more of a chance of likeing you if you show up nervous and stuff it shows so just be yourself and they will love
and remember if they dont they dont not everyones going to like you hopefully if thats the case then your dating a man and not a little boy im not syaing your family isnt imporant but if you love someone you love them no matter what anyone thinks
good luck
2007-01-04 12:56:18 · answer #1 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself.
If your bf is easily swayed by family members about you, then he really isn't worth it. Imagine you guys get married - the arguments you'd have as a result of his family getting involved in your relationship.
If his sisters don't like, but he stands up for his choice (ie you) then he's a keeper.
And you never know... you may actually really hit it off with his sisters !
2007-01-04 20:56:22 · answer #2 · answered by midnight_lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself way should you try to be something that you're not if he loves you then his siblings should respect that also. good luck
2007-01-04 20:58:30 · answer #3 · answered by emt_girl_50 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋