i have so much stress in my life. and i try to avoid it. and i try to get rid of it. my mom recently died. my grades are crap. my boyfriend of 2 years well we broke up. im losing friends cuz i cant get over my ex. Im thinking of suicide. id ont know wha tto do anymore. HELP. what do i do? i have no one i feel comfortable talking too at school or at home. so i turned to you.
2007-01-04 16:23:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
mind you i have been to the counselor at school and it hasnt helped.
and i dont go to church.
i dont want to commit suicide.
and i said i was thinking about it. i have just been thinking thoughts along the lines of suicide. i just want everything back to normal.
2007-01-04 16:32:46 · update #1
Suicide is a very selfish answer to very solveable problems. You should go see a grief counselor to talk about your mothers death. Or go see the guidance counselor at school. You could see your pastor or priest.
2007-01-04 16:30:03 · answer #1 · answered by Mom of Three 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear about your mom dying, that sucks. As for the b/f, i know it's going to be hard, but right now forget about him. You need to focus on you. Obviously your friends aren't true friends. What you need to do is cry. It sounds dumb, but crying feels good. Cry about everything, your mom, your friends, your b/f and then blow your nose and move on. You can be bummed about your mom, because that is probably the hardest thing to get through now (if you were close). Anyway, after the cry, focus on your grades. You need to do well so you can reach your goals in life. Whatever you do, don't hurt yourself in any way. I know it's tough. I have been there. It's not going to go away in a couple of days, you need to work on it for a while. Just stay focused on the good things you have going in your life, no matter how trivial you think they are. The more you focus on the good things, the easier it is to find them. This is going to be difficult, but you need to be strong and you will be ok. You are going to have good days and bad days. Sometimes you may need to cry, that's ok. But keep looking up and look for the good things in life...even if it's just a sunny day, smile about that. Trust me, things will get better.
2007-01-04 16:41:37 · answer #2 · answered by Elizabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your doctor and tell him, and or your school concelor. You need help now if you commit suicide your going to leave a lot of people behind that love you and need you. The boyfriend isn't worth losing your life over. NOTHING IS. Please think of the people that do love you. True you heart is broken from the loss of your mother; however think of all the people that you can help when you start dealing with her death. That takes time to deal with and its not easy. Think of the good times you shared with her. Who can replace you? NO ONE! You are on this earth for a reason and you are still young it sounds like to me according to your still in some type of school. Life has its ups and downs sweetie and its hard sometimes. I've had heart ache all of my life and I'm 44 my family thinks horrible of me because I admitted to my faults and they attacked my weekness. I started changing my life and now I'm called crazy. I help my parents and they talk horrible about me to all of my brothers and sister............... I know I'm not what they think but it hurts and I had to get help because my health went from working two jobs to support my daughter and stress caused by family. I wanted to die a lot but I just never had it in me to hurt the ones I love. Sounds like a joke, after what they've put me through. But, I do have two Children that are grown one I wouldnt for anything in this world he's gentle, the other is a lot like my d=family that has codemed me I don't think it would hurt her that much, so I know where your coming from and I'm still holding on for the hopes that my life will get better, a miracle that my health will change. And a miracle that my family that I love so much will change there cold hearts. PLEASE TALK TO SOMEONE SOON.
2007-01-04 16:55:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think of suicide...baby...it's the stupidest act anyone can do
Rest of your life is still left.
I am sorry for your mom.. but look into your life in proffesional way.....there is so much to achieve.....most of the times grades are of no use
Most useful thing here is meditation
Talk to your friends how you are feeling...or make new friends
There is so much to do in the life
Forget about your bf.... maybe u could get a better one
Wash ur face... and be smart
2007-01-04 16:41:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 11:21:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please take it easy. I know how it feels. Give yourself time to heal, and don't worry about things that are not in your control. Do constructive things in your free and busy time, and let it pass.
Life comes in phases.. with God there is always a Happy ending awaiting you at the end of the tunnel. So, flow through this tough time and it will pass.
As they say, the best antidote to stress it - Take it easy!
If you keep on worrying, u will only make it worse and get depressed. Go for a jog, take a cool shower, get light, and do what's right.
God bless, and do keep smiling.. like - this!! :)
2007-01-04 16:42:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find something to relief the stress, i carve, wittle, and draw
your mom, well people die, its a fact of life
if you two broke up then it just wasnt meant to be
just tell your friends to give you some space until you are feeling better or let them help
if you commit suicide then there is somebody (at least one person) that will be crushed
2007-01-04 16:38:45 · answer #7 · answered by hello 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see wen the bad things come up..they all come up at once.. i can understand wht u r going thru and its really tough but stay strong...its not like its end of the world..
as for the boyfriend.. i know its hard to forget someone who u loved for 2 years.. i mean c'mon its very tough but u gotta forget him for ur own sake.. b'coz of this u r ruinning ur relationship with ur friends..and most of all ur grades..
i m sorry to hear about ur mom.. i m really sorry but just try to surround urself wid ppl u love.. then u will feel much better..
i hope wat i said kind a helped but please whoever u r..dont kill urself..
i knw life is hard but u have a whole life ahead of u..please dunt ruin it..
please..
neways i hope my writting helped u..
god bless u
2007-01-04 16:33:37 · answer #8 · answered by meee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-07 05:53:33 · answer #9 · answered by MJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-06 04:17:31 · answer #10 · answered by marketingexpert 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋