because she is starting to get on my last nerve when i come to a time i want to burst i don't so what should i do?
2007-01-04 12:44:12 · 15 answers · asked by cierrawomack9 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If she is a long-time friend, perhaps you need to do what they did in the movie "What About Bob?" and take a vacation..... spend some time apart. If you value the friendship. Be kind when you explain to her that her behaviour (whatever it is-- you might like to name it in a calm and friendly way). Good friendships will weather these confrontations.
If she is abusive, perhaps she isn't a friend.
Learn to be more assertive. The best method I know for removing fears around expressing myself has been the energy therapy known as Emotional Freedom Techniques. You can learn quickly and easily a method to bring your anxiety level down and recover your "voice" so that you can clearly tell your friend when she is violating your boundaries or when her behaviour is not serving either of you.... or perhaps you are being "triggered" and it really isn't about her at all. In either case, download the free "Get Started Package" at http://tinyurl.com/yh5zhu
All the best!
2007-01-04 12:52:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still be friends with her....but just put some distance between you.
A relationship doesn't have to stay the same....it can change as the people in the relationship change.
2007-01-04 12:46:55 · answer #2 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she your best friend? If so then don't it is not worth loosing your best friend..Me and my friend played this secret game when we told all our secrets about eachother that the other person didn't know play that with her and let her go first and if is a really juicy one then tell her how you fell and what she can change about herself
2007-01-04 12:45:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to tell her what's she does that gets on your nerves and if she doesn't stop the quit kicking it with her
2007-01-04 12:47:39 · answer #4 · answered by AKON-eisha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
B a sweethart like you r an just grin an bear. You will b proud you did!
2007-01-04 12:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about
i have a best friend who is just sooo annoying
but i cant do anything about it
thats just the way she is
try thinking about all the good things about your friend
it will help you alot
2007-01-04 12:47:39 · answer #6 · answered by SassyGirlyGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend like that. but yeah you should still be friends with her. just tell her that she's irritating you or whatever..sure she'll be hurt or mad at first but she'll understand in the long run. so yeha just talk it out with her
2007-01-04 12:46:52 · answer #7 · answered by Fabregas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No idea. But life is too short to spend your time being aggravated. If there's hope, talk to her. Be honest, not angry. If there's no hope, move on.
2007-01-04 12:46:51 · answer #8 · answered by KD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound like a friend, so why are you pretending that she is? Spend your time with someone who is a friend.
2007-01-04 12:48:00 · answer #9 · answered by skipdip 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her you only want to be little friends. just start hanging out with other people
2007-01-04 12:47:46 · answer #10 · answered by hottie h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋