Family & Relationships - 4 January 2007

Anytime I say my stomach hurts for any reason my boyfriend says are you pregnant. As if he's nervous. Then one day it pissed me off so I was like if your so worried about me getting pregnant why are you still having unprotected sex with me. Then I said if i am pregnant I'll just have an abortion. Which I really wouldnt do I just said it out of anger. It made him mad and he said no you wouldnt I'd take care of it. Now, his mom keeps telling me how she wants a knew grand kid to hold and love. They are freaking me out. What is the deal do they want me to have his baby?

2007-01-04 16:38:58 · 16 answers · asked by mystical 2 in Singles & Dating

I notice somethings like time and truth are seen by men and women differently. why do you think that is?

2007-01-04 16:38:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife came from Brazil and is from a wealthy family. She never worked and contributed much to the houshold expenses but wanted the best from me. I did very well until 911 when I lose my VP position. I used my credit to keep up our lifestyle to the tune of 100k. In March of 2006 she abandonded the marriage, took my son and moved into a luxery condo. This left me homeless, broke, in debt and almost has killed me. I am 56 and no company will hire me so I am sitting here bleeding what money I can scrape up to pay for my little apartment and the attorney fees. Her family has come in and is bank rolling her with attorneys to drive me completely under so they can get my son and move him back to South America, I am truley at a loss at what to do. I am scared of these people. They are ruthless. Any suggestions?

2007-01-04 16:37:59 · 12 answers · asked by pro1fit1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we've been together for 5 years we are not married but i jus found out two months ago that he was cheating on me i broke up with him and i told him to get out of my house but he is begging to come back i decided not to because im hurt i gave him my heart and respect and took it and threw it away last night he came over and asked me to marry him but he is still with the other women and he says that he loves me. what should i do????

2007-01-04 16:36:17 · 15 answers · asked by T3ARZ 1 in Singles & Dating

i love my boyfriend, and he loves me back, and i know he does. weve been going out for 4 months, and he asked if i was ready for just touchy stuff. i wasnt sure what to say, but i love him, so i tihnk im ready for that. should i?

i also wanted to ask when i should feel ready for sex with him. i know hes ready, but am i? like, im 16, so, its ok if i feel ready, right??

2007-01-04 16:35:40 · 18 answers · asked by Huh? 5 in Singles & Dating

I need to humiliate a back-stabbing *****!!! HELP ME............

She is poor and a liar!!! UGH!

2007-01-04 16:34:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this girl is very popular. she is not in any one of my classes but she is in my hall. she is one of the most popular girl in my grade. she is a prep. i am very unpopulare. i don't got that many friends. another problem is i don't know what to say out of nowhere to here to start flerting. any ideas. i am afraid to try to flert and her going like uh, why is he talking to me all the sudden randomly out of nowhere. or she may say matt go away." i don't know her. i have never talked to her in my life. she is always busy talking to her preppy sporty guy friends and preppy girl friends of hers. what do i do.

2007-01-04 16:34:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a gal who is a co-worker and I beleive she is flirting with me. The problem is I cant really tell she is. She poking me in the ribs when she sees me, and she rubs up against me. Shes either into me or shes just trying to have. I have ask her what she thinks of me, but I thinks she lies when she says no.
Any help

2007-01-04 16:33:17 · 5 answers · asked by Tony F 2 in Singles & Dating

over nothing really.. just why do we all do it

2007-01-04 16:33:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Today by conincidence I met a guy I like very much (we havent met for three weeks.), I was very happy to see him and he seemed very happy to see me also. He was smiling alot while we were talking..We began talking about some of our artpiece..and then he asked me to show him mines..He said that he was going to come over to my house for my artpiece..and reminded me to clean my room~....wut does i guy mean when he ask you to clean your room. Should I clean my room? yes or NO? Do you think he likes me...

2007-01-04 16:32:00 · 6 answers · asked by Teddi G 2 in Singles & Dating

Need profesional help.My hubby is the type he dont really like to have sex so frequent.even once a month.if we have it,its hard to get him satisfy.Why?Can anyone please help me???

2007-01-04 16:31:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Sometimes I think he's cheating with a Mustang convertible---anyone?

2007-01-04 16:31:30 · 16 answers · asked by Virgo 4 in Marriage & Divorce

he cheated on me but insists that i was messing around first which i didnt

2007-01-04 16:29:52 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I left my cheating husband after 2 children. My youngest was 11 months old. He begged me to have another child, and pretty much forced me to have unprotected sex, I had a baby girl and found out he was cheating the whole time. He refused to give up the other woman and I thought I would die inside. I had no where to go. My mother was sick and died, and there I was with 2 little kids. I still hate his rotten guts to this day. We ended up with no utlities, no water, couldnt flush the stool unless we borrowed water from the neighbors. Had to use a kerosene heater to keep 1 room of our house warm in March and he was out with his new woman. We were almost homeless and I had to apply for public aid. I had no money, no food, no way to cook food and was about to end it all when slowly things improved. Have you ever been thru this? How does it feel?

2007-01-04 16:29:17 · 21 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Anyone know where to go from here, I have looked on every website & the statet of Michigan claim that they cannot locate anything. Thanks

2007-01-04 16:29:06 · 3 answers · asked by erica t 2 in Family

My little brother loves to play with dolls. He'd rather do that then trucks, or other little boy stuff. He's 8 - is that normal?

2007-01-04 16:28:09 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

skool is about to start, but im always too shy to make new friends or say things aloud. what should i do?

2007-01-04 16:27:27 · 7 answers · asked by big pretty eyes 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i really like this guy but then he always makes fun of me saying im short n calling me chopstick arms him n his friends all make fun of me sometimes its jokingly but da first word tat comes outta his mouth is always an insult! grr he's called me ugly n everything he always laughs n it sounds like its a joke but im not sure if it is but da thing is whenever im talking 2 another guy hes always like eww gross stop flirting w/ each other or something like tat -.-"" lol XDD but then sometimes i ignore him n when i do he gets all serious faced after a while it kinda seems like he's jealous o.O tat really confuses me half of my friends say he likes me cuz they saw him staring at me half says he dont wat should i do n wat r da signs of him liking me? he can b such a jerk sometimes 2 -.-"" n i think he really means those insults but im not sure plz help o yea im only in 6th grade n hes in 7th XDD

2007-01-04 16:27:20 · 3 answers · asked by linda a 1 in Singles & Dating

look there's this guy that drives me crazy i miss him a lot because i' m in christmas vacations and i miss him i want to hug him and kis him. every second i can't stop thinking of the happy times with him. we are friends but he asked me out and i told him i 'm going to have my answer when we come back from vacations. i want to say yes! but i'm not realy sure if i'm really in love. what do you guys think but not to be bussy but please good answers coming from the heart thanxs!

2007-01-04 16:25:25 · 14 answers · asked by Any 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 30. My college ex says (age 29) he's trying to figure out how he feels about me and wants to have sex to find his answer. I told him that since a dear relative died this summer I realize that the only chance to see that relative again is to go to heaven when I die. We don't talk much anymore. No biggie.

A different guy that I dated this summer (age 23) is visiting town and I'm really looking forward to seeing him but don't want to have sex for the same reason. He knows my preference and is coming anyway. Techniques to resist the urge after a 6 month dry spell would be really helpful since I don't want to avoid hanging out with him.

I'm not worried about the impact of not sleeping with him because I feel that if he really cares, he'll try to respect my decision even though I'm sure he'll attempt to get me to change my mind.

2007-01-04 16:24:00 · 6 answers · asked by Charming Taurus 3 in Singles & Dating

I just found out that my future mother-in-law is telling my fiancee that I'm very spoiled. I'm not sure about what she means because I am very grateful for what my parents have helped me with. I'm still a college student and my folks give me a couple of hundred a month, plus pay for my car (a deal my dad and I made if I got a scholarship to college). I work part time to pay for rent and extras and work hard to get mostly A's with a few B's for grades in a tough academic situation. His parents are hard working from a farming community. They paid for his $150 insurance payment for the month of December and called that his Christmas present.

Do you think that being spoiled is measured by the amount of money a person has? Or, is being spoiled defined by how a person acts and treats other people? How should I handle this situation:

Many Thanks

2007-01-04 16:23:56 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

would you date or marry a guy who's 16 years older than you, why and why not?

2007-01-04 16:23:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have so much stress in my life. and i try to avoid it. and i try to get rid of it. my mom recently died. my grades are crap. my boyfriend of 2 years well we broke up. im losing friends cuz i cant get over my ex. Im thinking of suicide. id ont know wha tto do anymore. HELP. what do i do? i have no one i feel comfortable talking too at school or at home. so i turned to you.

2007-01-04 16:23:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm 22 and he is 36. He is single. For a man to be this old and still single,never been married does he have issues?We flirt all of the time and it seems like he has liked me before.i don't know if he still does.And would a man at this age really like a girl thats my age or does he just want some?He pays attention to me,asks me questions,laughs with me,smiles at me and sometimes he stands next to me. Sometimes looks at me when he thinks i'm not looking .I have heard that he is shy when it comes to this stuff but he is a really outgoing guy.someone said to me they can't understand why we are both still single because we are both outgoing.He's a gentlemen with me and walks with me sometimes.always waves hello and goodbye.Jokes around with me and tries to see what my reaction is.He has also asked me to hang out with him before.what do you think of my situation.i said no when he asked me to hang out so he's probably afraid i'll reject him even more.do you think so

2007-01-04 16:22:59 · 7 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

my gf got mad at me for getting fired...but it wadn't my fault. they just dont like me down there. then she got mad at me cuz i forgot to pick up her kid at school....but i was like wtf..i used to have to walk home from school when i was a boy...why cant the lil booger walk home from kindergarten??

and then she go upset because i accidentally went to the bathroom on the bed in the middle of the night by accident....and got poop all over her new sheets she got for christmas. but i dont remember doing it..and i said i was sorry.

she still upset with me...but what do i say?

2007-01-04 16:22:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found out (by looking at the history on computer) that my husband of 13 years opened a myspace account just yesterday. This did'nt concern me, what did was the details of his profile: Status: SINGLE Sign: SCORPIO Children: DON'T WANT ANY KIDS . Mind you we have to children ages 6 & 8 ! He does not know that I figured out his password or know about this at all. Since he just opened the account no messages, blogs,etc. have been posted. Should I feel hurt by him posting this? Could this be how he really wants his life to be? We have our ups & downs like anyone else and have what I thought was a normal marriage! I'm not sure what to do or even how to feel right now.

2007-01-04 16:22:23 · 21 answers · asked by Tammers 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My co-worker has just left on wednesday for college and he did call me that morning right after he woke up but when i called him that night he still hasnt returned my call. He likes to party, but mostly just to hang out with friends. He hasnt said that he liked me but he did ask me out and we did tease each other that we each would go out with the other. And we each said yea. We did hook up- just went to kiss him on the cheek and he got the kiss on the cheek but then leaned in for more....we kissed alot but nothing more than that. Hes so nice and did say before we kissed that he really wants a serious gf and he hates hook ups, is he just too busy to call? Or is he blowing me off? Or is he one of those guys who has time but only a little bit of it and doesnt want to just talk for a second?

2007-01-04 16:22:11 · 2 answers · asked by Ang B 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend of three years is the best friend I could ever wish to have. But there's a slight hitch. She has Borderline Personality Disorder and Multiple Personality Disorder. She is actually ten people, all of which care for me dearly. But one of them decided to inform me that she was ten people. After I accepted it and etc, she switched to a different person, who didnt like that I knew about all of them, so that person told me to forget everything. So I did. Then my friend(/friends) goes weeks without talking to me because she needs to be a "hermit". Then she appologizes for things she hasnt done. Then she asks me to hate her. So I oblige, and tell her that I am not happy with her (even though I was okay with her, I was just pretending) but she didnt like it, so she told me that she only wanted me to hate her a little bit...So, all in all, I have ten friends inside one person, all of which have Borderline Personality Disorder. Any suggestions on how I can help her/them?

2007-01-04 16:21:52 · 11 answers · asked by Riss 2 in Friends

Okay, so I've asked a lot of questions about the fights between my husband and I and I didn't want to have to talk about this, but it's really bothering me.

I had an eating disorder for 11 years. My husband (bf and fiance' at the time) was really supportive and really helped me overcome my problem, and when I got pregnant, I really straightened up and I haven't gone back to that behavior. The thing is, I completely ruined my metabolism with my E.D. and I gained A LOT of weight while I was pregnant. (despite the fact that I had gestational diabetes and was on a strict diet) I went from a size 5-7 to a 18-20. I know this has to be difficult for him because I no longer look like the person he married almost two years ago, and he's never put me down for it..matter of fact, he still tells me I'm pretty everyday. BUT, he doesn't act the same as he did before. He seems to be "tired" a lot and doesn't really have time for "us". You know what I mean. It makes me feel horrible about myself..

2007-01-04 16:21:22 · 9 answers · asked by ... 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was assaulted and became disabled 4 years ago.I have had 5 back surgeries and cannot lift more than 15 lbs.I have two kids ages 2 and 4. She has three older boys 18 to 8.we live in washington state and are not married. things have changed alot since I got hurt and I don't think we'll be able to stay together.She is really mean to me I know she's trying to drive me out so I'll just get frustrated and leave without my kids. I would have to get some help in caring for my kids but not a lot. I am on SSI and get a small pension from L&I as I was assaulted at work. I do have to take pain meds. She is verbally abusive to the children and I think they would be better off with me I know she will fight me tooth and nail.I don't want to leave them here that is why I have stayed until now. but it gets worse everyday.can anyone please give me some advice on what I need to do

2007-01-04 16:20:22 · 6 answers · asked by charles p 1 in Marriage & Divorce