Need profesional help.My hubby is the type he dont really like to have sex so frequent.even once a month.if we have it,its hard to get him satisfy.Why?Can anyone please help me???
2007-01-04 16:31:36 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How can we get baby if he is not satisfy and refuse to have sex?
2007-01-04 16:35:47 · update #1
He "come" more when he masturbate by himself...how come??i really want him to feel more sayisfy...we are couple...please
2007-01-04 16:38:14 · update #2
sucking it works really well
2007-01-04 16:35:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is gay and has not come out of the closet completely. Maybe he is not attracted to you any more. Maybe he is having his needs met elsewhere. Than, again maybe you only treat him nice in bed (when you want sex), maybe if you stop chasing him you will give him the chance to seduce you. Everything is circumstantial, Is he healthy? Is he on medications? Is he too old? How long have you been married? Sometimes sex becomes so boring and monotonous that you prefer to eat, watch a movie or read. Than again maybe you never got to know each other and you (both) started a sexual relationship. Relationships are more than sex. Sex is the mirror of the entire relationship. I hope all these ??? help you analyze the situation because Aha! You do know what is going on.
2007-01-04 16:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him have a hobby and some space. A workshop to tinker in, with a fridge full of beer. A pin-up calendar, a 32" TV with DVD player, a collection of porno movies, and a Lazy Boy in the basement.
If a few weeks of that doesn't get the ole Testosterone flowing, and have him feeling like a man, then get him a sewing room, a ton of fabric, a subscription to Stallion Magazine and let him design clothing, and make a fortune. Travel the world, and don't worry about whether HE'S satisfied, just worry about your own satisfaction. Period.
In the immortal words of Tupac... I gotta get mine, you gotta get yours...
2007-01-04 16:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by daddykevin13 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you wanting professional help look in the yellow pages. But I have heard of some men not being able to get a stiffly. Also you could give him some porn DVDs to see which type turns him on more could be just bored of the same type of sex over and over. Could be that as he is getting old he's getting a lower spawn count.
2007-01-04 16:40:45 · answer #4 · answered by pauleyfrombrisbane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a man and have the same problem but it's with my girl. Maybe you and I should get together and also introduce them to each other, it seems to be a win win situation, what do you say>?
No really, I know you don't want to face it but your Hubby is having an affair and it's because you don't do it for him anymore. Find out who the other chick is and if you still want the dude then take her to lunch and find out what it is about her that turns him on. Then do what she does, else, kick him to the curb.
2007-01-04 16:43:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's having problems getting it up - is he on meds? Is he older? Does he have high blood pressure? Is he depressed? Maybe he doesn't want a baby! There are tons of reasons, so a medical checkup would be in order and then have an honest discussion with him to see what he'd like to do.
2007-01-04 16:35:32 · answer #6 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
may be their is some thing medically wrong w/him! i don't think I've ever met a guy who doesn't like sex! usually it's us who turn them down. I'd just ask him why he's that way! maybe something bad happen to him when he was younger or something.
2007-01-04 16:36:19 · answer #7 · answered by rblankenship_rblankenship 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need a professional help, you need a doctor or psychiatrist...there is a problem you cant help him alone....and if you are worried and not happy as I sense please don't think of getting pregnant babies need both parents so if you are not happy may b your relation won't last. work on your problem first solve it...and good luck to you.
2007-01-04 16:36:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right. You do need Professional help.
You left alot out.
His age ?
How long you've been married ?
If it's always been this way ?
Is he cheating ?
Viagra use ever thought of ?
2007-01-04 16:44:36 · answer #9 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him freely visit the person he is having sex with. That should satisfy him.
2007-01-04 16:38:59 · answer #10 · answered by sorcergeek 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wait - there's guys that DON'T like sex? Huh?
When did this happen?
2007-01-04 16:34:14 · answer #11 · answered by degendave99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋