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there is this girl and i dont not know if she likes me. she is realy hot and very nice. i have knowen her for 5 years. also iam very affriad of rejection. this is the first time i have every thought about asking a girl out and i do not want to get my heart broken the first time

2007-01-04 12:41:55 · 12 answers · asked by mike m 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

12 answers

This is hard and it will only take you about 5min. The key is confidence! Here are some steps...


1. Get alone with her or call her on the phone.(which is hard because girls travel in packs)
2. Talk about stuff.(it helps if you are already friends with her)
3. Relax. Take a deep breath.
4. Smile.
5. Pop the question: '[name], will you go out with me?'
6. Relax, pay attention.
7. Listen to her reply.
8. Don't interrupt!
9. If the answer was 'Yes,' then congratulations! Within the next 24 hours, let her know how special she is.
10. If the answer was 'No,' that sux, I know. Respect her decision and talk with her about where to go from here, especially if you're friends.

Good Luck! and I hope she says YES!

2007-01-04 12:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by Adam 3 · 1 1

What? Is rejection going to beat the life out of you. Sure it hurts when someone beautiful says no to you. There are a lot of fish in the ocean and one will eventually say yes. Having your heart broken is all part of the journey. It's like you're saying you don't want to ride a bike because you'll fall on the first try, or like you won't take a test even if you've studied hard for it because you're afraid you might fail. This is real life, and you will never advance in life if you don't face your problems, because the more you don't face your fears, the bigger it gets for you to face, and the more ridiculous it looks to other people as time passes by.

2007-01-04 12:48:27 · answer #2 · answered by Hitch 3 · 1 0

When you fear losing you usually dont win. Fear of rejection=no date with hot girl. Just think positive, she says yes or she says no, the longer you wait the longer it bothers you or someone else will ask her out. If she says no, you know she's not for you and keep on moving. Just be in a positive state of mind and have confidence when you are going to ask her out.

2007-01-04 12:47:02 · answer #3 · answered by jason j 3 · 0 0

Don't ask her out, ask her to do something alone with you . Just see how she actes around you , then if you see she shows any interest tickle her, I am ****** serious man , just do it. and if she laughs and liked it just give her a look in her eyes that will let her know you like her and then ask how she feels about you.

Any dumb *** can fill in the rest.
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2007-01-04 12:50:01 · answer #4 · answered by www.soundclick.com/johnememphis 1 · 0 0

Take it with a grain of salt.. You never know what's behind that door unless you open it !!

Ask yourself "what is the very worse that can happen if she says "no."

Is the sky going to fall ????

2007-01-04 12:44:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Just compliment her and walk away and then she run back to you and you say by the way do you wanna go to a movie with me? Thats what I would do if I was a guy.

2007-01-04 12:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by I ♥ Joe Jonas! 4 · 0 0

write her a letter tell her how you feel and ask her to send a letter back to you. That way it is not so hard if there is rejection.

2007-01-04 12:46:02 · answer #7 · answered by leanne1303leanne 1 · 0 0

nothing ventured nothing gained. Same way as you ask an ugly girl btw. If she said no, that shouldnt break your heart

2007-01-04 12:43:51 · answer #8 · answered by ray 3 · 1 0

if you talk to her and she respond , maybe you should ask her. now if you decide to, i would try to get her away from other people and ask her if she wants to go out some time.
You can take he to a movie ice skating or to a mall.
hope it helped

2007-01-04 12:48:15 · answer #9 · answered by SamC 1 · 0 0

well first yall shood hang out ask her out on a date or jus to chill tell her u feelin her one day and u wanna go wit her dat shood do it

2007-01-04 12:43:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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